The two of them unconsciously raised their voices, Hu Yingying wanted to persuade the two of them not to quarrel, but they didn't know how to speak, but Hu Zhiwen and Wang Xia pulled Hu Wei and said, "Eh, you are a boy, how can you quarrel with Xiaodi." ”

"That's it, be generous, listen to Reba's what's wrong, isn't it just to let Xiangling eat more meat, what's the big deal. ”

Hu Wei replied to them: "I didn't want to quarrel with her, I just told her that it was wrong for her to do this, it was not good for Xiangling, how could this be a meat meal." ”

Then he said to Reba, his tone was a little lighter, "It's even more wrong if you tell it that it's delicious and don't give it meat, it's like a child, it will believe you whatever you say, you lie to it to know what the consequences will be, it will no longer believe you, it will ......"

"Enough, it's more than a year old, it's an adult, it's not a child as you call it. Reba didn't want to listen to Hu Wei's broken theories, so he directly interrupted his words and said impatiently.

After being told by his uncle and aunt, Hu Wei was as polite as ever, and said patiently: "No matter how big it is, it is just an animal, and its IQ is only at the level of a child." ”

Reba couldn't get angry when he saw him like this, so he sighed and said, "Then what do you say to do now? If you give it food, you won't have a long memory, and if you don't give it, I'll lie to it, what do you say?"

Anyway, it's a dead knot, and there is always one aspect that can't take care of the Tao.

Hu Wei looked at Reba and compromised slightly, so he got up from the sofa, oops, his stomach was still a little uncomfortable, he rubbed it first, and sat down next to Reba, Hu Yingying made room for them to sit in another position, Hu Wei hugged Reba and coaxed her and said: "Then there is no way, even if it is lucky, it can only let it eat a good meal, but just one meal, and the rest is still no meat to eat, okay?"

Reba reluctantly agreed, "Okay, then what else do you have to say?"

Hu Wei thought for a while and said: "I was sick to my stomach just now, and I didn't feel good when I talked to you, I apologize, I'm sorry, don't be angry, okay?"

Reba was full of joy, waiting for this sentence, she was really afraid that Hu Wei would give her a sentence "Then you can't talk nonsense in the future when I discipline it", but obviously Hu Wei's emotional intelligence is very high, and he knows what Reba wants him to say.

But she still said angrily: "I'm not angry with you! It's the least cost-effective to be angry with you, it's all my sulking life, you won't be angry with me, it's boring." ”

Saying this, his hand had already gone to help Hu Wei rub his stomach, and he said: "Does it still hurt?" ”

It makes sense to say this, and it is somewhat different from the last incident, in that the actions carried out by the "suspect/dog" against the "victim" are intentional and unintentional, and the intentional nature and Hu Wei have no responsibility at all, and the unintentional nature still has a little responsibility.

For example, on a country road, A is walking on it, thinking about things in his head, and he doesn't notice that B is riding in his direction, and B is also shaking, and neither of them notices the other, and then an accident happens, A is the victim, but he is also partly responsible.

Thinking about it like this, Hu Wei felt that his initial idea was a little extreme, so he echoed Reba and said: "Well, I know, I will pay attention to it in the future, but Xiangling still has to teach it well, fortunately my body and bones are good, otherwise it will not be so simple to hurt a weak person next time." ”

Reba nodded and said, "Well, you have to take care of it, it's not good at all." ”

Reba rubbed the head of "Xiangling" while talking, and then it left in disgust, it was too much, and he praised me for being good just now, and now he will rub my head, he is really forgetful, and he won't play with you.

Hu Zhiwen and Wang Xia breathed a sigh of relief, they were really afraid that the two of them would quarrel, but it seemed that their nephew still had a good relationship, and the relationship between the two was also very good, and they calmly discussed with each other and finally reached an agreement.

Wang Xia said with satisfaction: "That's right, two people will inevitably bump and bump together, as long as you calm down and think more, don't talk angry, you can solve it well." ”

A person's attitude and perception of a thing often depends on their life experience and their own role attributes.

It is basically impossible for two people to have the same values, worldview and social outlook together, and their roles will not completely coincide, and there will inevitably be differences, so two people need to understand each other.

Hu Yingying picked up the matter and said: "You didn't even quarrel, I thought I could watch you quarrel today, hey, it's a pity." ”

Wang Xia poked her head angrily and said, "What are you talking nonsense?

Hu Yingying said aggrievedly: "I'm just talking about it, anyway, the two of them won't really have anything to do, besides, I'm quite curious about how the two of them quarreled, it must be fun." ”

Reba asked curiously, "Have you ever seen your brother quarrel with someone else?"

Hu Yingying replied directly: "I've seen it, I saw it when I was a child, but I haven't seen it since I got older." ”

"Then why did he quarrel with others?" Reba continued.

Hu Yingying thought for a long time, and finally said: "It's been too long, I don't remember, anyway, there is, but it's not much." ”

Hu Yingying said and leaned on Reba's ear and said: "But when he was a child, he often fought with others, and every time he asked me to cover him, he was not discovered by my parents, and then the people in the school basically couldn't beat him, but when he was a little older, after he went to junior high school, he never saw him fight again, let alone quarrel." ”

Hu Wei also heard what Hu Yingying said beside Reba, remembering that when he was a child, he was bullied and excluded by other children because of the death of his parents, and then he often fought, and after he was lucky to go to junior high school, no one went to study these anymore, some classmates didn't know, some were sympathetic, and the situation of exclusion like a child who didn't know these didn't happen again.

Although Hu Zhiwen couldn't hear it, he could guess how he could never find out, but he didn't know how to deal with it, he felt that there was no problem, and he had to get it back if he suffered a loss.

He is even less worried, his own children will not suffer, and the teacher is not looking for parents, so he turned a blind eye, thinking of this, he also secretly sighed that he did the right thing at the beginning, and did not suppress Hu Wei's blood, a man must be polite and polite, but also bloody, this is the real gentleman.