Chapter 67: Contrast
Liu Hao gave Liu Changsheng a standing ovation in his heart, for the first time he felt that this father was so reliable, and wished that Liu Changsheng would say a few more bad things about her, so as to dispel Zhuang Lijun's idea of marrying her.
"Our family can't do anything, I haven't gone to the field, I can't even burn a fire in the kitchen, I'm usually too lazy, I can only study except for studying......" Liu Changsheng lived up to her expectations and continued to smear her.
"Stop talking, let's eat, everyone is hungry......" Cheng Zhaodi could no longer hint at Liu Changsheng, a pig teammate, and could only laugh at everyone to eat, hoping to end this topic that was not good for Liu Haohao soon.
Zhuang Lijun nodded kindly, and when he saw Liu Haohao, who was criticized by his father on the side, but did not feel half ashamed, but couldn't help but nod sincerely, he knew that this girl didn't want to marry him at all, and he couldn't wait to be counted down by Liu Changsheng.
The more she did this, the more he didn't want to get his way.
"Just now I came back all the way back with Haohao, she told me about her going up the mountain to pick red mushrooms, I heard that red mushrooms are not easy to recognize, but she can recognize them, it is really rare, I think she is quite good at living. Although Zhuang Lijun's words were appreciative, the expression on his face was still very serious.
"That's not, my family is good, and it's not as lazy as her father said, she will always take her younger brothers and sisters up the mountain to dig herbs and pick red mushrooms to subsidize the family after class, she is very diligent, and she is definitely a good daughter-in-law who will live. Cheng Zhaodi heard her son-in-law say this, and she didn't know how comfortable she was, so she hurriedly praised Liu Haohao at the right time.
It's a pity that Liu Changsheng didn't translate for her this time, she even spoke for a long time, and Zhuang Lijun may not be able to understand.
"Although she is lazy, but her brain is easy to use, she is especially good at reading, when her grandfather was alive, he said that she was clever and a reading seed, you see her now, she stands in the classroom every day to attend classes, I don't know how easy it is, and she earns no less than us. Liu Changsheng did not continue to belittle her as Liu Hao wished, but began to boast as soon as the conversation changed, "I dare to say that the three daughters of other people's families are not as ......strong as one of my daughters."
The praised Liu Haohao looked defeated, daring to love Liu Changsheng to take the route of first suppressing and then rising?
"How can I be so good, you just compare with the people in the village, you think I'm a little stronger, where can I compare to the girls in the capital, and those literary and artistic soldiers in the army, all of them are not only beautiful, but also good at singing and dancing. She hurriedly smiled and said modestly.
"Okay! Don't talk nonsense!" Cheng Zhaodi glared at her, and she was a little panicked.
She is very satisfied with this prospective son-in-law, but what Liu Hao said is also reasonable, Zhuang Lijun is from the capital, and he is handsome, maybe some people in the capital have long been worried about it, and those literary and artistic soldiers, I heard that they are all very handsome, no matter how good Liu is good, what do you compare with others?
She looked at Liu Haohao, and felt a little sad in her heart, Liu Haohao was too thin and thin, and no good family in the countryside was willing to marry such a daughter-in-law, let alone a dealer in the capital......
"I didn't talk nonsense, it was Zhuang Lijun's good buddy who said it himself, saying that there are many girls in the capital who like him. Liu Hao wasted no time in sprinkling a handful of salt on Cheng Zhaodi's wound, and did not feel the slightest guilt about betraying Liu Yong.
I'm afraid that all the children of the capital, including him, are upset that Zhuang Lijun wants to marry her.
Zhuang Lijun is so handsome, she doesn't believe that he is willing to give her a village girl, marriage is a lifelong thing, no matter how foolish and filial he is, he should not take his marriage as a sacrifice.
A girl's view of mate selection will inevitably be influenced by her closest elders of the opposite sex, and Liu Haohao's two closest elders of the opposite sex in her previous life are her grandfather and her father.
Her grandfather was a high-minded and contented old intellectual, who taught her to enrich her spiritual world and not to be easily tempted by external material things.
And her father and Zhuang Lijun were born in the same era, and they are both soldiers, but the biggest difference between the two is that her father is a person who has a clear goal, knows what he wants, and resolutely refuses to compromise.
In the previous life, my father was born in an ordinary peasant family, after joining the army, the people who said that they were close to her grandparents' house were about to break the threshold, and the grandparents forced their father to marry the virtuous girl in the village every day, and they made a lot of trouble about it, but the father resisted the pressure and resolutely disagreed, and later met his mother.
Although she was already an older leftover girl, her mother was so worried that she couldn't sleep, but her father was not in a hurry, and when talking about the past, he warned her that she could not settle for her marriage no matter when and where, if she did not meet the right person, her marriage would only be painful for a lifetime, so she must be cautious about lifelong events, and she must not marry for the sake of marriage.
A good marriage is based on mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, mutual support, and mutual trust...... None of them should be the deciding factor in a marriage.
Marriage is not about picking commodities and doing business, it is not about choosing who is suitable according to the objective conditions, and marriage without emotional foundation will inevitably make people miserable.
So she didn't understand Zhuang Lijun very much, he wanted to marry her so desperately when he didn't know her at all, he didn't know her character, he didn't know who she was, and he didn't know what she expected of her other half.
Even if it is for the purpose of repaying the gratitude, it is also an extremely irresponsible behavior for the lives of the two of them, she can even imagine that with the character of the original owner, she and Zhuang Lijun will never get along together, if they are really forced to be together, it will be a complete tragedy.
And she is sure that if there is any tragedy in the marriage between the original owner and Zhuang Lijun, it must be the original owner who is pointed out by Qianfu, after all, Zhuang Lijun was born handsome, has a good family background, and can't find any shortcomings for the time being, and he married the original owner with affection and righteousness, such a good man, if he can't live a life, it must be the woman's fault.
But she felt that if she couldn't get by, it must be a problem between two people, and no one had thought about it from beginning to end, whether they were suitable to live together.
Compared with the vicissitudes of life and wisdom, the stunned Qingzhuang Lijun easily made a marriage contract, which seemed very hasty and irresponsible.
Her grandfather and father are both excellent men, and their careful teaching has also invisibly improved her taste for men, in her previous life, she has not met a man who meets her heart, how can she be bound by this inexplicable and wonderful marriage contract in this life?