Chapter 298: Opinion
"But if someone doesn't cherish books, they don't lend them out, and they disappoint the eldest sister's heart, it seems to be a pity, didn't the eldest sister say that everything can't be wasted because of choking. Liu Xuexue thought for a while, "We have to think of a way to let everyone cherish the books, instead of hiding the books from others." ”
Liu nodded appreciatively, and found that Liu had learned a lot during this time, not only learned to think independently, but also became more comprehensive when thinking, Li Rong was the same age as her, and when she lived with her, it didn't affect her a lot.
"You know the situation better, so let's do it, when I go to Principal Tang and Teacher Zhao, you go with me and tell them about the situation, and then let's figure out a way together, or build this 'farmer's bookstore', what do you think?" Liu Hao said to Liu Xiangxiang.
"Me?" Liu Shangxiang looked at her incredulously, he was only a primary school student, how could he discuss things with adults like the principal and teachers?
"Isn't it weird? You love books to find problems, and if you find a problem, you should think about solving it. Liu looked at him encouragingly, "You can't retreat when you encounter difficulties." ”
"I, I don't know what to say......" Liu Shangxiang blushed, he trusted Liu Haohao, she discussed everything with them, so he dared to say anything in front of her, and talked eloquently, but if he wanted to discuss things with Tang Mingliang and Zhao Yide, the awe of the division commander in his bones came out again.
It's not that Tang Mingliang and Zhao Yide are not good to their students, but that they still have a distance from students after all, after all, their educational concepts are not advanced enough to treat children as equal talking objects.
"You usually talk to them how you talk to me," Liu patted him on the shoulder, and said to him, and at the same time to Liu Xue and Liu Tiantian, " We must first respect our elders, there is nothing wrong with this, but respect is not the same as fear, it is not the same as fear, shrinking back, not even a complete sentence dare not say, what ideas we should fully express, the elders are also people, what you say makes sense, they will not unreasonably blindly use the identity to oppress people, and they are also happy to hear your thoughts and opinions. One person counts short, three people count long, although you are young, but you can also have your own ideas, it is really not good to help pick up the gaps. The more you are afraid of your elders, the more you dare not speak, the greater the distance barrier, so everything is about communication. ”
"But we're still young, so if we say anything, everyone will take it as a joke, and where will they really take care of us. Liu Tiantian said depressedly.
"Whether others will take your words as a joke is not because of your age, but because of the maturity and reasonableness of your words. If you are now forty or fifty years old, and you still say something out of tune, people will think that you are a joke, but if you are in your teens and speak reasonably, people will not only think that this is a joke, but will also look at you with admiration, and they will be willing to discuss anything with you in the future, discuss more, see more in the world, you will be more mature and stable in talking and doing things, and others will naturally respect you more, which has become a virtuous circle. ”
The more the three children listened, the more they felt that Liu Haohao was talking about herself, in terms of age, her age is really not too old, in the eyes of people who don't know her, she is just a yellow-haired girl in her early twenties, but in the eyes of those who know her, she is a very amazing person, every word she says is very weighty, and no one dares to despise her.
From the principal and teachers in the school, to the lower cadres in the production team, to the old people in the clan, and even the cadres at the head of the commune, everyone should give Liu Haohao a thumbs up and praise it.
Young people of the same age as her are still a hairy guy or a yellow-haired girl who has no right to speak in the eyes of others, why is she different from others?
Not only because she is a top student in the college entrance examination, because before this, she has been respected and trusted by everyone, in the final analysis, it is because of her maturity and stability in the world.
The three children have followed her for many years, and under the influence of their ears and eyes, they are already much better than children of the same age, and they have begun to think deeply and thoroughly when they think about problems, and they have begun to have thoughtful looks on their faces.
Liu Haohao doesn't want to "mature" them and make them precocious little adults, she hopes that they should keep the innocence of children and the romance of girls, so she will still buy small toys and snacks for Liu Xiangxiang, try to let him enjoy the fun of childhood, buy hair accessories and scarves for Liu Tiantian and Liu Xuexue, and indulge the girl's love for beauty.
But she didn't want them to become three echo worms who didn't dare to express their opinions, or even think independently, and she didn't want them to live under her wings or shadows in the future.
She knew that her excellence would cause them pressure for a long time, and the three of them would inevitably be compared to her by everyone as they grew up.
Each of them is an independent person, with their own independent personality, not anyone's vassal, let alone her foil.
But on this point, they themselves are obviously not confident enough, in the past two years, she and the three children have established an extremely deep relationship, at the same time, they have also developed a kind of blind trust and dependence on her, they are accustomed to leaving all problems to her eldest sister to solve, and at the same time, almost adoring that her every word is correct and irrefutable.
If this continues, they will lose the ability to think and deal with problems on their own, and when there is a second person they admire in the future, they may also blindly follow the opinions of others as she does today.
Now in this era, people and things are very simple, everyone lives step by step in their own position, maybe there is nothing to see, but as long as more than ten years later, the society will become more and more complex, and more and more "people with hearts" will appear, if a person is too lacking in assertiveness, it is easy to go with the flow, and even be deceived by others.
Her success is actually a double-edged sword for this family, on the one hand, it can improve the status of the Liu family in society, especially to bring social resources far better than ordinary people to the three younger siblings, but at the same time, it is also easy for "people with hearts" to target their family, she can't always be by their side to guard them in every detail, blocking all the wind and rain for them, and the future road still depends on them to walk.