The pair of superb parents in Fanxin are really not a thing!

If it could, the navy would like to run and beat them up now, so that all hearts can be relieved of their hatred and surrender to the fire!

It was understandable to ask him for money as an outsider in the past, after all, it was under special circumstances at that time. (Affiliation)

Now it's not just about robbing Fanxin's hard-earned money to buy a house that shelters from the wind and rain, and even has to take the money out of Fanxin to "redeem himself" in order to get a free body and go out of the house, is this something that his biological father and mother can do? !

When he was a child, there was a nest of swallows nesting on the beams of his house.

He saw that the two big swallows were working hard to forage outside each time, and when they came back, they hurriedly fed their children the food they had worked so hard to find.

When he was a child, he was ignorant, so Xiao Haijun asked his mother what the big bird was doing there? The mother took him in her arms and said, "This is the big bird hurting his child!"

Even the birds and birds know that they love their children, and this family is simply inferior to beasts!

How sad Xiao Fan's heart must be! But the whip can't help her!

Influenced by Comrade One Piece, he also recently read the parenting book. He remembers a book about the basics of parenthood.

Parents should first give their children careful care and attention to their bodies, and ensure that their children grow up with adequate nutrition;

Be loving to your children, give them the opportunity to contact with other children or adults, care about their psychological growth, and promote physical exercise and intellectual function;

Finally, through their own social experience of growing up, they can help children adapt to the social environment as soon as possible.

But what did Gu Zhongyi and his wife do to their daughter?

Not only did they lack love and neglect Fan Xin, but they also abused their own daughter, and they didn't give Fan Xin enough food when they were so young!

As a daughter, Xiao Fanxin could not get the physical and mental care she needed for healthy growth under the 'wings' of that parent! On the contrary, she got more physical and mental torture!

And so little parents ruthlessly kicked her out, running around every day in the wind and rain, letting her put ducks everywhere!

It's not just that, it's more than that, it's both physical and emotional!

Fan Xin and Gu Pengcheng are obviously twin children born together, but one is that the girl was trampled under the soles of their feet like grass, and the other boy was held in the palm of their hands as a treasure!

The two children are also very different in terms of physical development: one is skinny and boneless, and the other is as fat as a pig!

It's so eccentric that you want to pick them up and beat them!

Because many things in the book are similar to Fan Xin, the Navy read it seriously, hoping to make up for the lack of love in Xiao Fan Xin's childhood as much as possible.

He also heard that emotional abuse is the hardest to cure!

Because it is not as obvious as physical abuse, there is no physical damage, so it is difficult to be detected, but its psychological impact on the child is repeated and tortuous.

Then there is verbal abuse, which is verbal abuse.

Before the birthmark on her face disappeared, Xiao Fanxin kept hearing from her parents' mouths how annoying, ugly, stupid, and a burden she was, and she didn't even give her a decent name, she was always called "dead girl" and "ugly monster"!

And he is the scapegoat of the family, and even his younger brother will even be greatly encouraged by his parents for abusing his sister or despising and ignoring her!

As the only son in the family before his mother's death, the Navy did not have such an eccentric experience of 'special treatment'.

But he could empathize with Xiao Fanxin's tormented and painful feeling.

Parental abuse of a child, which may manifest as a developmental disorder when a child is young. Isn't Xiao Fanxin a living example?!

In addition, if the parents are still unable to meet the child's demands emotionally, the child may become depressed and eventually lose his sense of self.

The book says that children are generally abused because they are not cute or disappointing their parents, but Xiao Fanxin is so sensible and cute, has she made a mistake?

How innocent she is! How unfair it is to her!

The abused little mortal heart grew up with the self-impression that he was ugly, worthless, and annoying!

I heard that children who grow up in such an environment will not trust this unfriendly world when they grow up, thinking that happiness, praise and love do not exist at all!

Fortunately, Xiao Fanxin did not lose confidence in this world, but faced the world positively and optimistically!

Born but not raised, abandoned like a shoe, never fulfilled the slightest responsibility as a parent, Xiao Fanxin has to suffer from the so-called parents again and again because of this!

Thinking of Xiao Fanxin's words, the navy panicked.

When he called, he could imagine that Fan Xin tried his best not to cry, and said to him lightly, but his eyes must have been red......

He doesn't know what will happen to other people's children when they encounter such a thing, but he will definitely not be as calm as Xiao Fanxin, and he will definitely not be so willing to give up as her.

He kept thinking that it would be nice if Fan Xin cried and cried in front of him to vent the pain in his heart, but in the end, she just brought it over in a soft voice, so strong that it made people feel distressed, and he couldn't wait for people to take care of her in his arms.

He took a deep breath and suppressed his anger. As a soldier, you must put the country first, and you must be willing to let go of your children's personal feelings.

……

"I've thought about it, two thousand yuan is two thousand yuan, money can buy a lot of things, but no amount of money can buy real hearts, and I can't buy two relatives who are really good to me. ”

"What? You're really willing! Really give them money!" Zhang Minyi screamed.

"If you are willing to give, you will have to give. 2,000 yuan was given to them, and in their words, I had already earned it! Although I gave up 2,000 yuan, what I got back was the sincere love of my master and wife. I've also earned !!"

On the phone, Gu Fanxin and Zhang Minyi teased themselves easily.

A loss may turn out to be a gain?

Gu Fanxin really feels that she is very lucky, no matter what kind of experience she has had, no matter what kind of suffering she has had.

Fortunately, I met love at the corner of fate, and finally met my master and wife who really loved me.

There is a famous saying that says, "When God closes one door for you, he opens another window for you." ”

The meaning of this sentence is that a person's gains and losses are conserved, and if you lose something in one place, you will definitely find some in another place.

Life will inevitably not be smooth sailing, and there will be many ups and downs. It gives humanity the best gift of all, "freedom", but it comes at a price.

In other words, it allows you to be painfully tempered in this world, and at the same time it prepares you with the best rewards.