"I'll show you when we get married. ”

"Who is marrying you?" Guo Fengping thought humbly, I am actually a liar, but I am just a liar who does not hesitate to borrow and steal seeds in order to have a child.

Li Jianguo is even more energetic: "In addition, there are still people in society who only talk about not loving, only loving but not marrying, only marrying and not having children, and only being lustful and ruthless...... As a result, there are more and more unmarried cohabitants, trial marriage tenants, emotional numbness, fear of marriage, celibates, people who do not want to have children, people who run away from marriage and abandon children, those who are the first to enjoy pleasure, those who are indifferent to family concepts, those who are selfish, and those who steal seeds, and all kinds of strange things emerge one after another, and the traditional concept of marriage and love has been challenged like never before. ”

Guo Fengping was said by him, blushed, and covered up: "There is this kind of phenomenon, but it is not as serious as you said, right?"

"I didn't say how serious it was. Li Jianguo continued to gush, "The change in people's view of mate selection is also the reason for the increasing number of single men and women. In the old era of marriage and love, people's view of mate selection was: in addition to paying attention to the woman's appearance, men paid more attention to the woman's household registration and the nature of work, whether she would do housework, whether she was generous and virtuous, etc., while women paid more attention to the man's household registration and occupation in addition to the man's family conditions, whether he could do it, whether he was honest and kind, etc.

"The concept of mate selection in the era of newlyweds and love has undergone a significant reversal and change, and one of the most prominent manifestations is: men are heavy on color, and women love money. ”

"Really, many men make the woman's appearance a priority. I don't know when men began to chase beautiful women, especially men with power and money, not only taking beautiful women as a kind of enjoyment, a kind of stimulation, but also as an honor, a kind of capital to show off, comparing with each other, bragging everywhere.

Some also brazenly use the beauties they chase as a means to raise their worth, or even as a tool for bribery. Some rich ugly men often hook a little beauty in the crook of their arms to recruit them to cross the market, and their spirits are lively, while many shy men in their pockets, in order to pursue beautiful women, are cheeky and even lose their personality to go to their liking. What's more, in order to chase beautiful women, in addition to desperately earning money, some men often rely on improper means to collect money and show off their wealth, so that they get themselves into the class room. I think Gui Xinhua is such a man, but he is just a little witch. ”

Professor Shen agreed: "That's right. My ex-husband is also such a man. ”

Guo Fengping said indignantly: "Men nowadays are not good things. ”

Li Jianguo pushed her with his body: "What about you women? I can say that women love money, and sex is more serious than men." Especially the women in the city, when they fall in love and make friends, they all regard the man's economic conditions as the primary criterion to measure, and they are ashamed to say in the name of beauty: looking for people with successful careers.

"In their own minds, in the marriage agency, in the marriage revelation, they first mark the price of themselves like a commodity, and then go to the buyer - a successful man who is suitable for them. Is this still called falling in love? No, it's trading commodities, it's bargaining in the vegetable market.

"Some women are even ashamed to say that love can be cultivated after marriage, but money and material things cannot be imagined. As a result, the age boundary between men and women began to fade or even disappear. An old man in his seventies and eighties can marry a beautiful woman in his twenties and thirties, and an old woman in his sixties and seventies can marry a handsome man in his thirties.

And avant-garde urban women generally regard men who are more than ten years older than themselves as their ideal objects. Because most of them have successful careers, at least they are richer than the young men who have just debuted. ”

"Who said that?" Guo Fengping denied, "You are ruining the image of our women." Even if this situation exists, it can only be regarded as an individual phenomenon, so don't you cover it all with partiality, okay?"

Li Jianguo said: "This is my personal summary and opinion, whether it is right or not? ”

Professor Shen thought for a moment and said, "This kind of phenomenon does exist, and it is quite serious. But how to evaluate and treat, I'm afraid no one can really say. ”

Li Jianguo said: "It's still a situation, if I say it, don't be angry." ”

Guo Fengping said sensitively: "What's the situation? Don't talk nonsense anymore. ”

Li Jianguo said: "It is a change in the concept of love. Now in society, somehow, the mystery between men and women is gone, and the shyness and tension when in love no longer exists. When two completely strange men and women met for the first time, they behaved calmly, calmly, and even bravely and generously. After smiling, you can look at each other boldly, talk about everything, and even move your hands and feet; some people put the word love on their lips and become worthless; affection is reflected in their actions, which seems very slippery. If you don't shake hands when you meet twice, don't hug when you meet three times, and don't go to bed when you meet four times, it's considered abnormal, or you don't feel it.

"Some of the women are also very different from the previous women, and the trouser straps are very loose. After meeting with men a few times, before they could say much, they began to have their eyes wandering, their voices snorted, their bones lightened, and they did not look like a reserved and virtuous woman at all! There were a few women who even slept with someone when they met for the first time, and after meeting them a few times, they cohabited with someone, patted their butts and walked away after a few wrong words, and then went to find another man. ”

"You, you owe a beating. Guo Fengping's face turned red when he said it, and he turned around and punched him in the shoulder, "What did you say about women?"

Professor Shen couldn't help but smile and said, "Li Jianguo, you have become an expert on marriage and love." You can write a research report or a dissertation on this. ”

"Really?" Li Jianguo said excitedly, "Then I'll write a first draft first, and you will revise and revise it for me, can we two cooperate?"

"Yes. Professor Shen's interest increased, "Bring Guo Fengping with you, and the three of us will cooperate." ”

Li Jianguo said more eloquently: "I think that the transition from the old marriage era to the new marriage and love era has skipped a gradual process in the middle, so it seems a little impatient and overkill." From taboo love to promiscuous love and ruthlessness, from talking about sexual perversion to overflowing sex, it has completely gone from one extreme to another!

"The openness of many people's sexuality precedes the emancipation of ideas, and this gives rise to all kinds of lover's phenomena: the involvement of third parties, the taking of second wives, underground affairs, sexual partners, one-night stands, and so on; the openness of the flesh precedes the change of the system, and this leads to the emergence of pornographic establishments that are everywhere but are not permitted, the underground erotic trade that is sneaky and rampant, and the phenomenon of prostitution and prostitution that is repeatedly prohibited. ”

(End of chapter)