Liu Hao Hao opened up emotionally late, and junior high school and high school were in Li Xin's school, monitoring her almost in all directions, no boy dared to hit the muzzle of the gun and have any thoughts about her, so she knew almost nothing about the feelings when she was young, let alone early love, she lived for so many years in her previous life, and she didn't even taste the taste of love.

But she has never eaten pork, and she has seen pigs run, and there are many friends around her who have developed from classmates to lovers, and even husband and wife, some of whom are still high school classmates, so after Weiwei went to high school, she sometimes secretly thought that if Weiwei fell in love, she would definitely not oppose it like others.

"Of course it's forbidden. "Some students ignored the school's rules and fell in love, and they were all found by their parents and reviewed in front of the whole school." ”

"So serious?" Liu Hao frowned, "It hurts people's self-esteem to do this." ”

Weiwei suddenly lowered his voice, "I heard that a sophomore girl was caught falling in love and wanted to find her parents, she was so scared that she cut her wrists in the dormitory, but fortunately she was rescued back, and then she changed schools." ”

This matter is not a secret, and their teacher also used it as a negative case to teach them that they are not allowed to fall in love, which is extremely shameful, and they should pay attention to their studies at their age.

"It's really deformed and perverted, not to mention that the emotions between young men and women are normal," Liu Hao cursed in a low voice, "Even if early love is wrong, it should be resolved by gentle persuasion, not in such a simple and crude way." The purpose of the school is to educate like a spring breeze and rain, not a thunderous blow. It's really worry-free to put the reason for the decline in students' grades on falling in love, so that you don't have to take responsibility, anyway, when students graduate, it has nothing to do with them, these children, and even other children, will have a lifetime of psychological shadows in the future, these are not what they care about!"

Weiwei looked at Liu Haohao in surprise, and didn't understand why she was suddenly so indignant, "Mom, I didn't have a young love." ”

"I'm not talking about your problem, I'm saying the school didn't handle it the right way. Self-esteem is the most important thing in a person, especially for those of you who are in adolescence, taking care of your self-esteem can have a huge impact on your life. Puppy love may have the potential to affect learning, but is it about a child's moral character? Is it a legal offense? Is it just an ignorant emotional attraction between young men and women, and is it a crime to mobilize teachers and parents to review in front of the whole school and accept everyone's fingers? This kind of practice tramples on children's purest feelings, and our education cultivates people, not machines, and as educators, they don't pay attention to children's feelings and trample on them wantonly, so what do they want to teach? Liu Haohao said angrily.

I vaguely understood.

Mother's home education and school education have always been very different, she respects everyone's feelings, whether the other party is a high authority, or ordinary and vulgar, even if it is just a child like Xiaoxiao, she will give full respect, her education for him is also respect and love, love him and teach him how to love people, love the world, so all his actions are based on a foundation that is - love.

He loves those teachers who care about him and can't bear to let them down, so he studies hard, abides by the school rules and disciplines, and does not question what is wrong with the school and teachers, he loves his classmates, so he unites and loves them, is humble everywhere, and treats people gently.

It's not because the school requires it, he treats himself as a robot to comply, he has always been a child who can think independently, he didn't think deeply before, as soon as Liu Haohao said it, he began to think seriously.

Liu Haohao was also silent, the reason why she was so excited was because what happened to the girl who Weiwei said, which reminded her of Liu Xuexue when she was in high school, a big and small thing happened in Jinhua High School, a girl in the first grade of Liu Xuexue was accused of early love, and she chose to commit suicide by jumping into the river because of the humiliation, although Liu Xuexue did not have too close intersections, but she also saw this quiet and introverted girl in school, and felt very shocked and sad at the time, and wrote to her about it, which once caused a psychological shadow to Liu Xuexue, making her feel that love is a very shameful thing。

At that time, in the conservative countryside of Southern Province, it was a matter of gossip between men and women to say a few more words, let alone be directly accused of early love, not only at school, but also at home.

Although it is not as harsh as it was then, it is not much better, it is obviously a normal throbbing of adolescence, but it has been demonized into a flood beast.

"The most important thing for the school is the promotion rate, early love will affect learning, directly affect the interests of the school and teachers, so they regard early love as a flood beast, in fact, not only early love, everything that affects learning is regarded as a flood beast, video games, and even sports are not allowed. ”

Liu Hao came back to his senses and looked at Weiwei with some surprise.

"I heard the teacher in the teacher's office talking about a homeroom teacher in the third year of high school, saying that there was a city champion in his class, and he could not only get the best of the year, but also get the highest first-class bonus. The highest first-class prize and being recognized as a famous teacher who has produced excellent students are all the goals pursued by the teachers, so they don't care about anything except academic performance. Weiwei shrugged, although he was kind by nature, he was not a son and brother who did not understand the world, growing up in a family like theirs, he saw a lot of gains and losses, and he didn't say many things, but he knew it in his heart.

"The hustle and bustle of the world is all for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit. Mom, the performance reform you have carried out in the school is effective in improving the enthusiasm of teachers and improving the school's test scores, but there are also many sequelae, and the score-based doctrine that attaches too much importance to grades will make teachers forget the purpose and original intention of education. Wei Weiping didn't think about it in this regard, and he didn't think there was anything wrong with the school and teachers, but as soon as Liu Hao was inspired, he immediately noticed the problem.

Liu looked at her son, who had grown taller than her, the little baby had grown into a little teenager, although his face was still childish, he was already able to think like an adult, and could even give her advice and suggestions on her decision-making.

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