Chapter 162: Boiled Frogs in Warm Water
"Today you said in front of them that we are married, have you figured it out?" He felt that there was no need to hide his thoughts in front of her, and asked bluntly, as soon as the words came out, he felt that the temperature on his face was a few degrees higher, but fortunately, the light in the room was dim, and it was not easy for her to see the change in his complexion.
"Ahem, the two of us are indeed married," she coughed a little embarrassedly, "Whether the two of us want to fulfill the marriage contract in the future, the current marriage contract exists objectively, and none of us can deny it, I work here, and the news will come sooner or later. Besides, if we don't talk about our marriage, they will have to pass on our dealings, and maybe there will be even more ugly gossip, which is not good for both of us, so it's better to be open. ”
The issue of the relationship between men and women has always been very sensitive, especially in this era, if you are not careful, it will become an excuse to attack people, and she has always cherished her reputation, so she is also extra cautious.
"Oh. He replied sullenly, as if disappointed.
She pursed her lips, not knowing what to say for a while, and the two fell into a rare awkward silence.
"After seeing you last time, I went back and thought about it a lot, I have a sister, and a few cousins, I grew up in the compound, and I think girls are quite noisy and annoying and crying, so I don't have much experience in dealing with girls. But you're different from them, you, you're fine!" his face became redder and redder, and he couldn't say it nervously for a while, so he could only use the words "you are very good" to describe her.
He should have said that you are reasonable, you are generous, you are frank and sincere, and you are humorous...... But he couldn't tell if using these words to praise a girl would make her happy, and a thousand words only turned into three words: "You are very good".
Liu Hao was stunned for a moment, he didn't expect that Zhuang Lijun, who looked serious and serious, would suddenly dissect her heart, his face was also a little hot, but his words were dry, "Well, I know I'm fine, that, you're also fine." ”
Zhuang Lijun didn't expect her to say this, and he didn't know what to say for a while, so the two looked at each other with such big eyes.
In the end, Liu Hao smiled well, "Are we embarrassed like this?"
"It's embarrassing. He laughed too, and the subtle atmosphere of the moment vanished with the laughter.
Liu Hao felt that she was as powerful as in her previous life, and she had a special ability to completely destroy the charming atmosphere that the people who pursued her had so hard to create.
Unexpectedly, Zhuang Lijun was persevering, staring at her face tightly and continuing to ask, "Since we are both very good, can you think about it and consider our marriage contract." ”
It can be seen that he is actually very nervous and stammering, but the logic is very clear, and even pressing step by step.
She blinked, he was so stubborn, he really didn't know how to prevaricate this time, so he had to calm down, think seriously for a while, and was about to say something, but he spoke again.
"I'm not trying to force you into anything, I just hope you'll think about it when the time is right. As for the current stage, I think it's good for us to be friends, not only is it fun to talk to you, but I also learned a lot, whether we end up getting married or not, I don't want to lose you as a good friend. ”
She blinked, and Zhuang Lijun immediately positioned their relationship as good friends, but she couldn't say anything that she was going to refuse.
"I remember you told me last time that you have no confidence in yourself, no confidence in married life, and even more so in being a dedicated military wife. In fact, it is also the first time I have been with a girl, the first time I have talked about marriage, and I have no clear plans and fantasies about future marriages like you. Seeing that you didn't even take care of food in order to organize the information, I felt that you should not be a housewife who revolves around the stove all day long, that would be a waste of your talents, and if I selfishly asked you to give up your dreams and silently dedicate yourself to the fulfillment of me behind me, then I would look down on myself. Now is a new era, women can hold up half the sky, what men can do, women can do the same, or even better than men. "So I think it's more appropriate for us to be friends who can support each other and make progress together." ”
He said everything she wanted to say, so earnestly and earnestly, from the bottom of her heart, she looked at him in a daze, there was a pride in being respected, understood, and affirmed, this feeling was completely different from the feeling of being affirmed by the leader, his words went to her heart, expressed her concerns, and his appreciation.
She suddenly had a sour nose, in this era, she worked hard for her future, and she didn't dare to show the slightest idea of being unmarried in front of people, after all, this kind of thing is still very deviant now, but he is all tolerant and understands her.
She knew that Zhuang Lijun was a very good person, he looked rigid and a little indifferent, but he had a gentleman's style in his bones, and he could truly respect anyone.
If she hadn't watched her mother's hard work since she was a child, maybe she would have really married him impulsively because of his words, after all, there are not many people like him who really respect women, but marriage is very realistic, the reality is very cruel, even if two people have a deep relationship, there is also a person who is destined to pay more.
Her mother is not a housewife, as the principal of a prestigious school, her peach and plum are all over the world, and she is also a strong woman in her field, but in marriage and family, she pays far more than her father, even if her father cares about her and is considerate to her in his spare time, he usually can't take her place.
Marriage is made up of small and trivial things, after starting a family, it is inevitable to have children, he is destined not to go home often in the army, she must bear most of the responsibilities including raising children, which she really can't do, he should deserve better.
Anyway, she made this friend.
Zhuang Lijun smiled and looked at her with surprise, emotion, regret, and appreciation in his eyes, he knew that Liu Haohao was a reasonable and good girl, but she was also a very assertive and stubborn person, it was impossible to force her to get married, she had ten thousand ways to get rid of this marriage contract.
But he is also stubborn, he has been thinking about it for a long time during this time, and as he gradually deepens his understanding, he appreciates her more and more, a girl like her is so rare, it is hard to move his heart so once, if he misses her, he will definitely regret it.
Since she doesn't cooperate, then boil the frog in warm water and boil it slowly, and one day he will be able to cook her.