Chapter 355: Bringing Closer Relationships (First Weekend Update)
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Now I can't let Lisa go, she's going to be gone, I'm going to be unlucky after that! I'm not a person who doesn't know the times, I know how to be a good person.
Lisa is a doctor who studies criminal psychology and psychiatry, and I am an outlaw of the end of the world, and there is no direct conflict between them.
If I have a good relationship with her, I don't expect her to give me the green light. All I want is to beg her not to let people come to me in trouble.
"Come on, let's go in and find a quiet private room to talk...... The old party hurried to make arrangements!" I turned my head and greeted. The old man ran in with a smoke.
"Okay. Lisa nodded in agreement, and I said to myself that I would have to do everything I could to trick her tonight!
A good trick is to deceive people, I want to deceive her obediently, I want to win this 'trump card'!
Obviously, this trump card is not owned by Chen Longxiang and Taizilong, and if there is a nightclub of Taizizhong, it will not be swept and checked...... At no time in this world can black beat white.
I invited Lisa to a spacious private room on the third floor, where all the lights were turned on. It's easy to be inhibited in such an environment.
"The lights are too bright, so it's better to be soft. "I turned off a few of the main lights and left some soft little lights, the dim light helps to relax.
"Dr. Lisa, please take a seat and eat some fruit. I greeted her politely, thinking about how to trick her.
"Do you know the relationship between lighting and psychology?" asked Lisa suddenly, and I immediately shook my head.
"I don't know. ”
"So why did you choose soft light? Actually, it helps people relax. ”
"This ...... "I said helplessly, it is usually a dim environment to relax in a bar, who likes to drink under bright lights?
I know that psychology comes from life, and social routines are the same as figuring out people's hearts, and there is no difference in essence.
I opened a bottle of red wine and poured two glasses, trying to change the mood as much as possible before the conversation to create an atmosphere of small talk among friends.
She's going to study people like me. Then I will definitely let her 'research' well, and some relationships don't need to be deliberately maintained. After coming and going, the relationship is naturally familiar.
"Hurry up and tell me about your social routines, and I'll write them down carefully. Lisa said as she pulled out a notebook from her bag and looked closely at the electronic kind.
"No, let's talk about it casually first, it's useless to write down these things, it's only useful to remember them in your head. ”
I smiled and pointed to my head, because some things are never rigid dogmas. If you follow the step-by-step process, you will never be able to break through the level of thought.
"Okay, then you can talk about it quickly. Lisa looked at me curiously. I offered to raise my glass and gesture for a drink.
A little red wine can help people relax, I have deceived so many people before I think I still have some experience in deception, and I have to come up with something dry to 'conquer' her!
"Doctor Lisa, have you ever heard of the Diana Pill? It is a health care product in the old society, which is claimed to have the effect of curing diseases and strengthening the body. ”
"I've heard of it, because I'm Cantonese. Lisa replied crisply. This kind of routine is actually found everywhere.
"Will you buy a strong pill?" I silently put a hook on her, as long as she stepped on the hook, she would be led by me.
"Of course not, everyone knows it's a lie, who would buy it?" Lisa looked at me as a matter of course, she had successfully entered the topic I had preset.
"What if the name of the pill was changed? such as XXX health products, such as XXX health wine...... Will you do your filial piety to the old man?"
"This one is different. Now that the society is so developed, there will be no previous three-no products. Lisa's answer was obviously a bit defensive, but the subtext was that she would buy it.
"I asked you if you would buy it?" I repeated, smiling all the time.
"Sometimes. ”
"If I told you this was a strong pill, would you still buy it?" I asked again, and she looked at me suspiciously.
"Of course not!, why do you ask?"
"The same thing with different names, but the result is completely different...... The same routines and different gimmicks are actually the same. ”
I laughed and explained, she should be able to understand that simple. The essence of the ever-changing routines is the same.
"What are you trying to say, why don't I understand something?"
"Deception has existed since ancient times, but the tricks have changed with the times, but the substantive things have not changed, and all the routines are basically the same. ”
I'll explain patiently. This is the most basic point of understanding the routine, and it is the so-called inseparable from the original.
"Is this a social routine? How do I tell the difference?"
"It's actually quite simple. First of all, you must understand the most basic social knowledge, understand the minimum knowledge of physics and chemistry, and you should have no problem with this. ”
I looked at her with a smile, she should understand the minimum laws of conservation of energy and chemical composition. At the very least, you can distinguish some of the most basic advocacy routines.
"Of course I'm fine!" Lisa replied without hesitation, in fact, it is one thing to understand it or not. Whether it can be used is another matter.
"You have to think a lot more about it, why is it that some amazing stuff isn't being spread all over the world, but the simplest penicillin is being used all over the world? That's the difference. ”
"I've written this down to identify the good and the bad from a wide range!" Lisa immediately noted in her electronic notebook, looking very serious.
I quietly drank red wine and waited, I didn't think that one day I would talk to a psychiatrist about the routine, I originally thought that it should be a water thief to cross the river without a dog planing, but now it feels completely different.
At the moment, I feel more like a theoretical and practical exchange, she knows a lot of knowledge from books, and I know a lot of social routines.
"It's also a very common routine, you should understand this, right?" I asked curiously, thinking of a very simple routine.
"Of course!"
"If I bring someone you haven't met to see you, please be kind and polite, can you tell the difference between the two different situations?"
"Of course, you must be your friend when you ask for more attention, but you shouldn't be too familiar with it. ”
"Wrong! It's from the perspective of your own interests, what if you think about it from my interpersonal point of view?"
I smiled and lit a cigarette to give her some time to think.
"Aren't they all the same?"
"It's different, I'm going to say please take care of it, that's kind words, because I want to take care of this person's face...... When I want to say what I should do, I really want to care, because only familiar relationships can talk like that. ”
"I don't understand, why is it so hard to speak?" Lisa looked at me confusedly, and I rubbed my hands helplessly.
"If I'm not a close friend to the person I'm bringing in, how can I say what I need to do to my face?"
As soon as these words came out, Lisa nodded thoughtfully, and quickly recorded them in her notebook, but fortunately, she understood.
"Is there any easier way to talk about it?"
"This ...... Do you have time tonight? If you have time, we can talk all night. ”
"Of course I have time. ”
"But you ask me if I have time. I said with a smile, and this is a very simple reverse.
"So do you have time?"
"If your husband doesn't mind, of course I have time!"
"Is this true or negative?"
"No man can be generous enough to let his wife spend the night with other men outside, and I don't have time to refuse very tactfully. ”
"I almost said he wouldn't mind, I feel like the social routine is so powerful!" Lisa said embarrassedly, but it wasn't anything at all.
"By the way, aren't you going to study me? Now you can start researching. ”
"Can you answer some of my questions honestly, and can you accept hypnosis?" said Lisa, pulling out something that resembled a yo-yo from her bag.
"Hypnosis?" I've only seen hypnosis in movies before, but I've never experienced it before......
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