Chapter 514: Psychology or Numerology
Gao Jun chatted with his old classmates, full of crying and laughing.
Parents and teachers always say, "Who are you learning from?"
In fact, in the hearts of children, most of them will feel that it is for parents to learn.
Especially those who don't ask the children if they like it, and force them to learn all kinds of training courses, you are born with incomplete five tones, and you can't hand over the singer if you invite a lecturer from the Central Conservatory of Music.
I don't like it, I don't like it, I don't have the motivation to learn, and I don't have the belief to work hard, I just have to deal with errands.
Learning to learn, nothing more than the New Year's holidays, family and friend gatherings, parents use to brag about the capital, my daughter is learning dance, where to perform tomorrow, my son has passed the elementary level of piano learning, can not be used for a few years, the child has developed a habit, when preparing to refine, the homework is heavy, parents will take the initiative to say, study first, the rest of the put it aside.
In the hearts of older children, they also feel that they are studying for their parents, and every time the exam results come out, they care more about not their own grades, but their father's slap, their mother's nagging, and their disappointed appearance.
Therefore, interest in learning is very important.
Just like in the School of Foreign Languages, Gao Jun has seen those who get up early in the morning to memorize words, which is really the spirit of smelling the chicken and dancing, and the spirit of the head hanging beam and stabbing the strands, and some students are always having fun, watching American dramas when they have nothing to do, and they usually speak a combination of Chinese and English, and the two are compared, the latter is better than rote students in terms of speaking, listening, and test scores.
In addition to learning interests, learning skills are also important, but they should not be forced.
After greeting old classmates for a while, Gao Jun continued to wander, the children's courses are very difficult, and those high school students are even more difficult, to this point, learning is useless, it is completely doing questions, doing questions, and then doing questions, and the local teachers who will not explain it, increase the amount of questions, I hope that the college entrance examination can be blinded, if you don't bet on the questions, you have to rely on your ability to draw inferences.
Han Jingjing is no exception, taking a group of high school students to do the questions, the various symbols on the paper feel like the Mayan book of heaven, written about the time of the end of the world, it is really desperate to do such a question.
Fortunately, there is also a children's playground in this building, which is full of children's laughter, which makes Gao Jun feel very comfortable.
Walking around for a long time with an uncomfortable stomach, it is convenient to go to the toilet, go out to wash your hands, and suddenly hear someone call from the women's toilet next door, saying: "Don't worry, before your large-scale shipment is over, I will definitely develop new goods, my ability is limited, but I found a master to help, it's okay, she doesn't know anything, I split the whole process, only give him what I don't understand......
Okay, let's talk about it when the time comes!"
Gao Jun didn't know what the other party was talking about, and he didn't bother to think about it, just about to leave after washing his hands, a woman next door walked out, and he didn't know if she was on the phone, and when she went out and saw someone outside, the woman was a little surprised.
Gao Jun glanced at the woman, in her twenties, medium build, short hair, a pair of retro hanging eyebrows are very eye-catching, with single eyelids and small eyes, giving people a very rough and spicy feeling, there is an indescribable feeling between the eyebrows, and it is not like the style of people in the dust, it feels like a sullen feeling.
It's like the so-called * and amateur in Dongying's blockbuster, which seems to be ordinary, but now if you push her into the toilet, you can get it.
Of course, this may be the sequelae of Gao Jun's evil blockbuster, and he turned around and left with a wry smile.
Soon an hour passed, the first class was over, and during the break, Han Jingjing called Gao Jun to the office on the top floor and said that he wanted to introduce the principal to him, saying that he was the principal, but in fact he was the boss.
It was a middle-aged woman, to be precise, a middle-aged noblewoman, with her head crossed, her face was fair, her eyebrows and eyeliner were embroidered, her skin was tight and pulled out, her face was thick with foundation, as if she had been fished out of a noodle bag, she was wearing a pearl necklace around her neck, and her black turtleneck sweater was also a big brand, although she was a few meters away, she could smell the strong smell of perfume on her body.
As the saying goes, three robbers are not as good as one selling medicine, and three selling drugs are not as good as one running a school.
Since the industrialization of education, this has been a profitable business.
So it's not surprising that this principal is a noblewoman, a big boss who is making money every day.
However, the lady was very polite, stood up and greeted the door, and took the initiative to shake hands with Gao Jun, and said: "Teacher Han must have introduced all Kochi talents, and Mr. Gao is welcome to come to our small training center for guidance." ”
"Don't dare to be, don't dare to be, the principal has won the award, I'm just a counselor. Gao Jun said with a smile.
"Teacher Gao is humble, and he can serve as a counselor at Qinhai University, and he is also an elite. As she spoke, the lady invited Gao Jun to sit down, and Han Jingjing accompanied her, signaling him to behave well, this is considered an interview.
A good daughter-in-law hopes that her husband will be a Chan, but whenever she has the opportunity, she will not hesitate to show up to pave the way for her husband.
The three of them sat down, and the lady asked: "I heard that Mr. Gao visited a circle by himself just now, it was really rude, I should accompany the introduction, but you can see it yourself, you can see the most real side, our training class, mainly for children to create a starting line, to help high school students do the final sprint, complete qualifications, strong teachers." ”
"Yes, I can see it, business is booming. "Gao Jun always tells the truth.
The lady didn't care, but smiled proudly, since Gao Jun put it bluntly, it would be more convenient to communicate, you want to find a job, and I need talents.
The lady asked directly, "I don't know which school Mr. Gao graduated from and what major he studied?"
Gao Jun looked at the lady and said, "I am Boston University School of Medicine, Master of Clinical Psychology. ”
This identity must be true, and when Han Jingjing's parents come in a few days, he will say the same.
The noble lady was slightly startled, the name of the returnee is scary enough, but it has nothing to do with their cram school, she was just about to speak, but she heard Gao Jun say: "Forgive me for taking the liberty of being presumptuous, principal, have you encountered quite serious emotional problems recently?"
The lady was stunned for a moment, looked at Gao Jun in surprise, and hurriedly asked, "How does Teacher Gao know?"
"Psychology, observing words and colors is my major. Gao Jun said calmly: "And I guess, your emotional problem is mainly from your family, and it has reached a very serious point, it can be seen that you want to ease and eliminate this contradiction, but you are suffering from communication blockage." ”
The lady was shocked, subconsciously stood up, and said, "Teacher Gao, are you psychology or numerology?"
"Psychology and numerology are both sciences. Gao Jun smiled: "Regarding the problems you are facing now, I think you have done a good job, as long as you continue to persist and maintain communication, there will definitely be good results." ”
The lady was a little frightened in surprise, as if Gao Jun was reading her mind, not only knew her emotional problems, but also seemed to know the solution she was doing, and encouraged herself to persevere, how did he know such a private matter, and actually persuaded himself to continue to persevere?
Before she could speak, Gao Jun had already diverted the topic and said: "Principal, you have opened this training center very well, and it can help many people, but blindly high-intensity training and tutoring will inevitably cause greater learning pressure, and the gains will outweigh the losses.
Under the high-intensity learning pressure, use the skills in educational psychology to accompany the children to play games and enjoy the body and mind, such as letting the children in the musical instrument class choose their own repertoire to play, and let the children in the dance class dance with the music and play freely, so that they can apply what they have learned and enhance their interest in learning.
In addition, for those high school students, through some simple activities, such as asking them to do a few simple chemical experiments, such as metal salts and sodium silicate, their reaction will produce a kind of 'water garden' strange reaction, spectacular and beautiful, and very simple, learn this, they can show off in the experiment class, give it to their favorite girls, and so on.
Such activities are simple and effective, which not only stimulates their interest in learning, but also boosts their self-confidence. ”
Gao Jun's suggestion not only made the lady stunned, but Han Jingjing was also surprised, she knew that Gao Jun was not simple, but recently this guy looked like he was waiting to die as soon as he came home, thinking about burrowing the quilt and grabbing the toilet every day, so that Han Jingjing ignored his ability.
Gao Jun likes this kind of wife who is strict and pretends to be a pig and eats a tiger, which surprises his daughter-in-law.
The lady is a businessman, and immediately forgot about her emotional problems, weighing Gao Jun's words, if she told his suggestions to the parents of the students, the parents who were worried about the pressure of studying would definitely support them 100%, plus there was Boston University School of Medicine, a master of clinical psychology to give lectures, and they would not hesitate to ask for 300 in a class.
Han Jingjing's jaw dropped in surprise on the side, originally to find an errand for Gao Jun, to mix up some extra money on the weekend, who would have thought that as soon as this guy came, he would suddenly create a project of his own, and he would become a partner in an instant.
He first used it to see the principal's emotional problems with not knowing whether it was psychological or fate, and directly suppressed him, and then said a moving plan, this is the interview for high-end talents, not to persuade you to hire me, but to show yourself to conquer you.
"Mr. Gao is really an elite talent, if it is convenient, please leave a contact information, whether your suggestion is successful or not, I am willing to make a friend with you, there are many places to ask for advice in the future, and please Mr. Gao do not dislike it." The lady said elegantly and decently.
Gao Jun nodded, and before he could stand up, Han Jingjing had already spoken: "I'm sorry principal, his mobile phone happened to be broken recently, I'm going to wait for him to buy a new one after school, if you have something, you can contact me first......"