Chapter 894: Difference (Page 1/1)

She thought about it seriously, it seems that men really don't like women who are too independent, and it seems that Zhuang Lijun is no exception, and immediately apologized, "Sometimes I don't pay too much attention, I'm sorry." ”

"I don't want you to apologize, you are my wife, we are not related by blood in this world, but we are the closest people, sharing everything, it is a real share of honor and disgrace, do you still need to say 'thank you' and 'sorry' to me?" he smiled dumbly, knowing that she didn't fully understand what he meant.

"I have something to say directly, didn't I say it before I got married, and just say what I think in my heart? When I am grateful to you, I will say thank you to you, and I feel sorry and say it directly, why do we have to hold back these words because we are husband and wife?"

She and Zhuang Lijun have never quarreled in the years they have been married, because with the personalities of the two of them, they can't quarrel at all, Zhuang Lijun is already a person with a sense of proportion, and Liu Haohao is more serious than him.

She is the kind of person who is naturally good at controlling her emotions, and rarely when her emotions are out of control, this time she was angry with Liu Chang, and she was only out of control for a moment, and she was able to regain her senses quickly, not to mention that in the face of Zhuang Lijun, who has excellent character, even if she has different opinions, she can exchange views calmly.

After all, many people think that quarreling is also a way to enhance feelings, but Liu Haohao feels that bad words hurt people in June, she is not the kind of person who has quarreled with her lover and can forget all the hurtful words of the other party, so she would rather have something to say.

In addition to not arguing, she never hesitated to express her feelings, thanks and apologies, and did not take everything for granted just because the other party was her husband.

Zhuang Lijun thought about it, what she said seemed to make sense, she was strong outside, but she was actually a very understanding person, whether it was to him, or to her younger siblings, or even to her parents in her previous life, she never hesitated to express her feelings.

Since love, you have to express it bravely, maybe it is the way their generation treats feelings, just like she often says "I love you", "thank you", "sorry" to Weiwei...... This is a bit similar to the West, like him, he has to hide his feelings, as if he said polite words, it will make people feel angry, but in fact, it may not be right.

He wiped his hands and pulled her into his arms, "Okay, then we have something to say, I hope you can rely on it a little more, I know you are used to being independent, but if you can rely on me a little more, it will greatly satisfy my self-esteem as a man, so please drive me, thank you!"

"You're poor!" she pinched him angrily when she heard the last sentence.

The two quarreled for a while, and each of them somewhat understood each other's thoughts.

Liu thought about it well, "I remember that when I was a child, my mother was busy with her career and family, and she was tired of stomach bleeding, she was afraid of affecting my father's work, so she hid from my father and lived in the hospital alone for treatment. Everyone thought it was a glorious thing, including my mom herself, who was very proud. But in fact, this incident has caused a big shadow on me......"

"Can you imagine the horror of a child looking at her mother lying on a hospital bed with a white face and no life? I don't know what disease she has, I don't know if it's serious or not, and every time she closes her eyes, I worry that she will never wake up again. My mother was not in good health at that time, and her mood was not very optimistic, and she even pulled me to tell me what was going on after her death, and I was so afraid that my whole body was trembling, but I still couldn't show it. At these times, my dad is not there, and my mom is obviously not that strong person, but there is a strange belief in her heart that even if the sky falls, it can't affect my dad's work......"

Li Xin and Liu Chi love each other very much, but Li Xin's love is the kind of giving regardless of return, and he would rather sacrifice himself to fulfill each other, this kind of love allowed her to get a perfect marriage, but it brought a deep psychological shadow to her daughter.

"I have always subconsciously felt that love is my mother's selfless dedication to my father, but I am a very selfish person, and that unreserved dedication makes me feel afraid, so I have always resisted marriage, especially military marriage. Later, I fell in love with you, married you, and had Weiwei, I didn't know how to be a good military wife, I couldn't take care of you with the army like many people, so I took my mother as an example, tried to make myself independent, properly handled all aspects of things, and didn't let anything affect you, I always thought that this was the best love for you. Liu Haohao dissected herself very frankly, but in the end, she also began to feel lost.

She vaguely felt that there seemed to be something wrong with this, but she couldn't tell what was wrong, the soldier dedicated herself to the country, and the military wife dedicated herself to her husband, this logic seems to be not wrong.

"When your mother was seriously ill but she hid from your father in the hospital, your father must have been very guilty and sad when he found out later. ”

Liu Hao nodded, "Although my dad is not the kind of person who will show any emotion on his face, but I can feel his emotions, until I have an accident, as long as he is at home, almost all the housework is done by him, what my mother wants to do, he resolutely refuses, and has always been very accommodating to her emotions, even if there are different opinions between the two, he never opposes her face-to-face, as long as my mother has a headache and brain fever, he is extremely nervous......"

Liu Hao Hao thoughtfully, "Thinking about it this way, the relationship between the two of them is very good, but the way they love each other is a little deformed, one is selfless dedication, and the other is guilty to make up." ”

"Every couple gets along with each other in a different way and loves each other, as long as they happen to meet the right person, the marriage is happy, and it can't be said that their love is deformed, we can only say that they are not our role models, I am not your father, you are not your mother, we should not copy their way of getting along. Zhuang Lijun hugged her waist and looked her in the eyes, "From the day I fell in love with you, I decided to do my best to love you, love you and take care of you, your trust and reliance are the best reward for me, you believe in me, I am different from your father, I will do better than him, when you need me, although you can rest assured and boldly hand everything over to me." ”

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