Chapter 452: The heart is too soft
When a child grows up, what kind of character will he have is indeed not only the influence of family education.
But at the end of the day, it's definitely the most important factor. In fact, the teaching of teachers in school is not as good as the influence of parents on children.
Many young parents blame the school for not educating their children well. In fact, this statement is indeed a bit far-fetched.
School is a place where knowledge is taught, although it seems that morality, intelligence, physical fitness, art and labor have something to do with the school. But in fact, the current education system determines the general phenomenon of fractionalism.
Many experts jump out and say that the current education system has changed a lot, and who still says that education is unfair, that is, they have a bad mentality.
But what is actually going on, who doesn't know?
For Yanjing fresh graduates, the acceptance rate is more than 30%. Because if you are willing to learn a little, you will not have to worry about getting into a good school. If you don't get this trick, it's useless to tutor. So people are in these places, and they can naturally look down on cram students. So it is true that the proportion of tutors is not high.
But other remote places are different, when the first year is the first year of the exam. There are too many people who can't get into the bachelor's degree at the single-digit level in the province. So, of course, tutoring. In fact, tutoring is actually a very common situation in remote places. In some places, more than half of the undergraduate students are admitted after at least one year of remedial study.
And even if it is generally a case of tutors. In the end, the rate of one book barely reached double digits.
Don't talk about the fairness of admissions, the gap is big.
And the fact is that when Yanjing locals review in the third year of high school, they generally rarely look at previous exam questions in other regions. Similarly, candidates in other places rarely go to Yanjing's exam questions for review.
Why? The difficulty is several times worse, and there is no reference at all. Although Xu Qing took the channel of an art specialty, he also reviewed the cultural class well back then.
He is an art student, and in terms of cultural classes, he doesn't study too deeply at all. But when trying to do the questions of the college entrance examination in previous years, Xu Qing also came up with such a result. At his own level, he could score 52 percent in the National I Liberal Arts Mathematics paper, but in the same period, he could score 86 percent in the Yenching Mathematics paper.
Later, Xu Qing studied seriously and was finally admitted to Sufeng Media. But the situation at that time was already obvious. The difficulty of the college entrance examination papers in different places is different.
Here in Yanjing, it's just a book to learn casually anyway, and not many people will learn it seriously. And even if there are individual high-achieving students, generally speaking, it is enough to learn the level that can score high in the Yanjing paper. If you learn more, it's a waste.
The whole country only looks at the score, and if the score is poor, it will affect the future prospect. Therefore, the following schools, of course, must follow the method that only the score is important. It is not uncommon for teachers to help students cheat. Grades are so important that they affect the future of a student's life, as well as the career prospects of teachers.
Therefore, except for a very few places in the country, there is generally a fractionalism. In such a situation, in terms of personal quality and personality, it is no wonder that other teachers have not educated well.
The education of personal qualities, civilization, and character has almost entirely become the responsibility of parents.
Some parents work very hard to educate their children, but when their children grow up, they still have problems in terms of civilization level and personal quality. But at the end of the day, even if that's the case, it's a case where something goes wrong with the parenting method. In the end, there is also a part of the responsibility of parents.
As for most of them, they are too spoiled by their own children, and they don't have a serious education at all. If something goes wrong with the child and endangers the society, then more than 90% is the responsibility of the parents.
Wang Peng can have today's character, not to mention it, he has to have more than half of the responsibility of Wang Peng's parents.
That's right, when the real accountability is real, it will only be Wang Peng. But in the final analysis, how much responsibility belongs to you, and that kind of guilt should be borne for a lifetime.
But before I was ignorant, I was blind again. When the whole Cangxian County said that Wang Peng was shameless to a certain level, some people pointed fingers at them every day and talked about their educational failures.
In this case, even if Wang Peng's parents are really blind, they can almost confirm that their son has reached the point where he is on the verge of being hopeless.
As a parent, he will definitely work hard to change Wang Peng. But at least in the future, it will be very difficult for Wang Peng to ask for money or something from his parents. Maybe, it will increase in memory.
After Xu Qing finished saying the previous paragraph, several people in the room couldn't help but be a little silent.
No one is more serious, and Xu Qing's eyes will be repaid. He himself said that he is usually a very kind person. It was really because it was about Zeng Yurou, Wang Peng's rumors caused too much harm to Zeng Yurou, and Xu Qing held his breath in his heart.
This matter, if it is calculated, it will not be Xu Qing's minus point, but will be included in the bonus point. is so good to Yurou, Yurou is bullied, so she has to hold up a piece of heaven for Yurou. For Xu Qing's idea, Zeng Yurou's parents were also very satisfied.
And in the final analysis, this method is not a subordinate method. After calculating it, it can only be regarded as treating others in the way of others. Such a consequence is definitely what Wang Peng deserves.
After a long time, it was Zeng Yurou's mother who couldn't help but ask a little tangled. "Could it be that they will be too hard to hit Lao Wang?"
Before Wang Peng's incident, the Wang family and the Zeng family actually had a very good relationship. So in the past, the families of the two sides contributed to the matter between Zeng Yurou and Wang Peng.
But before Wang Peng spread rumors and belittled Zeng Yurou for nothing. Wang Peng's parents may have doubts in their hearts, but they still stand firmly by Wang Peng's side.
From then on, the old men of the two families were completely torn apart.
When chatting about the sky before, when the second elder talked about Wang Peng's parents, he couldn't help but be angry. But at the end of the day, they were friends for decades. And if you calculate it, Wang Peng's parents are indeed very pitiful in this matter.
That's right, it is indeed because of the pampering of Wang Peng's parents that Wang Peng has too many problems. The two of them also have to bear some responsibility. But the current situation is that the second elder of the Wang family is now also the result of being deceived by Wang Peng of all his life savings.