So Xu Qing still doesn't have that idea about Lin Jiayan, but at the stage when Lin Jiayan was a little sad, when others joked about Xu Qing and Lin Jiayan, Xu Qing was indeed not suitable to be too indifferent.

And in fact, in fact, Xu Qing is almost clear, and Lin Jiayan also knows the situation between the two sides.

How to say, girls need pain. So if you are an ordinary girl, if you are delicate, there is nothing wrong with it. It's okay to sell cute, and many boys still like it very much.

To put it simply, girls in this style, in fact, Xu Qing also likes it. If you have time, you can be very happy if you have nothing to do and spend the next month.

But in the end, this style of girl is not suitable for career-oriented men.

The man works outside every day and is tired when he comes home. As a result, my wife still has to sell cute, you will be angry if you are not enthusiastic, and you have to coax.

Not to mention that working outside is very hard and tiring, and I have to coax my wife when I go home. In this case, it is really going to collapse sooner or later.

It's not that this type of girl is not good enough to marry back as a wife. It's just that it's a bit inappropriate with a career-oriented man.

If you want a girl of this style, the most suitable is actually the rich second generation, and it has to be a good-tempered rich second generation. To put it simply, people are already in a relaxed situation every day. If you have a little temper, it's not that people can't coax you. As long as I love you enough, it's normal to coax you.

But let's put it this way, how many of the rich second generation are good-tempered? So girls with this style actually have to be cautious in front of the rich second generation. It's okay to have a little temper, but look at the timing. If it's a critical time for the rich second generation to play games, you have to be angry. I'm sorry, I'm not used to your problem, just kick it.

In fact, there are not so many rich second generations. The vast majority of girls with this kind of personality eventually have to find ordinary people to marry.

There is a saying that if you love a girl, of course you have to endure the girl's willfulness. When someone marries you, they are handing over their lives to you, what's wrong with losing their temper with you?

To put it simply, Xu Qing agrees with such a statement. Let's not talk about the equality of men and women, when have men and women ever been equal?

After all, in this day and age, girls are actually much easier than boys.

The man is out earning money to support his family and is crazy tired. Most of the time, girls don't have to work too hard.

A man is busy with his career, but because he is busy with his career, he completely ignores his wife's feelings. That's definitely a man's fault.

So even if you are a career-oriented man, you must find time to spend with your wife. Even if you spend eighty percent of your time busy with your career, you still have to take out twenty percent of your time.

But to put it simply, the busier you are outside, the more you want to be at home.

It's okay to accompany your wife, but it's best to get along with each other warmly. If you accompany your wife, your wife has to take the initiative to increase the difficulty, all kinds of temper tantrums, and let the man comfort her.

It's okay once or twice, but who can last a lifetime?

When a woman marries a man, she is equivalent to giving herself into the hands of a man for the rest of her life. So it is indeed as it should be for men to coax women.

But the man coaxed the woman, and the man suffered a lot of grievances for this family. Who has comforted men?

I was scolded by the leader at work outside, and I didn't get too much bonus in the end, and I felt uncomfortable. After returning home, I had to coax my wife desperately. Who can persist in such a situation for a lifetime?

In fact, even if you do persevere, the situation is different.

If the woman's other conditions are the same, but it is the character of a virtuous helper. A man might love this woman 100 percent. In this case, the man should ignore the woman's feelings. It's really green, and it deserves it.

But if other conditions are the same, girls are such girls who often play with their tempers. Even because of such and such concerns, in the end, this marriage did not reach the point of collapse.

But to put it simply, if you are blocked like this every day, there is not much love at all. Men suffer so many grievances every day that they go home and have no place to talk about it. There are possibilities that I can't think of for a while.

So to put it simply, after getting married, the woman is a little willful, and the man should really give way. But if the woman gets worse, she has always been so ignorant. In fact, it belongs to the situation of burying this relationship with his own hands.

Every time a man goes home, he will be angry with all kinds of women. Of course, my heart is blocked in the long run. I don't want to go home, so I go outside and spend a lot of time. On the one hand, this man is like this by nature, but it is also possible that he was really forced by his wife at home.

If it is a woman's gentleness, but the man completely ignores the woman's feelings when taking care of his career. That is, the woman really did something, and most people can actually understand it.

But you force the man so that he doesn't want to go home, and then you claim that you are lonely and cheat. I'm sorry, a scumbag is a scumbag, and no amount of explanation can change this fact.

So the actual situation is that after starting a family, the woman's rude words are actually equivalent to opening up the distance between her husband and her own hands. It's definitely a drifting away. If you can't stand it, you will divorce, and if you can stand it, you will continue to maintain it. But after a long time, there is actually no affection between the two parties.

Lin Jiayan's words here have never been that kind of brutal character. And in fact, Xu Qing knew very well a long time ago that Lin Jiayan had a sense of maturity that did not match her age.

The point that best reflects Lin Jiayan's character is Lin Jiayan's choice to stay in school after graduation.

To put it simply, who doesn't have a dream of stardom? Just show your face every day, shoot a few commercials, and your income will come out in the tens of millions and hundreds of millions a year. Give it to me, I want this kind of work too.

But the reality is that it is precisely because the industry seems to be in such good condition on the surface that it has led to the most fierce competitive environment.

But if you break your fingers and count them, how many people can be considered stars in the country?

And except for those stars and relatively successful actors, in fact, other people at the bottom of the industry are not much better off.

Celebrities can make a lot of money by filming two dramas a year, envy, right?

But these people at the bottom of the industry, you just try to make two films? The filming of low-level characters is calculated according to time, and the time you leave the country in a year is too short, and you can't make a few dollars at all.

Therefore, these people at the bottom of the industry still have to rush to make money.