"Fortunately, this child looks like you, with white skin and beautiful appearance, if you don't have talent in the future, you can still eat with your face. Liu Haohao also poked his head to look at the child and said very proudly.

Zhuang Lijun darkened his face and said as if he was a little white face, "How can a man be described as white and beautiful?"

Liu stared at him well, "In the future, it will be popular to have white skin and beautiful men, the more they look like women, the more likable they are, and those boys who are stars have red lips and white teeth, and those who draw eyebrows and eyes are more delicate than us women." ”

Zhuang Lijun got goosebumps when he heard it, his appearance is natural, if a man is more beautiful, then he has nothing to say, if he has to dress himself up in his mother, he can't stand it, and listen to Liu Haohao's meaning, this has become a social atmosphere in the future, what kind of aesthetic is this?

"What nonsense. He frowned in disgust, "In the future, if this kid dares to learn from those people's motherly manners, see that I don't break his legs." ”

Liu Hao frowned, "Don't say anything about breaking your legs at every turn? What age is it, and you still have the feudal patriarchal system." I was about to discuss this with you, although we are the parents of the child, we are not his God, and it is up to him to decide what he will do in the future. ”

Zhuang Lijun was dumbfounded, "Your son will become that ghost in the future, do you have no opinion?"

"His life should be up to him, as long as he feels happy and doesn't hurt others, I have no opinion. Liu Haohao himself is a maverick person, an older leftover girl in her thirties in her previous life, she never put her mind on marriage and family, and there are a lot of gossip outside, she treats it as if she didn't hear it, and now of course she will not use that set of secular standards to demand her son.

Whether her children want to get married in the future, whether they want to have children or not, or even come out of the closet, she accepts them all, since she is his mother, her love for him is unconditional, and he is willing to love him only if he meets his expectations, and if he does not meet his expectations, he will break his legs, is that really selfless love?

Zhuang Lijun couldn't accept her idea at all, in his opinion, his son should be an upright man, he and Liu Haohao are so good, how can their son not be like them.

Liu Hao's words made him think of a sentence - a loving mother is a loser!

Probably because after a woman becomes a mother, her love for her children is irrational, he thought dissatisfiedly, Su Suyun is the same for their brothers, regardless of whether they are indiscriminate, they feel that their children are always the best, don't look at Liu Haohao is calm and rational usually, and it seems that the issue of children is no exception.

He felt that he understood Liu Haohao's starting point, and took a deep breath, she had just given birth to a child, and she was emotionally unstable, so she couldn't worry about her at this time, and she could reason with her slowly in the future.

"No matter how good-looking a boy is, it's useless, you still have to rely on real skills. He said in a deep voice, he would never allow his son to become a sissy who only knows how to dress up.

She stretched out her index finger and gently touched the child's soft little face, the little guy was disturbed, seemed to be a little unhappy, frowned with a small mouth, shook his head back and forth a few times, and finally did not cry, but turned his head to continue sleeping.

"I don't mean to say that I want him to be a sissy with eyebrows, I just want to tell you that although he is the first child of the fourth generation of the Zhuang family, I don't want him to take on the responsibility of the so-called eldest son and eldest grandson. Liu Haohao said.

"I hope to be able to give him more choices, let him decide what he wants to do in the future, maybe he will want to be a soldier like you, maybe he will want to be a politician like me, of course he may want to be a writer, a painter, an artist, a teacher, a doctor, or even those professions that have not yet appeared, as long as he really likes it and is willing to fight for it, I will support him to realize his dream, I hope we can be his backing and harbor, not the murderer who breaks his wings. ”

Zhuang Lijun's face was pale, he didn't speak, what Liu Haohao said today was something he never thought, Zhuang Jianming was a soldier, so the eldest son Zhuang Nansheng naturally went to join the army, Zhuang Nansheng saw him fighting bravely at home all day long, and sent him to the military camp to sharpen without saying a word, what is his personal opinion, it never matters, being a soldier is the fate of the Zhuang man, he never thought that his son would have a second choice.

Liu Hao Hao said seriously but calmly, "Your Zhuang family has been a soldier for generations, so you have a special complex for soldiers, but the profession cannot be hereditary, you can't impose your own ideas on the child, he is not a part of your body, not your vassal, you can't just break his leg because he didn't meet your expectations." He is an independent person, a person with his own thoughts, and if he does not have independent thoughts, free will, his personality is not sound, and he has the right to choose his own life......"

Zhuang Lijun's brows tightened even tighter, a soldier takes obedience to orders as his duty, according to what she said, isn't he an unsound personality?

"The child is still young, we will talk about these things later, and there is no point in talking about them now. Zhuang Lijun resisted the urge to argue with her and said lightly.

She said that she wanted to give her children more room to grow, but she didn't want to think about what the consequences of indulging her children were, and if she really let her children choose, would his son also become a sissy in that kind of social atmosphere in which sissies reign?

If it weren't for the fact that she was emotionally fragile now, he was worried that he would make her angry by talking too hard, and he really wanted to pull her and say.

Liu Hao knew that he couldn't change his concept for a while, and he didn't fully understand what he meant, but after all, the child had just been born, and there was still an opportunity to communicate slowly in the future, so there was no need to quarrel with him so early because of the next ten or twenty years, so he temporarily put aside the idea of arguing with him.

"The child has been born for so long, the big name is kept for grandpa, we have to take this nickname, right?