Zhao Yaqin was still a little worried, looked at Xu Qing, and couldn't help but say. "Ji Xiaofei is not big-eyed, you taught him a lesson like this, maybe he will go out to call the police now. ”

Xu Qing's expression did not change: "Let him go, I'm not stupid, of course I thought of this possibility." In other words, if I just want to teach him a lesson with my fists, I can just start doing it.

But I said that anyway, and squeezed him right.

Now, it just so happens that this restaurant also has a camera. Even if he called the police, the police could find out that it was him Ji Xiaofei who made the first move. I'm just in self-defense, what's there to worry about. ”

Xu Qing said this, and Zhao Yaqin could be regarded as relaxed. In addition to the consequences, she was indeed a little entangled in Xu Qing before because of her to do such an act.

But Xu Qing said that it was because Ji Xiaofei made Xu Qing unhappy too much, and it was Ji Xiaofei who made the first move, and Xu Qing fought back. Zhao Yaqin didn't say anything more on this point.

However, in the final analysis, Xu Qing's actions just now did have a big impact on Zhao Yaqin.

Zhao Yaqin and Xu Qing have met twice, but the impression left by Xu Qing on Zhao Yaqin has always been biased towards the image of a literati.

There is no way, Zhao Yaqin originally learned about Xu Qing through "Road Song" and "Tomb Robbery Notes".

When she saw Xu Qing's deity, Zhao Yaqin actually couldn't help but be a little shocked. This body has obvious tendon meat, as well as the perfect waist and abdominal curve. No matter how you look at it, they are more like on-screen men, more than like talented people.

The image is like this, and the idea given to Zhao Yaqin at that time was. You, a talented man with such a high talent, have you cultivated such a perfect body, and you have left no way for other men in the world to live.

Zhao Yaqin doesn't believe in love at first sight, in Zhao Yaqin's opinion, love at first sight is actually two young people with high enough appearance, looking at each other. Why do you look at the right eye so quickly, because what you see is the appearance and figure.

The time is too short, and it is too late to understand the other party's personality and other conditions. If it happens to be two people's personalities or something, they are within the range of each other's patience. That's the perfect love at first sight. Both sides can continue to sustain themselves.

However, if you find that some characteristics of the other party exceed the scope of your own patience, you will be going to hit the street in the future.

In the final analysis, marriage is not a simple matter. Many couples who love each other before marriage often work hard because of some trivial matters after marriage. If the two have not understood each other's personalities at all, it will be difficult for this relationship to succeed.

And according to Zhao Yaqin's experience, the more handsome and beautiful a girl is, the more difficult it is to get along with many times. I don't blame the people themselves, it's really that too many people treated them well before, and they have become accustomed to this kind of preferential treatment. But at the same time, they are too lazy to put too much thought into each other.

Neither side is willing to take the initiative to meet the high standards of the other, then it is not a situation where one of the parties has an idea. Eighty percent is that after coming over for a while, both of them want to share.

So what is love at first sight, the eight achievements are written by a rotten girl, and it is difficult to go on for a long time in reality.

Zhao Yaqin, in fact, knows very well that she is not necessarily in a situation where she is too easy to get along with. Her ideal partner is very high in all aspects. The appearance is good enough, but it is still far from Zhao Yaqin's high standards.

So Zhao Yaqin didn't believe much in love at first sight. Her idea is to find a man who is okay in all aspects, and after getting along for a while, she is sure that the other party will spoil her. This is qualified, first to be his boyfriend, and then after a not short test period, it is possible to have further development.

The idea is like this, and Zhao Yaqin has always been very sure of her own thoughts. But while it is certain that Xu Qing has such a high talent, he still has such perfect appearance conditions. Especially since the two were really familiar with each other on the Internet before, from the previous chat, Zhao Yaqin can indeed confirm that Xu Qing is indeed a very interesting person.

It's Zhao Yaqin, in fact, she couldn't help but be a little impulsive when she saw Xu Qing's deity.

But Xu Qing is actually a character in Zhao Yaqin's heart that is more in line with his literati image.

However, before, Xu Qing didn't even leave his seat, and the situation of easily subduing Ji Xiaofei made Zhao Yaqin couldn't help but be surprised.

If you are incapable and irrational enough, when you choose to do it at every turn, you will be seen as too impulsive, or your anger towards yourself cannot be vented through normal channels.

There is such a word in the United States, called Anger Management, which literally translates to anger management.

In fact, this kind of anger that cannot be suppressed often erupts in an inappropriate way, which can be regarded as a mental illness. Often, it takes long-term treatment by a psychiatrist to gradually adjust.

It's just that here in Huaxia, I don't treat the psychiatrist very well.

On average, there is one psychological counselor for every 1,000 people in the United States. And a psychological counselor cannot have only one client, which is a long-term business that makes a lot of money.

But here in China, out of a million people, there are generally only four or five psychological counselors.

Some Chinese people are indeed not as hypocritical as the United States, and all problems are pushed to mental illness. In most cases, the Chinese people just find a way to overcome it by themselves.

Second, in fact, it is indeed Huaxia that does not pay enough attention to this situation. Some of the internationally recognized psychological conditions have no market here in China at all.

There are few psychological counselors, not because the above does not pay enough attention. It's really open, and more than nine percent of ordinary people will not take the initiative to receive this kind of treatment at all, so it's useless to have more psychological counselors here in Huaxia. First of all, conceptually, this situation has not been accepted.

If you don't have the ability, the talent, and the irrational anger at every turn, it's definitely a case of brain problems. In the past, it was because no one cared about it, so there was such a problem.

But now, with the gradual improvement of China's legal system, citizens no longer reject this means of calling the police. In addition, as long as you understand that your life is worth enough, you will not bury your future because of some trivial things.

More people will start to be more inclined to call the police or put up with it. Choosing to take revenge directly or in person can indeed be regarded as too impulsive, which is a major flaw in character.