873. Be kind and giving

"Ah, grandma, what do you mean?" Hu Dafa didn't know what grandma was thinking, and what he said was wrong touched her.

"In the past, there was a saying that was called giving grace without trying to repay it! Whether you do good deeds or not, that is your business, as for what others say and how they look at it, it is certainly not up to you! However, it is not uncommon for you to be resented when you do good deeds, and if you can't control the attitude of others, it depends on your own mentality! Continue to do it or never do it again! Do you say that you do good deeds in order to be praised and praised by others? That is a child's temper and you have not grown up!

"If someone complains about you, you can't stand it, he doesn't understand, he doesn't know gratitude, so you don't do good deeds? If someone praises you a few words, will you be happy all day? Do good deeds, regardless of people! Say farther, **do good deeds, he doesn't want to be praised or rewarded! If you are wronged, will you become a resentful woman? Complaining about others, who begs you to do good deeds?" Grandma spoke softly, but she spoke very thoroughly.

"Uh! Grandma, do you mean that if you encounter this kind of thing in the future, you will ignore him?" Hu Dafa didn't feel good in his heart, could it be that he was wrong again? Even if he said something wrong, he was unwilling to admit what he thought in front of his grandmother.

If you don't ask for it, you don't care, and it will slowly develop into ---- who asks for it. Boundless indifference!

"Who said it doesn't matter! Manage, of course, take care of it! But we must be mentally prepared to be complained about and misunderstood! We must always advocate being brave in seeing righteousness and helping others! We just have to correct your mentality, do good deeds, and suffer grievances! You can choose not to do these good deeds, but don't regret if you don't do them! If you do them, you must do them happily, and no matter what situation you encounter, you must finish the good deeds!

"Be kind and charitable!" Liu Yun'er said leisurely, "Dafa, you can understand it well! I think grandma is right, this time, you are out!"

"What do you mean?"

"Let's put it simply! You like Sister Hua, so you chase it! That's right! You like to do good deeds, do good deeds, don't do bad deeds, and do good deeds! Right? Since you like it, you have to withstand the misunderstandings and deviations in the process! Otherwise, you may directly become hypocrisy! If you like someone, you will change your taste! Then it is not love!" Liu Yun'er shook her head and interpreted, a little proud, "Grandma, I explained it correctly!"

"Yes, that's good!" Grandma nodded appreciatively. "Whoever doesn't have a little temper, quarrels, quarrels, and misunderstandings, this is normal, people in the past thought it was normal, and the next day passed after a few words of noise, and now people will directly choose to break up and divorce! Or there are so many divorced people now! Alas, the truth of these things is similar!"

"Oh! After talking for a long time, it's my fault? Shouldn't I take that money? Then give him back! Let's take it as a good deed, don't do a penny! Okay? Eldest sister!" Hu Dafa was unhappy in his heart and scolded Liu Yun'er.

"It doesn't matter, I'm not short of this amount of money anyway! I'm here to help the sister who gave birth to a child! Woman, how many dangers you have to bear to give birth to a child, it's not easy! I can help her this time, next time it's my turn, I don't know if anyone will help me! You men, you will never understand!"

"Yes! Yun'er is a good girl, good people have good rewards, you can't be wrong!" Grandma looked at the two of them with a smile, interpreting the current society according to the Buddhist scriptures.

"Well, I'll think about it again and raise my understanding!" Hu Dafa thought to himself: If I understand everything, I will be able to do it, I won't marry a daughter-in-law, I will give birth to my own life, is it good to live by myself! Suddenly remembered the matter of the confinement sister-in-law, turned his head to look at Liu Yun'er, "Yun'er, you said that I invited the confinement sister-in-law, okay? Take care of the children and take care of Sister Hua." ”

"Well, it's a good thing! I agree! With the confinement sister-in-law, I still don't have to worry about it!"

"What do you have to worry about? The girl is mine, and I don't need you with or without a confinement wife! Besides, do you understand? Do you know? Do you know how to take care of children?"

"No, you can learn! People know by learning, not by birth! As long as you are willing to learn, what can't you learn? Now I don't understand, in a few years, I will have children, I still don't understand at that time?

"Xiaoyanagi is right! When we gave birth to a child, how could there be any confinement sister-in-law? Caesarean section is not something that all hospitals can do! After giving birth, it is a good thing that there are old people who can help you, and if no one helps you, you will have to rely on the little couple to take care of the child by themselves! Do you think it is possible to expect others to take care of your own children? If you can't see it, you can do anything, let you see it, and no matter how you take care of it, you will feel that it is inappropriate! Anyone will find faults! Forget about that kindergarten? Even if the cameras are installed, the inside and outside of the house are full of cameras, and it will not stop the teacher from disciplining the child to use rough methods. When grandma talked about the past, she sighed again. "Child, you still have to bring it yourself, and you won't be guilty!"

"Okay, let's go home first! Please don't invite the confinement lady, and then ask Sister Hua, you have to wait until you go home!" Hu Dafa was stunned for a long time, he didn't want to open his mouth to talk anymore, and concentrated on driving.

Three days later, Sister Hua, accompanied by Hu Dafa and many others, went home like the stars holding the moon! Every time she went in and out of the hospital, there were always a group of people stuffing Hu Dafa with all kinds of business cards and propaganda color pages, hoping that he would become their customers.

However, at the insistence of Sister Hua, the confinement lady was still not hired. Grandma and Liu Yun'er went into battle together, saying that they could take care of Sister Hua and the child, and Hu Dafa also fulfilled their wishes.

The environment can create and influence everything, as long as it is permitted, whoever gives birth to a child can be like Mr. Wu, find three or four people to serve a mother, in addition to the confinement lady, there must be a lactation promoter, and the work ----of the nanny and the cook can also be separated;

Hu Dafa took care of the children at home for a few days, bought enough baby products for a few months, and was still worried about the plan that had been arranged, and after making a few phone calls to Qiu Dalong, he said goodbye to the four opposite sexes in the family and walked out of the house.

Thinking about what Uncle Xiong said before, Hu Dafa also had some feelings, the child was not yet full moon, and he hadn't hugged him for a few days, and he went to make trouble again, whether it was safe or not, who could say for sure! Courage is always tempered and there are fewer and fewer people, and there are too many people in his heart, so his courage is small.

"Congratulations, boss!"

"Dafa, congratulations, happy daughter!"

"Dafa, be a father! Treat!" In the end, Qiu Dalong's blessing is the most real, this time it's okay, I don't care if Hu Dafa asks for money, I just want to have a big meal.

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