You have to believe in yourself, today's road is your own way, the person you should be most grateful for is yourself, and the person you should believe in the most is also yourself. Liu Hao let go of his hand and gently pinned a wisp of her hair to the back of his head, just like when he was a child, they had not talked so intimately together for many years, Liu Xuexue's eyes were slightly moist, no matter how much time passed, the relationship between them would not change.

"There are four sisters and brothers in the family, I am the eldest, I have my grandfather's love, I am lively and outgoing every day, I am loved by my grandmother, I am the only seedling, the whole family loves him, only you, my father does not love my mother, I have done the most work since I was a child, but I have received the least love, you have been eager to get their love, but you have never gotten it, gradually you begin to get used to it, you tell yourself, you are not worthy of being loved, you are useless, you deserve not to love you, these ideas have gradually been carved into your bones over time, and have been refined into two words - inferiority! But I want to tell you, it's not like this, it's not your fault that you're not loved, it's your grandfather, your father, your aunt, and their partiality, you are very good, you deserve to be held in the palm of your hand with the most sincere love in the world. Liu Haohao's expression was extremely serious, and he said word by word.

Liu Xue cried out loud with a "wow".

For so many years, she has been longing to be recognized by her parents deep down, she has always been very sensible, very hard-working, and has undertaken a lot of housework since she was a child, hoping that her parents can see her efforts and give her a little love, but they just treat her as a maid who can do housework, and she still does not exist in their eyes.

When she grew up, she was used to being ignored, but she still hoped that one day her parents would be able to tell her that they didn't love her because she didn't do anything wrong, and it wasn't her fault that she wasn't loved, it was their fault.

This longing is hidden too deeply, so deep that even she can't detect it, if it weren't for Liu Haohao poking the deepest and softest part of her heart, I'm afraid she wouldn't be able to find where her heart knot is.

"Study, this is our original family, a family that has never been harmonious and unhappy, especially Daddy, although he gave birth to us and raised us, but he has always disliked us, he is a good father in front of the upward, but for us, he is definitely not a good father, and he is not even worthy of the word 'father'. Now that we have grown up, looking back and thinking about it, it can be said that his attitude towards us has caused you and Tian Tian to encounter such and such setbacks emotionally. His disregard and demand for you make you feel inferior and resist entering into a stable marriage relationship with a man, and his disgust and use of Tiantian make her especially eager for love and family warmth, just like a child longs for candy, a little warmth can make her desperate to fight for herself, but you cringe and pull in the tangle of love and dislove for a long time, and she is hit by a failed marriage. ”

Liu looked at Liu Xue with distress, she had read some books on psychology, and knew that the wounds brought by the original family were difficult to heal throughout her life, and this kind of hurt was hidden deeply, only by facing the hurt and reconciling with herself, it was possible to get out of the haze, if she did not have the experience of her previous life, in many things, I am afraid that she would also lose her current calm because of the influence of Liu Changsheng and Cheng Zhaodi.

"But eldest sister, you have always done a good job, so you and your brother-in-law can always be so happy. Liu Xue sobbed with self-blame, she hadn't gotten out of her inferiority complex for a while, she was also born in such a family, why could the eldest sister handle her emotions so well, but she couldn't.

"I was very resistant to marriage at first, but it took several years, a lot of things, and finally I got married with the mentality of gambling against all odds, but I was young when I got engaged, and then I have been studying outside, and you don't know my struggles and entanglements at that time. Because I am a person from the past, I know the mentality of the two of you very well, we have no way to change our families, we can only learn to reconcile with ourselves, be relieved, adjust ourselves, and start a new life, maybe this is a very long and painful process, but don't be afraid, take this step bravely, I will always be with you, and Xiao Xu will also accompany you. ”

Liu Xuexue was stunned, "Eldest sister, you told him-"

"I told him about your upbringing, but that's what I said before, he understands you, and he feels sorry for you, it's the distress in his eyes, so I can rest assured that I will hand you over to him. You are more accurate than every day, Xiao Xu is sincere to you, and he is really patient. Liu Hao smiled, "To be honest, if it were a different person, I'm afraid I wouldn't have the patience to coax you and wait for you." ”

Liu Xuexue was a little embarrassed, "I didn't mean to take Qiao. ”

Those people outside who don't understand may say that she is the eldest lady's temper and deliberately makes things difficult for Dr. Xu, colding him at every turn, and asking him to coax her all day long, but she really didn't mean to, she really felt that she was not worthy of him, and he deserved better, but every time she made up her mind, she couldn't help but fall into her feelings for him.

"Don't care too much about what others say, Xiao Xu won't misunderstand you, we also know that you are not such a person, as for those irrelevant people, it doesn't matter what they say. Liu patted her on the shoulder, "Study, you are very good, but emotionally, you have to learn to be braver, many things will wait for you to really go out, and you will see another village." ”

It was only at this time that Liu Xuexue began to think carefully about the relationship between her and Dr. Xu, and the two began to try to talk heart-to-heart, exchange each other's real thoughts, learn to understand each other, and the relationship immediately grew by leaps and bounds.

Liu Xuexue and Dr. Xu are both in their thirties, and they have liked each other for several years, and the elders on both sides have been urging them to get married as soon as possible.

They are not vain people, and they are also disgusted with those red tape, the wedding was very simple, and the families of both sides sat down to have a meal together, and sent joy candy to relatives and friends, but the Xu family still attaches great importance to Liu Xuexue's daughter-in-law, not only Dr. Xu handed in the salary card as usual on the same day, but her mother-in-law also passed on the valuable heirloom jade jade bracelet to her.

Liu Haohao, who came to attend the wedding, saw everything in his eyes, and the stone in his heart finally fell, the parents of the Xu family are different from the Guan family, their care and importance to Liu Xuexue are real, and there is no element of drama at all.

When they misunderstood Liu Xuexue at the beginning, they never felt sorry for her, not to mention that now that the misunderstanding has been solved, they treat Liu Xuexue more kindly.

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