Hearing this, Xu Zhaodi squinted at Liu Lanzhi, which seemed to mean: Look at it, look at it, how good we are to you!

There is also an old lady named Zhang Chunlan, who is in much the same situation as Meng Po.

Her husband died early, his eyes were broken when he cried, and his vision was blurry.

Zhang Chunlan worked hard to bring her eldest son Xiaodan, but she didn't expect to forget her mother after marrying her daughter-in-law!

Not long after the marriage, the son listened to his daughter-in-law's words and kicked her out, and she was desolate and desolate and didn't know where to go.

I went around the village like a headless fly, and when it was dark, I felt it back home, but my son and daughter-in-law didn't open the door for her!

In the end, the neighbor couldn't stand it anymore and let her go to her house to rest and sleep.

The next day, a kind neighbor helped her open the door of her son and daughter-in-law, and asked them to bring the old man home to support him.

As a result, Zhang Chunlan's son and daughter-in-law didn't want it!

The neighbors were angry and said a few words to them, Zhang Chunlan's son and daughter-in-law also said in a weird way, you are kind, then you are good people to the end, and we have no objection to her being a filial son for the elderly!

As a result, the two families almost quarreled over this!

Later, it was the village chief's grandfather who came forward to arrange for Zhang Chunlan to see a low adobe house in the village Kangfang, and everyone took turns to give her the food!

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Gu Fanxin also heard her grandmother say that there was a person whose mother was old and couldn't move her legs and feet and was paralyzed, and he actually carried his old mother into the mountain and was ready to throw her there to fend for herself!

The mother knew her son's intentions, and along the way, she desperately reached out to grab the grass and leaves and threw them on the ground.

The son asked the old lady inexplicably: "What are you doing when you grab those things and throw them on the ground?"

The old lady's words made him ashamed and embarrassed.

"Son, you haven't been far away, I'm afraid you won't be able to recognize your way home when you go back. ”

What is the use of raising children to prevent old age?

When the time comes, he will be sick or lose his labor, and he will be abandoned if he is abandoned by his son who has no conscience!

Respect for the elderly is a traditional virtue and is regarded as the essence of an excellent cultural heritage.

Gu Fanxin felt that these old people had made a lifelong contribution to the family, and when they were old and incapacitated and incapacitated, they deserved the spiritual respect and life care of their children.

It is a matter of course for children to support their parents, it is an obligation, a morality, and a responsibility.

However, in many cases, some extremely selfish children ignore ethics and morals and responsibilities, regard their parents, parents-in-law and in-laws as "burdens" and are unwilling to support them, or treat them as "slaves" and inflict all kinds of torture.

Like an old lady in the neighborhood of Gu Fanxin's grandmother's house, she brought up her daughter with hard work, because she doted on her daughter extremely much, and developed her daughter's extreme self-respecting and selfish temperament, and it was not a thing to recruit a son-in-law to come back.

Normally, daughters and sons-in-law use her as servants.

Laundry and cooking with children, a little unsatisfactory, for example, the taste of the vegetable is not delicious, the soy sauce is a little too much, and the cooking rice is too much, and the daughter and son-in-law will be reprimanded as a child.

When the old lady gets older, her daughter and son-in-law's attitude towards her will be even worse! The old lady wants to cry without tears!

These actions are extremely immoral and despised. will be condemned and reviled by society.

But for those who have no shame, condemnation and scolding cannot make them reflect on themselves and repent and become filial to their parents!

Now she also knows what can be done to protect herself by reasonable means, but the countryside is backward and closed, and many people do not know how to use reasonable means to protect their reasonable rights and interests.

Just like the son and daughter-in-law of Zhang Chunlan and Meng Po, the people in the village spurned and condemned them, but they didn't take it seriously at all!

If there were such nursing homes in the countryside, maybe some of the tragedies in life would be reduced?

All the old people do not rely on the anti-aging model, but invest their money in nursing homes, to live in this relaxed and friendly atmosphere, and enjoy themselves?

Suddenly, an old voice interrupted Gu Fanxin's thoughts.

"Girl, girl?" Grandma Shenyang looked at Gu Fanxin, who was distracted by her nails, and shouted twice.

"Oh, grandma, what's the matter?" Gu Fanxin woke up and hurriedly replied.

"Girl, you help me open the cupboard and bring me the bag of things inside. Grandma Shenyang said with a smile.

Gu Fanxin put away the nail clippers, washed his hands, and went to help Grandma Shenyang get something.

The thing was quickly taken out, and it turned out to be a bag of snacks!

Grandma Shenyang took it, then leaned on the back of the bed, opened the plastic bag in her hand, took out a variety of snacks inside, spread it on the narrow table of the bedside table, and said with a kind smile: "Eat, you two eat, you're welcome!"

Gu Fanxin and Hong Tao looked at it, and each took a hawthorn slice in their hands, Gu Fanxin smiled and picked up the pear paste candy and handed it to her mouth, "Grandma Shenyang, this is good, you can eat a piece too!"

"Okay, good ......" Grandma Shenyang looked at the pear paste candy brought to her mouth and smiled from ear to ear.

The two young men did not dislike that they were old and dirty, and they were very happy that they could eat their own food.

Gu Fanxin looked at Grandma Shenyang's happy and satisfied appearance, and was very emotional. "The elders give it, and you can't say goodbye. "This does make a lot of sense.

When the elderly are older, the most feared thing is that the children dislike themselves, she gives you the things she collects to eat, and she recognizes you and accepts you from the heart, if you refuse, it will make the old man very sad and sad.

Hong Tao also looked at Gu Fanxin with a smile in his eyes, eating slowly, and there was a happy and harmonious atmosphere in Room 26.

Grandma Shenyang is very happy today.

Because of her athlete's foot, she was silent and talked and laughed with Gu Fanxin today, and asked them about their study with concern, and encouraged the two young people to study hard.

Gu Fanxin could see that she was actually a very kind and kind old man, just like her grandmother.

Today's work-study program is over, and on the way back, Hong Tao saw that Gu Fanxin had been pondering, so he asked curiously: "Gu Xuemei, through today's activities, what do you think?"

Gu Fanxin said frankly and bluntly: "Work-study enables us to get in touch with the society as soon as possible, broaden our horizons, grow knowledge, and exercise our ability, the main purpose of work-study is to cultivate ability, understand society, increase our life experience, exercise our will, and experience self-reliance, and money is secondary." ”

"There's no point in doing work-study just for money. ”

"Because these old people are worthy of our respect and care, I think if each of us gives them a little warmth and love, they will be very happy, and at the same time, in the process, we ourselves will get more happiness. ”

Therefore, we should pay more attention to these lonely old people, after all, they (she) are also parents and mothers, they have worked all their lives, after all, they (she) have paid a lot of effort for the development of this society, and they (she) should enjoy a happy and comfortable old age. ”