The preparation of the wedding is not as complicated as it is now, the travel of the wedding car does not have the pomp and circumstance of the present, and the gift money is naturally not exaggerated now, I always feel that we were married to a daughter-in-law in that era, and now we are buying a daughter-in-law? Of course, the times are different, the needs are different, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, and the individual is not excluded, and it is good to do what you can.

The only regret left for us is that we didn't be able to take a good wedding photo, and we are ashamed of her!

Poor - I borrowed money to buy all three golds!

Poor - without wedding photos, thinking about the future days, reluctant to spend money.

Poor - no groomsmen and bridesmaids,

Poor - no decent new house,

Poor ------ tiled houses and simple wedding houses.

……

4.28 nights. On the eve of the wedding, the joy of the newlywed wedding is about to stay awake all night, will she be like me at this moment......

Departing in the early morning of 4.29, arriving at the bride's house at 5.40 in the morning (I only remember, my cousin asked what time it was), after rearranging the wedding car, lighting firecrackers and honking all the way.

When picking up the bride in the countryside, the man will generally be "embarrassed", and the atmosphere will be unusually high, with the sound of firecrackers, gongs and drums, screams, laughter, and various sounds mixed together to form a typical rural love march.

Level 1: Open the door to welcome your family

You'll have to convince the "doorkeeper" to go in or get in.

"Come on, is the new aunt preparing for the firecrackers to explode and the red envelopes to be cool? Or is it singing and climbing under the table?"

Hand over a red envelope, light a salute, and talk sweetly like honey for a long time, so I had to continue repeating the above steps......

After a long day, the excitement continued unabated, and the people who followed me in the past were classmates and cousins, so they naturally worked hard to celebrate.

"Second brother, pay attention to the time, don't delay the point of worship?" the cousin reminded.

"Okay, I got it".

The old rules are still retained in the countryside, and it is necessary to find a feng shui master to see the days when getting married, and you need to avoid the days when the genus is in conflict, such as the rat and the afternoon horse, the ugly cow and the sheep, the tiger and the monkey, the rabbit and the rooster, the dragon and the dog, and so on. It is also necessary to pay attention to the opening of the 379th day, that is, the auspicious day is best to avoid in the March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with the "Qingming", "Yulan" and "Chonggong" respectively, which are the traditional "Ghost Festival", and it is not suitable for happy events. What else is not optional in the blind year, avoid Sanniang and so on, in short, it is very complicated, I don't understand, I just need to remember the point of the chapel, as the saying goes, don't miss the time.

"Light the gun, drill the table"

As soon as he thought about the sound of the cannon, he lowered his body, hooked his head, saw it without hearing it, and went straight through the bottom of the table, and cleared the customs smoothly.

"Hahahaha"

"Hahahaha, haha"

The happy laughter of relatives in my ears is endless. The grooms all went in, and the gate was successfully released, and the originally large hall was filled with people! I believe that happiness is easily infected, and everyone has a happy smile on their faces.

Level 2: Open the door to happiness

The bride is in the room, the door is closed, and wants to open?

Painted red, different places in the village but the same, add festivity will use red pigment (easy to wash) to smear the handsome guys and beauties who receive kisses on the big flower face, and it can't be wiped off on the spot, I naturally don't say, the face is full of happy colors! There is a saying in the countryside that there is no size in three days of marriage, as long as it does not exceed the boundaries of morality, how to be happy, so this is also done Sometimes the bride takes it and the door is broken.

Because I told my parents in advance that the road was very long, and we couldn't delay the time of the church, this pass was not too "embarrassing" for us, so I said that the red envelope was handed over and finally the door was opened under the attitude of the elders.

On the bed, a beautiful lady who looks extremely handsome, with a little powder, is peerless and independent in a red dress......

There are many marriage customs in rural areas, the groom has to hold the bride out of bed and get into the car, the brother-in-law is responsible for taking the shoes, the shoes are generally hidden, if you want to find it, you have to give the brother-in-law a red envelope, which is also a lively link, adding a lot of joy to the marriage. From the first meeting to the present, the relationship with my brother-in-law is not ordinarily good, and I passed the test smoothly, and my brother-in-law's handsome face is full of happy little playfulness.

With the blush on his face, he went all the way to the church, and arrived home just on time. The worship hall is very lively, divided into many procedures, what the main marriage, the witnesses give speeches, talk about each other's love experience, worship heaven and earth, worship the high hall, worship tea, worship and so on, and finally send it to the cave room.

There were a lot of guests that day, and my wedding was a big wedding banquet in the countryside. Happiness filled the whole heart, the wine was too big at noon that day, was poured vigorously, I didn't know when the guests left, I didn't wake up until 10 o'clock in the evening, when I woke up, the bride sat on the edge of the bed, didn't say anything, looked at me with a distressed face, only to know afterwards, vomited many times, she carefully arranged many times, for the wedding day, I was drunk, she not only did not blame me, but also joked to me: this amount of alcohol is already the limit, will it never be exceeded?

I understand what she said, and I understand the meaning......

She was 20 and I was 23......