"What do you say is the matter with you men? How can you be so hasty in marriage? For the sake of kindness, for the sake of commitment, for the sake of filial piety, for the sake of improvisation, anyway, it is for a lot of messy reasons to get married, but they don't like each other. I don't understand, how can we spend our lives together if we don't like each other? A marriage without love is immoral!"

Zhuang Lijun didn't expect to set himself on fire, and looked at her with a confused expression, "Don't get involved with me." ”

"Of course, including you, you didn't even see me at the beginning, just because of grandpa's words, you were willing to engage me, don't you treat marriage as a child's play, if we don't have the right personality, you not only ruined your own life, but also hurt me for a lifetime. She looked at him angrily, what age is it, and there are still people who marry in order to repay their kindness.

Zhuang Lijun was scared by her and broke out in a cold sweat, and reviewed very sincerely, "Well, sometimes, men are more rational, especially if they haven't dealt with a partner, they don't know what feelings are going on, and they are not thoughtful enough to consider emotional issues, I was young, ignorant, and ...... sensible."

"It's just that there are too many ignorant men who will have so many unhappy marriages. ”

"Yes, that's right!" Zhuang Lijun nodded immediately, "But a slap can't make a sound, there are as many ignorant men as there are ignorant women." ”

He successfully took Liu Haohao's army, whether a man marries out of love or out of kindness, as a woman, he will not feel it, but they still marry willingly, doesn't it mean that they are willing to accept it?

"That's why I'm so angry about things every day, even if she misses Chen Junhua, she shouldn't take her life's events so sloppily, look at it now, she is learning from Chen Junhua, both of them are just as ignorant. Although Liu Haohao was blocked by Zhuang Lijun, he also admitted that what he said made sense.

"It was rumored before that Chen Junhua married the daughter of their department head in order to go abroad......"

Liu Hao sneered, "His grades are so good, even if he doesn't marry that girl, he can go abroad, but if he can't, I can help, can I marry her in order to go abroad? Although he is a smart person, he is kind-hearted, especially very respectful to his elders, and it is impossible to deliberately drill into the camp and take advantage of others." ”

We all know this, but others don't know, and the discussion behind it is quite ugly, including the girl who is probably complacent about it. Zhuang Lijun still remembers the girl's commanding attitude, and he didn't restrain himself in front of them, which shows how she got along with Chen Junhua in private.

"Think about it, if you matched Chen Junhua and Tian Tian at the beginning, the two of them would be happy together, or would they be unhappy now?"

Liu Hao was asked, and he regretted it a little in his heart, but-

"I just want to go with the flow and don't want to change too many other people's lives. ”

She is already an outlier in this era, changing the fate of many people, the gears of fate turn, everything is out of control, and those whose fate has been changed may live better, maybe worse.

Therefore, she will deliberately restrain herself not to interfere too much in the decisions and choices of the people around her, and only when she really can't look past it, she will remind a few words, and today is the first time to oppose Liu Tiantian's marriage with a tough attitude.

"In addition to you, many people want to manipulate others, and your open-mindedness, your going with the flow, instead turns into a senseless concession, which is not necessarily a good thing for those you value. ”

"So I hurt Junhua and Tiantian?"

Of course, you can't say that, it's just that you should be more brave to express your thoughts, and if you say what you think in your heart, it doesn't necessarily mean interfering with their choice, after all, the final decision is still up to them. ”

"Don't you think I'm tough on Tian Tian today?"

"You are right, the attitude of learning is tougher than you, everyone has times when they are confused, and what is most needed at this time is not to stand by and watch, but to have someone pull you in time. Zhuang Lijun also felt that Liu Tiantian was confused, and he wanted to do something stupid on impulse.

"So I used to call it a standby?" she glanced at Zhuang Lijun, a little unconvinced.

"Yes," he nodded, "to say that it sounds good is to go with the flow, and to say that it is bad is to stand by and watch." ”

Liu Haohao was blocked by him speechless, Zhuang Lijun is not a person who likes to talk about it, and he has a lot of tolerance for her in life, but he is the one who will pull himself in time when she is confused, even if he knows that his words are not good, he is also outspoken and will never blindly accommodate.

"Then now that this matter is happening, should I be strongly opposed to it to the end?" She is not good at dealing with emotional matters, if she really wants her to beat the mandarin duck, she feels that she can't do it.

"Let's take a look again, meet that Guan Dajiang first. He put his arm around her shoulder, "You're getting stronger and stronger at work now, and you're trying to restrain yourself at home, but you're actually confusing them like this." ”

"They're all adults, and I can't act like I'm controlling their lives like I used to, so I can only try to respect their ideas. ”

"Not only to them, but also to minors, you don't dare to express yourself, you see you get along with Weiwei, in the past you still forced him to learn this and that, ask him this, ask him that, and now what? When he comes to ask for your opinion, your first reaction is to let him think and decide for himself. He told me that he had to guess what he had to think to make you happy every time, and that he was so tired that you might as well tell him directly. ”

Liu Hao was stunned, he didn't expect his son to have this problem at all, "I just respect his opinion, I want him to have his own opinions, and I never thought of letting him please me." ”

Weiwei is a very mature and sensible child, very similar to Liu Haohao when he was a child, she let him learn this and that, and took a bunch of interest classes, he never complained, and obediently completed the task, but Liu Hao couldn't bear it, and gave Weiwei a lot of space, let him decide what he wanted to learn and what he didn't want to learn, but Weiwei wanted to guess her thoughts.

"I know, but he's still young, what mature ideas can a primary school student have? What he can decide, he has already decided, come to ask you, just want to know what you think, and you kick the ball back to him, and refuse to say anything, let your son guess your mind. Do you know what he told me? He said, Dad, why is it so difficult to guess a woman's mind?" Zhuang Lijun couldn't help but laugh when he thought of Wei Wei's distressed look at that time.