In the same way, there are many forms of scolding and harming people, some of them directly burst into foul language, they open their mouths to scold the street, and some are much more civilized and clean, but their hearts are insidious and vicious, and they can't help but think about it more, the more they think about it, the more uncomfortable they become, and the more they ponder, the more awkward they become.

Between men and women, it is better to use foul language as little as possible, it is easy to hurt feelings, just like a broken bowl, a rift, which cannot be bridged by time. In case you meet an evil person, be careful to remember you for a lifetime, and when you are seriously ill and lie on the bed, waiting to sign for rescue, people's wrists deliberately tremble, even if you delay for two minutes, you can't stand it!

"Uh!" Lan Yue'er didn't expect that the way of scolding and being scolded also needed to be chosen, and she was stunned by the question, blinking her eyes and not knowing how to solve the problem, and at the same time she was deeply surprised by the questions that Hu Dafa usually thought about. It's easy to understand how to drill camps and how to make money, why are there still people thinking about how to scare people?

"For example, your parents, who are usually angry with you, what do they say about you? Do you directly beat and scold, or do you have a gun and a stick in your words?" Hu Dafa made a simple hint. Most of all the bad and bad habits are learned from the people around you when you grow up!

If parents are rude, when their children grow up, most of them will have a bad temper, boys will be violent, girls will be rebellious, and if parents have too many bad habits, they will always be unnaturally contaminated with their children.

"My dad scolded me a few words, and my mom won't hurt me!I'm still very well-behaved, I won't make them angry!" Lan Yue'er thought for a moment.

"Oh, generally speaking, your family is a very sunny family style, not bad! As for this matter, you can follow the method I said, try it! Find a few friends, get together and talk slowly, don't break up with one mouth, like my friend, after the divorce, I know how to regret it!" As for whether Liu Yuner really regrets it, it's not something she should care about.

After the breakup, I remembered the song: Where to find such a good person?

Liu Yun'er, then she is not a person who regrets, in her heart, she can only regret others, what she does, she must have the ability to carry it, so she has no regrets!

"Brother Hu, I think of one more thing!

"Oh! Say it!" Hu Dafa frowned secretly, I'm not a psychoanalyst, why am I bothering so much about the two of you? But after drinking a sip of wine, it's not easy to refuse directly, she wants to say, she can't stop it, so she has to nod her head and agree.

"I remember that you used to work in a restaurant!" Lan Yue'er looked at Hu Dafa, and after receiving an affirmative answer, she continued: "You say, if you serve food to those diners, will those people say thank you to you?"

"Huh?" Hu Dafa's brows have not relaxed, why did he ask and ask, talking about this kind of topic, "Uh, generally I am not responsible for the little things in front, there are waiters to do it! I am really busy, so I will go! In my impression, there are those who say thank you, and there are those who don't say it." What's wrong?"It's not that I don't want to be in charge of serving the food, but I only care about cleaning up the empty dishes and leftovers.

"Alas! The last time I had dinner and chatted with him, I didn't know how to provoke him, and I shook my face again, and when I opened my mouth, I said that I had no quality! What waiter served, I had to say thank you to others, and said that it was hard! I can't be like me, patronizing listening to songs and looking at my mobile phone, it seems that I have no taste and no quality!"

"Oh, Brother Hu, how can I usually have time to pay attention to this, I have to say thank you to the waiter, and smile with my teeth? I forgot to say, I have no quality?" Lan Yue'er looked at Hu Dafa with an aggrieved expression.

"Oh! And such a fresh argument? According to me, I don't plan to hear thank you when the food is served! You spend money to eat, and the restaurant provides the corresponding service, which should be reflected in the dishes, so why stick to superficial phenomena? Even if you open your mouth to thank you and shut up and be embarrassed, as long as you are not sincere, you are not qualified!"

"Quality is not something that can be improved with a word of thanks! I have been working in the front hall for a while, and the overall feeling is, hehe, if you really want to show that you have high quality, you can tip directly! Others give five yuan, you give ten yuan, in my heart, you are absolutely super high-quality, if you give twenty, fifty, or directly give a whole dollar, I will help you publicize, your quality is the highest person I have ever seen! Yao Ming is not as high as you!" Hu Dafa laughed.

There are so many people in the country, and it is good to really distinguish the high and low by their academic qualifications! I have never heard of them, and they will distinguish the quality of the people by their quality. People are of low quality, you are far away, look at those with high quality, will buy a house in the suburbs, a place with a good environment, or in a scenic spot, park, invest money to build a villa, or go abroad, buy a house, buy a villa, buy an apartment, find a high-quality gregarious, do not come back. As for how people get out, it's not something that people with low quality can think of!

In fact, we really don't expect them to come back, it's just that too many people are kitsch! Watching entertainment news every day, new films are released, and Douban scores are scored, and the drama has become a star, and the light overshadows the artist, and it is more than a hundred times stronger than a science and technology worker. Why is there so much money? It's easy to make money!

Most of the people who shout at others are of low quality will not be much higher in their own quality! When they meet people with low quality, they should help others improve themselves; if they only shout two slogans, they can only show their own hypocrisy!

"Brother Hu, I'll ask you one last thing, do you say ---- I'm ugly?"

"Huh?" Hu Dafa's eyes widened, and he didn't understand.

When a woman asks a man this kind of question, it is definitely not as easy to answer as asking if she is fat, and besides, the question is: Am I beautiful? The ancients said: In the eyes of the lover, "beauty or not" is to ask the lover, and the woman is only the most concerned about her husband's opinion, passers-by tell her one day, "you look disgusting", she may not remember it.

If the wife asks her husband about the topic of "is it beautiful", what she is looking forward to must be her husband's sweet words; if it is only a lover relationship, with this sentence, it can basically be concluded that the man has a lot of weight in the woman's heart, at least he cares about your opinion, and the method of answering is basically the same as the husband's statement, unless the man does not want to go further.

But if you ask if it's ugly or not, that's a problem.

"Nonsense, who said you were ugly? Calling him out, are you blind? Isn't it stupid? Such a beautiful girl can go to the beauty contest!