Chapter 981: The Root
I won't feel inferior because of this, Daddy is Daddy, we are us, study, do you think you and Daddy are the same kind of people?"
Liu Xuexue pursed his lips, who wants to be the same kind of person as Liu Changsheng?
"We can't choose where we come from, we can't choose our parents, but we can choose the path we want to take. Liu Hao said firmly, "I don't think that if I have a father like that, I don't deserve happiness, happiness is something we strive for, and it has nothing to do with others." ”
"Eldest sister is right! Second sister, you feel inferior because of your father, will you also feel inferior because you have a divorced sister? Am I bothering you?" Liu Tiantian stared at Liu Xuexue and asked.
"What nonsense are you talking about? You find a man like that, and if you don't get divorced, you can still keep it for the New Year? It's not your fault that you get divorced. Liu Xuexue said angrily.
"It's not your fault that Daddy made a mistake!"
"Dr. Xu's parents are intellectuals, innocent people, and looking for a daughter-in-law like me with an innocent family background is to be discussed. Liu Xuexue remembered that he had rejected what Dr. Xu said before, and his heart was sour and astringent.
She couldn't deny that she was attracted to Dr. Xu, but she knew in her heart that this kind of motivation was fruitless.
"Second sister, I really didn't expect you to be confused in this matter!" Liu Tiantian shook his head again and again, "You have a father who is in prison, but you also have an eldest sister who is the mayor, if you really want to talk about family background, Dr. Xu is not as good as you." Besides, the eldest sister doesn't care about Daddy going to jail when she is such a big official, and it's too hypocritical for you to think so much about marrying someone, right? I don't believe that Dr. Xu is the kind of person who will dislike you because Daddy is in prison, you see eldest brother-in-law, such a powerful person, he doesn't care about Daddy's business, how can Dr. Xu mind?"
"He doesn't mind, his parents don't mind, what should we do? Marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, how can we not think about this? If we don't think about it now, and when there is a conflict after marriage, we will make a fuss, and it will hurt not only the two people, but also the relatives of both parties, and even the children. ”
Liu Xue and Liu Tiantian are completely two extremes, one is to think clearly about everything before and after, and there is no room for mistakes, and the other is to rely on impulse, emotional, and move forward alone.
Liu Tiantian didn't answer this time, her impulsiveness has caused a wrong marriage, and the biggest victim of it is her smile, it is impossible to say that she does not regret it, so now she has no position to refute Liu Xuexue.
"It's right to think clearly, but it's not right to only know how to avoid problems and not actively think about solutions. Liu Hao said slowly, "Study, you should think about the problem between you and Dr. Xu very clearly, in addition to avoiding and refusing, have you considered other solutions?"
Liu Xue was speechless, and turned his head a little embarrassed, "It's impossible anyway, what else is there to consider?"
"You like Dr. Xu, and Dr. Xu likes you, everyone can see this, if you are not together, will you feel regretful and sad?"
"Long pain is better than short pain, regret and sadness are better than making a fuss. Liu Xuexue said firmly that she has seen too many unhappy marriages, and she has long lost confidence and interest in marriage, so it is better to maintain the status quo and leave a poignant memory for herself in her heart.
"Not every marriage will be a mess, you can't just look at the bad and not look good. I got married on impulse, and then I made you worry about it, but you see that the eldest sister and the eldest brother-in-law have been married for so many years, and the relationship is still so good, as well as Aunt Yu and Uncle Li, the new sister and Liu Chi's brother-in-law, their marriages are quite happy, you and Dr. Xu are both cultured people, and they will definitely be able to live a good life like them, the two of them have a good discussion and humility to each other......" Liu Tiantian couldn't help but interject.
Liu Tiantian is the kind of girl who will be brave enough to love even if she has been injured and continue to live a good life, even if the married life of one or two years has brought her a great psychological shadow, but the sun can still shine into her heart, and she can still see the positive and beautiful side when she looks at the world.
Liu Hao looked at the two younger sisters with soft eyes, whether it was Liu Xuexue or Liu Tiantian, they were so kind and beautiful that they made her feel distressed, such a girl, how could she be willing to let them be wronged?
Liu Xuexue turned his face away and didn't speak, in fact, everyone knew very well that the root of the problem was that Liu Xuexue was afraid of marriage, and it didn't have much to do with Liu Changsheng's imprisonment, which had already been hinted at a long time ago.
"Love and marriage are everyone's freedom, when Daddy and Grandma asked you to get married on a blind date, I blocked it, because I didn't want you to enter a marriage without feelings, not because you were afraid to get married because of your timidity. Decades of life, in fact, is very short, it passes in the blink of an eye, we finally come to this world for a trip, don't leave regrets for yourself, what has happened, we can't do anything, but it hasn't happened, we can try our best. You and Dr. Xu can't say that there are no problems, there are difficulties, there are obstacles, but which couple really has no problems at all?"
"You think I have a good relationship with your brother-in-law, but you don't know that I have also had the idea of divorce, so I suddenly returned to Southern Province at that time. ”
Liu Xue and Liu Tiantian were taken aback, this was the first time they heard about it, and they always thought that Liu Haohao came back because she was pregnant, and at that time, Zhuang Lijun was busy with her, and the two looked affectionate, not like a contradiction at all.
"You only see Grandpa Zhuang and Uncle Zhuang are good to me, and you don't know the contradictions between my mother-in-law and me, right? I was once very angry, but as time went by, those grievances faded, and I didn't bother to care about many things. But at that time, when there was a conflict, your brother-in-law always stood by my side, did his best to protect me, and redoubled his care for me, which gave me the courage to continue this marriage. So although marriage is a matter of two families, in the final analysis, it is still a matter of two people, as long as the relationship between the two is firm enough, and the man has the responsibility and responsibility, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. ”
Compared with Liu Xue and Liu Tiantian's unbelievable look with round eyes, Liu Hao talked about the past of the year, and seemed very calm, after all, things have passed for so long, and Weiwei is also big, looking back, the turbulent waves of the year have calmed down.
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