The warm autumn sun hung high in the sky, and the soft sunlight shone in through the window, scattering on Miao Hui's body, putting on a layer of brilliant xia clothes for this young woman with Huaxin.

Outside the window, there is a plane tree standing in the autumn wind, the half-green and half-yellow leaves fall from time to time, and the fallen leaves return to the roots, showing a bit of autumn depression, which makes Miao Hui look a little lazy and quiet.

Gao Jun silently admired this rare autumn picture.

Hearing Gao Jun change his words abruptly, Miao Hui could only smile bitterly, and was even more embarrassed by his burning gaze.

"Teacher Gao, where have you been, why are you full of resentment?" Miao Hui took the initiative to speak, after all, age and experience are here, and she will not be like a little girl, who is shy and afraid to speak, or cheerful and heartless.

Gao Jun came back to his senses and smiled bitterly.

When facing people he trusts, he always tries to make himself simpler and purer, so Tong Ling and Qi Xinyue always call him a hooligan because he doesn't want to use his brain and say whatever comes to mind.

In the face of Miao Hui, naturally I didn't get to that job, but if people want to get along more harmoniously and simply, the best way is to tell the truth.

"Hey, don't mention it, a girl sprained her foot just now, and the leader asked me to carry her, but she happened to be ......visiting her aunt" Gao Jun told the truth about the situation just now, and Miao Hui couldn't cry or laugh when he heard it.

But she still gave Gao Jun a thumbs up: "Being a teacher really has to be comprehensive, it's not easy." ”

"It's not bad, the children are full of personality now, I met a girl before, the temper is called a short-tempered, and if you don't agree with her, you will start beating people, for her, I am really heartbroken, wear out my mouth, try my best, and suffer all the sin. Gao Jun said.

Miao Hui suddenly smiled bitterly: "You can't be talking about my daughter, right?"

Gao Jun immediately smiled: "I really can't see that you have such a big daughter, you are obviously so young and beautiful, you stand together, you look like a pair of sisters." ”

Miao Hui couldn't cry or laugh, this thinking jumped too much, and after saying it, it turned out that he wanted to praise himself for being young and beautiful.

I could see this meaning from his stunned eyes just now, but the direct praise was too abrupt, and it was natural to praise it again after a small circle.

"Sister Miao, why didn't you go to the mountain with Qi Miao to enjoy the scenery?" Gao Jun asked with a smile.

Miao Hui looked at him, with a little disgust in his eyes, and said: "No way, people don't take me to play, saying that since the master has arranged a weight-bearing climb, it is his training, so he has no heart to look at the scenery, and he must conscientiously complete the task of weight-bearing mountaineering, which is all the work of your education, Mr. Gao, as a parent, I express my great gratitude." ”

Gao Jun walked over with a smile, sat on the sofa next to him, enjoyed the warm autumn sun, looked at the young woman in front of him, and said: "It's nothing, it's all what I should do, in fact, Qi Miao, this child is very good in nature, lively and cheerful, and he is very persistent in doing things and practice, and has a strong personality. ”

"Then please ask the teacher to bother more, I am usually busy with work, and I really don't have much time to pay attention to her. Miao Hui said.

"With such a big child, naturally there is no need for parents to accompany and coax every day, but family education can not be ignored, it does not necessarily have to communicate with children from the perspective of parents, you can occasionally talk to children from the perspective of friends, talk about some love, interesting stories and so on. Gao Jun said.

"I don't talk to her much about that. Miao Hui said with a wry smile.

Then listen to her, guide her to say something about herself, be a listener. Gao Jun said: "Or find some topics that you are interested in each other, hobbies, etc., just like today, the mother and daughter always need to interact, if you want to completely change her irascible personality and soothe the shadow of her childhood, she still needs your comfort." ”

Miao Hui looked at Gao Jun's serious face, she stayed in Gao Jun's room alone, she was still a little nervous, worried that the atmosphere would become awkward, but now, it seems to have become a home visit, or a teacher inviting parents, the topic has always revolved around Qi Miao.

This is very good, it can be seen that Gao Jun really cares about Qi Miao's growth, although it looks like a home visit, but from another point of view, this is not an old couple and wife discussing the future of their children.

After a long time, all the passions will fade, love, love will eventually become the feelings between close relatives, and there will be fewer and fewer topics between husband and wife, the daughter-in-law is only related to the husband's salary and position, and the most things that the husband and daughter-in-law say are only, what to eat tonight.

Only the topic of children is something they can never finish, so children are the bridge and bond that maintains the family.

Miao Hui thought for a while and said, "This kid has indeed changed a lot recently, in addition to talking about you a lot, he also asked me what the happiness I want in my heart looks like, but I have never thought about this question, and I don't know how to answer." ”

It's a bit like a child asking the housewife's mother with a strange question, and the mother can't answer it with limited knowledge, so she pushes the question to the child's father.

Gao Jun thought for a while and said: "The topic of happiness is too broad, and everyone has a different understanding of happiness, some people think that a good sleep is happiness, some people feel that the person they like also likes themselves, this is the greatest happiness, and some people think that waiting for the bus in winter to have a cup of hot milk tea is happiness, and I think, I don't want to go for a walk with an empty head, this is happiness."

Therefore, this question should still be felt by Qi Miao, slowly experienced from life, and then pursued to create his own happiness. ”

Miao Hui nodded thoughtfully, she has not dared to talk about happiness for so many years, because it is too far away from her, but after listening to Gao Jun's words and thinking about it, the happiness she wants may be to lie quietly on the bed and read a wonderful book.

Happiness is not eternal, most of them are momentary feelings, as long as you grasp that moment to experience it carefully.

"I think what you said makes sense, I really should strengthen the communication with her, maybe it would be a good idea to cultivate the same hobby. Miao Hui said: "Although I am not interested in practicing martial arts, I know that in addition to practicing martial arts, she also likes to read martial arts novels." ”

Gao Jun can naturally understand this, and those who practice martial arts naturally yearn for those chivalrous men who come and go.

Miao Hui thought for a while and said, "She also asked me before, Zhang Wuji and Zhao Min gave up everything to live in seclusion on the island, and if it was me, would they also choose to stay away from the world with their beloved and rely on each other, but unfortunately I don't know how to answer her." ”

Heaven and Dragon Slayer, Gao Jun also understands that the story is wonderful, but the character of the protagonist Zhang Wuji is not pleasant, just like the grass on the wall, he always likes to be led by others, and has no opinions.

Practicing Jiuyang Divine Skill is because of the cold poison in the body, if you don't practice, you will die, even the big move of Qiankun is because you are trapped in the secret room, and you will die if you don't practice......

In short, he has really been a lifelong man, and he doesn't make many decisions by himself, so he can't be regarded as a real hero.

Gao Jun thought for a while and said with a smile: "Actually, it's not bad to live on the island in seclusion, if in addition to fishing with Zhao Min, you can also take Zhou Zhiruo to swim together, sing with Xiao Zhao, and chat with your cousin Yin Li, you can live in seclusion for a lifetime!"

When Miao Hui heard this, his head was suddenly full of black lines, and he wanted to get the parenting scripture with Gao Jun, but who would have thought that he would become a hooligan when he was talking.

According to this, if Yang Guo had put Cheng Ying, Lu Wushuang, Gongsun Lucao, Wan Yanping, Ye Luyan, Li Mochou, and the Guo sisters into the ancient tomb, he would never have thought of it.

Looking at Miao Hui's wry smile, Gao Jun immediately returned to his normal color and said, "Therefore, everyone's life is different, and their views on happiness are also different, so the way to pursue happiness is also different." Guo Jing and Huang Rong have been in love all their lives, and Wei Xiaobao and his seven wives are also harmonious and happy, which is all happiness. ”

In fact, Gao Jun's words were not only said to Qi Miao, but also to Miao Hui, seeing that she was confused, of course, it was more caused by inferiority, so he said it more directly: "No matter what you say about the happiness you yearn for, you have to boldly pursue it yourself and work hard to create, Zhu Yingtai has a crush on Liang Shanbo and never dared to confess, and in the end, Liang Shanbo died, and she could only grieve and martyr." And the Ximen official, since he was hit by a pole on the first day, has already fallen in love with Pan Jinlian, and has tried every means to achieve good things with Jin Lianmei, and he has fulfilled his expectations.

Liang Zhu has achieved a good story for the ages, but the two of them are tragic, although the big official and Jin Lian are burdened with the infamy of the ages, they have it, they have it, come here.

If you talk about the happiness index alone, it is clear who is high and who is low.

In fact, the pursuit of happiness is everyone's right, there is no need to feel inferior, let alone confused, just ask yourself what I want, and work hard to fight for it. ”

The metaphor of Gao Jun is like an initiation for Miao Hui.

Liang Zhu and Jin Zhumei are in her heart, they are absolutely incomparable, and they have been like this for thousands of years.

But if you think about it carefully, it makes sense, if you haven't tried it, how do you know that you will fail?

Ask herself, she naturally doesn't want to live such a widowed life, what she wants most is a family of three, a father who can be accepted by Qi Miao, and even have another child, living the life that all women are living.

Looking up at Gao Jun again, he felt that the length and size were just right, especially Qi Miao had already thought about matching them, every time he called him master, the word 'father' was always shouted very heavily, as if he was greeting his father.

Putting aside the inferiority complex and reserve, do you really want to take the initiative to pursue him?

Gao Jun sat next to him, bathed in the autumn sun, warm, feeling that he had reached the peak of his life and was about to ascend to the Tao.

There are people in the world who enter the Tao with martial arts, enter the Tao with literature, and there are thousands of avenues, and different paths lead to the same end.

Gao Jun is going to enter the Tao with a flirtatious girl, and it is no longer a skill to take the initiative to pursue girls, and it is not a master of the extreme way to fool a woman to take the initiative to pursue herself?