No one can help me when I need him, and show me the way when my heart is hesitating.

If it weren't for the second uncle, I wouldn't be where I am today, and I have an indescribable gratitude in my heart, and I can always open my heart and be unscrupulous in front of him, because he is the person I trust the most!

"Second uncle, I don't have the shrewd mind of a fat man, nor do I have Misu's social experience, let alone Su Yurong's opponent, I can't even find my presence among them...... I also know that relying on favors can't bring them together for a long time. ”

"It's nice to find your place," he said. ”

"I know that no matter how strong the team is, if it doesn't belong to me, it's in vain, and I want to be the indispensable person, just like you!"

"That being said, I'm not indispensable either. The second uncle's words were extraordinarily deep, which made me a little unbelievable.

In my impression, the second uncle's old thousands of groups are centered on him, he is the center of the game in the gambling game, and he is also the one who has the final say in life.

"Actually, let's put it this way, no one is irreplaceable, and the earth will still turn without anyone, do you understand?"

"I understand that, but I don't understand what it has to do with the present. ”

"Silly boy, there has never been anyone in the world who cannot be replaced, your thinking starting point is good, and the problem you consider is also right, you just chose the wrong direction. ”

"What direction, second uncle, can you tell me carefully?" At this moment, I felt that I was about to solve the confusion in my heart, because second uncle he knew what to do.

"All people in this world are in a relationship of exploitation and being exploited, remember this sentence?"

"Remember, I remember every word you said in my heart, and I never forgot it. I replied honestly, knowing that he was unraveling my doubts.

"Your problem is here, you still don't understand the real meaning of this sentence, to take advantage and be used is not as ruthless as it seems. ”

"I don't understand. I said it cautiously, feeling like I didn't understand anything yet, and I didn't have a deeper understanding of using and being used.

"The relationship between using and being used has always existed, including friends and relatives, but the way and purpose of using are different, but you don't want to be confused by the word use, the way people get along with each other can be regarded as use. ”

"Still don't understand...... I feel that these words are really ruthless. I said it carefully, and the second uncle's words made me difficult to accept every time, because he never played according to the routine.

"Do you know what Lao Tzu is doing when he goes out this time?" the second uncle asked thoughtlessly, I honestly don't know.

"This time I'm here to help your junior brother solve the problem, he has a small casino in Jilin, do you think he is using me?"

"This ...... You only have feelings to help, don't you?"

"Wrong, feelings are also based on the relationship of exploitation, real feelings and relationships are all about using and being used, just like you use the people around you to deal with AOB, everyone knows it in their hearts. ”

I was a little surprised by what the second uncle said, as if I was experiencing an unprecedented world, and I was also accepting a new idea.

But it is undeniable that what he said is right, and the more difficult it is to understand, the more profound the truth!

"It's good if you want to win people's hearts, but you have to choose the right direction first, you have to know that you can be used by people, they will follow you, and the relationship between them can be long-term. ”

"I seem to understand a little bit. ”

"Don't think that using these two words is ruthless, in fact, people are the same, things are like people, people are grouped, why do you make friends who are thousands of people and not office workers? The reverse is the same for them. ”

"In other words, for the people around me, I am also a potential target of exploitation?" I asked for some reason, feeling that this layer of window paper in my heart was about to be pierced!

"That's right! Now think about it, what is your most valuable thing to be used for? Putting aside your own personality traits, think purely from the perspective of profit. The second uncle asked coldly, and I immediately began to think.

I thought about it for a long time and didn't think of a place where I could be used, but I had a strange idea in my heart, the most valuable place to be used...... It can't be the second uncle, right?

"Second uncle, the most valuable thing around me is not you and your old Qiantuan?" I asked cautiously, feeling that this idea was ridiculous but very realistic!

"That's right, that's why I'm alienated from them, you're my own nephew, and you're irreplaceable!"

The second uncle's words instantly made me have an epiphany, and at this moment I really understood the true meaning of using and being used! It is not so ruthless in the literal sense.

"Second uncle, it turns out that all this is your routine, but why didn't you tell me earlier?"

"You may not be able to understand this truth now, but you will understand later that there is nothing bad to say about using and being used, in fact, it is obvious that the truth is obvious. The second uncle's tone was much more relaxed.

He made me understand a very incomprehensible truth, absurd and realistic, this kind of words full of negative energy solved the doubts in my heart, and made me live more clearly!

"Wait a minute, second uncle, what should I do with a friend like Su Yurong? Just because of the favor, he is by his side, but sooner or later, when the favor is paid off, he has no desire, no desire, and no use for me......"

"If you really want to keep him, he doesn't have a need, you can give him something he needs, everything can be created. ”

"I don't understand. I answered bluntly, because I knew that I couldn't keep up with the rhythm of my second uncle's thoughts.

"Xiao Chu has a casino, Ah Yu has a trading company, Ah Feng and Black Snake are homeless, give them what they don't have, let them do what they like, it's so simple!"

"I see, is it right to let them live the life they like?"

"That's right, you can develop a relationship based on a relationship that you can use each other, and that's true of everything, and that's the most straightforward human nature. ”

Although the second uncle's words are realistic, they see through human nature, although some words are not easy for me to understand for a while, but I can always understand the meaning of them slowly.

I don't know how many times my second uncle has been confused to be able to analyze human nature so thoroughly and straightforwardly, his perspective is always so different, and he can always let me discover the most real and straightforward side!

"I know the second uncle, now I know what to do!"

"It's good to know, remember to wear more clothes when it's been cold lately, and I'll go back in a few days. ”

"Knowing the second uncle, you also have to take care of your body!"

"Actually, there are some things I shouldn't have told you...... Because after you have experienced it once, you can better know what it tastes like. ”

"Oh, what's the matter?" I immediately wondered in my heart, I knew that this was the second uncle's usual style of pit me, could it be that he found something?

"Forget it, you always have to grow up! When I was your age, I experienced the betrayal of women and the rebellion of brothers, of course, without the departure of old friends, how can new friends join?"

"I see, Second Uncle, you told me to be careful about the people around me, right?"

"After all, you are young, and sometimes you are too easy to be emotional, too easy to be taken advantage of...... Because you have an almost idiotic attachment to feelings, which even I don't understand!"

"Hehe, maybe this is my life, I've been like this since I was a child!"

"So you will go through a lot, many things are painful, I can see but I can't tell you, you will have a deeper experience if you go through it yourself!"

The second uncle has always been like this since I was a child, he saw that I was going to fall into the pit but he wouldn't pull me, saying that he would only remember the lesson if he fell and hurt!

"Second uncle, don't be so mysterious, you tell me so that I can prepare in advance......

"Can I tell you this time, what about next time? A man who has not suffered from a woman, a man who has not experienced brotherly rebellion, is not a real man at all!"

If it was said by someone else, I would definitely not believe it, but I have absolutely no doubt about what the second uncle said...... Because I can trust him, I trust that he will not harm me!

"Second uncle, in fact, I don't have to let everything go through and bear it by myself, sometimes let me know the harm of things to take precautions in advance, just taste it, don't let me hurt so deeply. ”

"You kid has learned to blend in now!But there are some things you still have to be careful and wary of the people around you!"

The second uncle's words made my scalp buzz! Could it be that he had already seen who had a ghost in his heart?