Bai Xue was asked by Xiao Geyan, and she was really asked. All she was thinking about was whether she would look too rough in the eyes of others, and whether she would look better in the eyes of others if she wore it like this and that.

This does seem to be a bit pandering to others, although I don't consciously want to do it, but in essence, I still put other people's preferences and opinions ahead of my own personal needs.

"What you need to do is yourself, people who know how to appreciate you will naturally appreciate you, otherwise there are so many people in this world, everyone may have their own unique set of opinions on aesthetics, if you care about each one, everyone wants to please, then wouldn't it be very hard to live?" Xiao Geyan said.

Bai Xue thought deeply about this, she found that she really made an old mistake again, she had a while in the past, probably when she was in elementary school, the little girls in the class suddenly became popular with a certain style of skirt, and then all the girls followed suit and wore it, Bai Xue was a little naughty at that time, she didn't like to wear skirts, she felt inconvenient to move, and she was uncomfortable, so she usually always wore pants.

As a result, because everyone was wearing that style of skirt at that time, only Bai Xue wore pants to school every day, and those little girls were muttering about her behind her back, secretly isolating her, and excluding her, as if she was a stranger. Bai Xue didn't notice it at first, but then she felt that something was wrong.

After finding out that she was isolated and excluded, Bai Xue was also very sad for a while, after all, she was just a little girl at that time, and she didn't have a particularly deep understanding of many things, but she simply thought that everyone didn't play with her, a group of girls chirped, but she snubbed herself, which means that she is not likable, and unlikable is the most terrible situation for girls of that age, so Bai Xue was depressed for a while, and the whole person became listless and lost her former vitality.

The first to find this problem was Bai Xue's mother, after listening to her daughter's situation in school, she felt that if she was excluded just because of a skirt, it would be a little too unnecessary, so it would be okay to buy a skirt and wear it with everyone.

It just so happened that Bai Xue's father had finished handling a case and had just returned home, just meeting the mother and daughter who were about to go out to buy a dress, and after asking the ins and outs of the matter, Bai Xue's father stopped the two and asked Bai Xue a question.

"If a person is friends with you just because you wear a certain piece of clothing, and if you don't wear it, then do you think her friend is the clothes or you?" asked Bai Xue's father.

Xiao Baixue was stunned, she had been worrying about being isolated before, and she just wanted to integrate into it as soon as possible, please the embarrassment of being excluded, and the others didn't think so much, but now that she was asked by her father, she finally put aside the distress of being isolated and excluded, and thought about this problem calmly.

"Do you think that you are not as flattering as a dress?" Bai Xue's father asked again, and after asking, he said to her, "Dad has no objection to you and your mother buying a dress, if you really like it, let alone one, we can also buy it for you, my daughter is beautiful and looks good in anything." But if you don't like it, it's because everyone else wears it, so you want to buy it like them, then there's no need. ”

Later, Bai Xue didn't buy the dress, because her father's words woke her up successfully, and after she figured out the key point of the whole thing, the original sadness and sadness disappeared, replaced by a faint anger and annoyance, why did all their own value be denied just because they didn't wear the same skirt as others? As my father said, do they want to make friends with people, or make friends with skirts?

Hmph! If you don't be friends with me because I don't wear a dress like that, then you don't deserve a friend like me! Bai Xue thought like this in her heart, and the idea of buying a skirt to cater to others disappeared.

At that time, Bai Xue's grades were very good, the family was harmonious, and she was sweet and cute, so she still had a kind of arrogance in her bones, after a gamble, she wore her favorite pants to school every day, and when she was in recess or physical education class, she didn't care if no one played with her, either reading alone, or running out to kick the shuttlecock, entertaining herself, and not being so depressed and sad.

No matter how beautiful the clothes are, they will always get tired after wearing them for a long time. Those girls slowly lost their enthusiasm for the so-called most fashionable skirts, and gradually began to feel that everyone wore similar skirts to school every day, which was really boring, but it was white snow, wearing different clothes with different pants every day, whether it was playing horizontal bars or kicking shuttlecocks, they were completely unrestrained, not to mention how comfortable they looked.

After that, quietly, I don't know when it started, there were girls in the class who imitated Bai Xue's dress, and they also began to show goodwill with Bai Xue, asking her to play with her, and walking together after school.

Children don't hold grudges, Bai Xue didn't dwell on what happened before, since everyone was intimate with her again, she was also very happy, and soon mingled with the female classmates in the class, and that turmoil became a thing of the past, if it weren't for Bai Xue remembering the conversation between her father and herself, I'm afraid she might not even remember this matter clearly.

Later, with the sudden death of his father, the life in the family suddenly became a mess, Bai Xue had to share for his mother, he had to think about his future, there were more things to worry about, and there were more worries, people became more and more cautious, and the wanton arrogance when he was a child has long since ceased to exist.

Bai Xue's eyes moistened, her nose fluttered, and she pursed her lips without speaking.

"Bai Xue, are you okay? don't scare me, I'm most afraid of girls crying!" Qiao Guang didn't expect Bai Xue to suddenly turn red, and suddenly became a little helpless, raised his hand and pushed Xiao Geyan, "Look at you! Make you unable to speak!