Eight hundred and twenty-four The troubles of giving birth

"Oh, you're the firstborn!" the woman smiled, and she didn't know how to tell that Sister Hua was the first fetus. "I'm the second one! The first one is a girl, my mother-in-law doesn't do it, I don't want a boy, the big ones are in elementary school, it's really troublesome!"

"There are two children at home, and we can take care of each other in the future! It's good!" Sister Hua's kind response, not everyone really thinks so.

"Oh, girl, you don't know! Just for this second child, we both had several fights! First of all, who gave birth to it, for this, I was angry! When I was the first child, my mother-in-law's words were very ugly, and she said: If it's a boy, you can have whatever you want, and if it's a girl, you can eat what!"

"Listen, that means that boys come first, and if you give birth to a handle, I will be the queen mother and the Virgin Mary! If I give birth to a girl, I will suddenly become a long-term nanny for his family, and I will have to support them in addition to earning money! Fortunately, the country has let go of having a second child, or I will be holding back to divorce me! What a man!"

"The boys are all rushing to take them, and the girls have to watch by myself! Why! I have to watch the children while going out to earn money, and I have really become a slave to their family! Cut!" The woman said about the past, her face was displeased, and the more she thought about it, the more angry she became, "You said that there are tens of millions more men than women now, and they all have boys, who will they marry in the future? Where can they find a daughter-in-law? Now they are fighting everywhere for oil, and they won't fight every day for marrying a daughter-in-law in the future!"

"En!" Sister Hua didn't expect that the sister next to her thought a lot, and she really didn't talk to Hu Dafa about this topic, it is said that families with old people, especially those with only children, all hope to have a boy, and when you can do B ultrasound casually in the past, as long as you are pregnant with a girl, the miscarriage rate is quite high. Stereotypes cannot be changed in a day or two.

Now that casual ultrasound is not allowed, it will not be difficult for our great people! There are always novel examination methods that let everyone know in advance whether the child in the womb is male or female. In order to minimize the miscarriage caused by this, the state has completely liberalized the two-child policy, which is also considered to be a part.

"After giving birth, and quarreling over how to feed, you look at it now, who doesn't buy milk powder, domestic, imported, and directly from foreign countries, I also said, I want to buy milk powder to feed the child. Oh, I was unhappy again, and the whole family said to me: It's not that I don't have milk, what are you doing to buy milk powder? It's not as good as eating your own food!"

"Hmph, for the sake of my figure, I don't want to!" The woman shook her face and puffed up her chest proudly, but now her belly is so big, no matter how you look at it, she doesn't feel how proud her figure is, "As soon as a woman is pregnant, her figure will definitely be out of shape, I was not thin before, while dieting and exercising, I finally controlled it well, this is good, I gave birth to a child, and my weight rose sharply, thirty pounds! It took me a year and a half to lose it!"

"Those old people all said, what's so difficult about giving birth to a child! Isn't it just a lot of meat on the belly and a child with more than a dozen pounds? But after giving birth, these dozen pounds of meat are really not easy to go on! That's it, I've thrown away tens of thousands! Either it's diet tea, diet pills, or all kinds of weight loss exercises! Seriously, it's more troublesome than going to work!" "Think about it, in the beginning, in order to maintain their figure, women really took great pains!

"Well, I don't think you're really fat!Look at it, your legs are not as thick as mine!" Sister Hua compared intentionally or unintentionally, comforting the women around her by the way.

"One white covers all the ugliness, one fat destroys everything! Or say that you are the first child! When I just gave birth, my grandfather was unwilling to hug me, and the eyes of me were not right, saying that there was a problem with my waist, and whether there was a twin in the stomach that I didn't take out, let me go to the hospital to see it again, super it, no matter how you look at it, it's thick! Oh, I was so angry at that time that I ignored him for half a year!"

"I'm also gritting my teeth to lose weight! I don't believe it, I can't lose weight! It took more than a year to lose weight, and when I talk about it, it's all blood and tears! This is good, for the sake of this policy of celebrating the whole world and making my mother-in-law happy, I have to give birth to another one! Alas, they are all women, so why be embarrassed to be a woman! Really, in the next life, I will not be a woman, who said: It is good to be a woman, let her come! I will not do it!"

"Well, it makes sense, in the next life, I will also be a man!" Sister Hua thought about her family affairs and felt that it made sense.

"It's not enough to give birth to a child, you have to go to kindergarten in a hurry when you are more than two years old, you have to queue up when you have time, the public ones are cheap, the private ones are too expensive, and you can't afford to go to kindergarten! A month's salary, if it is less, it is not enough to hand it over to her! Isn't it just to coax the child, I don't eat much, two are full and one is poured, what is there! If I go in, it will be several thousand! My tuition fee for a year in college is only a few thousand yuan? She is only a month!"

The woman didn't know what it was for, but when she saw Sister Hua, she seemed to have met a bosom friend, poured beans into a bamboo tube, and said her family affairs without reservation with her thoughts during her child-rearing;

"Dafa, come and listen, this sister is good, you can remember it in the future, there are a lot of things!" Sister Hua greeted Hu Dafa.

"Oh, what are you talking about?" Hu Dafa looked confused, and when he entered here, he realized that Sister Hua was born for the first time, and she was also here for the first time. There are so many things I don't understand!

"Look at you, how happy you are, my husband accompanied me for a physical examination, alas, look at our mouth again, we're on a business trip! I'll settle accounts with him when I come back!" the woman's face was full of envy.

"Hey, work is also important!hehe!" Hu Dafa had no choice but to laugh.

"Sister, you said that after giving birth, how many things do you have to do?" Sister Hua is concerned about the next things, and she is about to be ripe, and the next things must also be put on the agenda.

"If you know someone, you have to choose whether to think about giving birth by yourself, or choose a good time and have a caesarean section!" The woman raised her chin and pointed to the doctors and nurses who came in and out, "If you know someone, it's better to line up, pick a good day, and you can have a direct caesarean section, so as to save yourself the effort, alas, it is really not such a simple thing for a woman to give birth! These doctors and nurses are also for this kind of thing, and they can reap some benefits!" she said, her voice lowered, and she squeezed her eyes and smiled.

People live for a lifetime, they should understand, they have to understand, they have to pretend to understand if they don't understand, if they still don't understand, there are also kind people who will lead you into the door.