"What is a friend?

Perhaps this is a matter of divergent opinion.

To be honest, I think friends and lovers share traits in some ways.

In the peerless double pride, Jiang Feng, the most handsome guy in the world, doesn't love the almost godly Invite Moon and Mercy Star, but falls in love with a palace maid Flower Moon Slave in the Shifting Flower Palace.

It seems strange that when Mercy confronts him, he answers because she understands my heart, not my face.

Knowing my heart, this is perhaps the highest level of being a lover and friend.

The sum of Zhong Ziqi and Yu Boya's bosom friends is a model of friends.

Why does Baoyu love Daiyu alone? Because Daiyu understands him, they are also rebels in feudal society, and their hearts have a certain degree of compatibility.

But it is not easy to find someone who understands you in the world, which may be the reason why people are lonely.

I didn't meet friends who understood me, I had some friends who helped each other and got through it together, but they didn't fit in at the level of the heart.

A friend I thought I had spent this life with was just a passing moment in the end, and I don't know what kind of feelings I had for her, I couldn't figure it out.

She bowed her head to me, but I refused to forgive her, or even talk to her.

I don't know where she is, I often think of her, and even dream of her, and today I was shocked to hear the news that she gave up her studies and got married, I didn't expect her to end up like this.

Maybe she was admitted to society too early, so she couldn't concentrate on her studies, hey.

Life is like a drama and changeable.

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People who like you: will call you in the middle of the night and chat until late.

People who love you: Watching you online in the middle of the night will drive you offline.

Someone who likes you: He will hang out with you and tell you to give up your business or skip class.

Someone who loves you: He will push you to do your homework quickly or discuss it with you.

People who like you: When you are sick, they will say good things and care about you.

Someone who loves you: When you are sick, he will care about you and force you to go to the doctor.

Someone who likes you: He will try to say nice things to please you, and you will feel happy.

Someone who loves you: He says things that care about you, but usually seem to be commanding.

Someone who likes you: He will cooperate with you in everything, as long as you are happy.

Someone who loves you: He will help you distinguish between right and wrong, but you will feel that he is too much to control.

Someone who likes you: He says he wants to give you the greatest pleasure.

The one who loves you: He can only assure you that he is the happiest when you are with him.

Someone who likes you: He cares about the details of your life and won't point it out even if you do something wrong.

Someone who loves you: He cares about your every move, tells you what's wrong, what to do, and how to relate to others.

Someone who likes you: He will help you buy supper, deliver supper, and take you to and from class or work.

Someone who loves you: He will buy you a late-night snack but will remind you of what is healthier, he will take you to and from class or to work, but usually on the way, because he will not skip school or work for you.

For he knows that he will work for your future.

People who like you: They don't care what you do or who you associate with.

Someone who loves you: He cares a lot about what you do and who you associate with. He will also warn you not to associate with anyone

Someone who likes you: he just wants the present.

The person who loves you: he has foreseen the future, how to work himself to give you happiness.

Someone who likes you: He will say "I like you!" Someone who loves you: He will say "I love you!"

Love is when he is there, he is the only one in his eyes, and when he is away, everything has his shadow.

I like to suddenly think of him when I was reading a book in the middle of the night, imagining what he is doing now, and there is a fluttering warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him.

After a few minutes, the attention was drawn back to the plot in the book!

Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in his hand but can't read it, thinking about whether he is still working overtime at this time, whether he has eaten dinner, whether he thinks about himself as he thinks about him!

I like to discuss problems with him, and I don't give in to each other, like a hedgehog in front of him, I never admit defeat, but in my heart I am early martial arts, thank you so much for the 17th version of the Condor so perfect and timely brought me into such a bright river.

Rong'er, who was dressed in white and with a gold belt, stepped on a light boat, singing the crane fairy and coming, I couldn't take my eyes off it like Brother Jing.

I thought to myself: Well, this should be what Rong'er was supposed to be.

Every smile and smile carries that innate coquettishness and intelligence.

Zhong Jingrong and the two of them traveled in the mountains and waters, and the feeling of sweet and sour, greasy and crooked looked really enjoyable, and the girl's heart swelled.

Those who win Huang Rong win the world, and they really envy Brother Jing.

Brother Jing said that Rong'er is not a little demon girl, she is a very good girl.

Very good, very good.

The simple language made me remember from the beginning to the end.

He already knows how to practice martial arts and what to be a chivalrous man.

For hoeing the strong and helping the weak, Kuang to support justice and practice martial arts, because of the righteousness, benefit the country and the people for chivalry.

Until the end, the world changed, and Brother Jing, who could not beat Rong'er, became a copper wall in front of Rong'er, majestic and heavy, blocking the troubled times and the wind and rain in the rivers and lakes.

With the end of the book, the desert yellow sand, the peach blossoms in the sky, the small bridge and flowing water, all kinds of former scenery have turned into a phantom in the beacon smoke, guarding Xiangyang, and never separated for the rest of their lives.

I like Wang Chongyang, a god-like existence. Ouyang Feng, a pure martial arts idiot, can't survive if he doesn't go crazy.

Ouyang Ke, although he is a little more colorful, but he is really sincere to Rong'er, and he does not complain when he dies, the author prefers the "little pervert" of Saukke so much.

The nine-fingered beggar has killed three hundred and twenty-one people in his life, and he has never killed a good person by mistake.

I admire Huang Yaoshi the most, the evil spirit, let the black cauldron go to his head, and take it all over without explaining, this kind of character is really unstoppable.

There is also Yang Kang, what does it mean to recognize a thief as a father, if I were him, I would also do my filial piety to repay the kindness of my upbringing.

The wind and snow melt into the righteousness of the family and the country, which is really great.

Bloody rain and bloody wind, swords and swords, daughters are tender like water, men are chivalrous and courageous, all have their temperaments.

After reading this book, it is like watching a TV series.

I was at a loss for a while, I didn't want to open the next one, and I wanted to stay in this martial arts all the time to recall.

There is still a long way to go. ”

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"Mrs. Bao should be viewed objectively.

Let's start with the story of Mrs. Xi.

Mrs. Xi was the wife of the king of a weak country, and the country was destroyed and taken by the king of the strong country.

Xi and her new husband soon had children, but they returned to their new husband and stopped talking.

It's a historical allusion.

There is a poem: Looking at the flowers is full of tears, not the words of the king of Chu.

And a lady with a stamen.

Lady Blossom is also the wife of the king of a weak country. The strong country destroyed the weak country, and when he heard that he was talented, he summoned him to ask for poetry.

She wrote: 400,000 people were disarmed, and none of them were men!

It means that a man cannot defend the country, which leads to humiliation for women.

Regardless of whether her future treatment is preferential treatment or house arrest, she must be yearning for her homeland.

Every time a beautiful woman or a talented woman has a lover but her husband is taken away by the powerful, the world sighs why she doesn't commit suicide.

Do these people have hearts?

Her life is not used to let literati write bloody love poems, but to find her own value in her short life, if she casually resists tyrants and powerful people die, she is equivalent to giving up her mission to come to the world.

Bao Nu's kindness is the value of life that she firmly believes.

Even if history repeats itself, she still has to save "the dead and unfortunate people who don't know whose it is".

If everyone hesitates whether I am saving a wolf, the number of innocent and tragic deaths will increase.

On the basis that she saved someone, and this person happened to be an enemy and in turn harmed her husband and friends, and blamed her for this.

It is equivalent to judging right and wrong with the result, her original intention was not to harm people, and this is enough.

Good intentions may not always lead to the best results.

And she lives in a thatched hut similar to the one she lived with her deceased husband before her death, which is a spiritual wealth that she believes in.

For her, it is impossible for her to investigate whether the prince of Jin killed her relatives and friends, whether it is political hostility or national hatred and family hatred.

What she is most concerned about is how to raise her children and how to live with forgiveness and forgiveness.

Imagine how a woman full of hatred can raise children?

In the TV series, there is a woman who urges the prince of the dead country to return to the country, she basically has no love, and she also passes on her hatred, which almost ruined the prince's love and hope in life.

Prince Jin can tolerate her living in a thatched house, but he doesn't want to change her identification with family and love.

He didn't force her to erase the memories and give her love to himself. His respect for her was also exchanged for her respect for him.

Is revenge possible?

For readers who see the ending, of course, you can admonish: Guo Jing's side is very strong, and you didn't choose the right teammates.

But people in the midst of historical changes will only feel that Jin is strong, and Han people are not strong.

She doesn't have a wide range of contacts, so how can she tell which one is better for the child's future?

According to the mother's hope, as long as the child is healthy, compassionate (the bottom line of being a man), has his own job in the future, and has a happy marriage, it doesn't matter what heavy responsibilities he has, as long as the child is happy.

Men are different from women, and men babble and "the heavens are in charge of the people", and they have to take care of everything. Women just want to: Full?

Cold or not?

Are there any loved ones?

Didn't cause trouble, did you?

It's not that she doesn't care about his life plan.

It's that she thinks that King Jin has become the real father of the child, and life guidance or something is the prince's business.

She just needs to be mindful of keeping her children kind.

And Yang Kang is a clever child, and he has never shown his bad form in front of her.

Taking on the responsibility of challenging Jin Guo and revenge will inevitably bring risks to the child, and she doesn't want him to die at a young age.

This is also a duty to preserve the husband's only bloodline.

Although Qiu Chuji agreed with her.

Because she lives in a grass hut and does not covet comfort.

Is it necessary to tell children the harsh truth?

In Shakespeare's tragedy, Hamlet doesn't want to know the truth.

He said, "Damn, since I know everything, I have to take responsibility for putting things in order."

Until he knew the truth, he was a carefree and simple prince.

Once he knows the truth, he will have to do everything in his power to get revenge.

"As soon as he made a move, he accidentally injured others", and his friends and lovers died because of it.

Perhaps some people are scheming and calculating, and are not afraid to take revenge.

But it cannot be inferred that as long as there is a responsibility for revenge, anyone can learn and become an expert in revenge.

If the mother dies and the father raises the child, the father will most likely tell the child everything and make him tragically prepare for revenge.

But when the father died, the mother probably wanted to calm down, as long as the child grew up healthy.

Men have a large range of activities and can see how ambitions or ideals can be realized.

And a woman who is basically unable to figure out the way and cannot find allies (such a dangerous thing), she can support herself and her children, even if it is a great achievement.

In a TV series, the male protagonist was raised by the head of a wealthy family, but in fact, the cook is his biological mother, and the head of the family is his enemy.

Someone persuaded the cook to reveal the identity of her biological mother and let him take revenge.

The cook thought that for many years, the head of the family regarded the child as his own, and that he could continue to be poor, and he did not want to be ungrateful.

Regardless of the past, the head of the family is now good to the child, and the child can have a good future.

This is clearly a good thing.

Another example is a common plot in Korean dramas where a man harms the male protagonist's family to go bankrupt, but when he sees the remaining orphans in the family who are cute, he takes them back to raise.

May I ask the audience, do you want the orphans to die of illness and starvation due to lack of food and clothing, or do you grow up as young masters in the enemy's family?

Whether it is the righteousness of the country or the family feud, is it more important than the dying of the children?

Even when he grew up, he didn't have to bear a heavy fate like revenge.

If he has become a real family member with his new family, it is undoubtedly cruel to ask him to take revenge.

Even if the children don't need revenge, the wrongdoers need some degree of remorse to atone for their sins.

But you can't say the other way around, if your enemy doesn't repent, you have to kill him.

You can hate him, but you don't have to kill him. You can reconcile through religion or through a psychiatrist.

If you don't want to take any action, you can do nothing.

You don't need to force yourself to pick up a knife for the eyes of the world and the standards of the world. You can choose to live with your enemies.

For example, a young man in Indonesia whose father died in the Indonesian massacre.

He interviewed many people, including his enemies, and left behind a detailed record that kept a precious archive for the world.

This is more valuable than him picking up a gun for revenge. Through historical research and reference, this information may help to prevent such events from happening again.

The reason why those executioners were willing to be interviewed was because his eyes, expressions, words and deeds were not aggressive, there was no sharpness, but they were clear and peaceful.

If you knock on the door with a fierce momentum, even with the president's order, you may not be able to get the puzzle pieces of the truth.

For the grievances of 20 or 30 years ago, it is unreasonable to bury the future of young people.

The law is not in favor of revenge taking human life.

Otherwise, everyone thinks that they have a hatred to deal with, and the national economy and people's livelihood will not be able to proceed.

Therefore, it will be too demanding of the bag girl.

No matter how demanding the world is, a mother is still a mother.

She had no other way.

She was not raised according to the "Marie Curie cultivation method".

If you want to hate, you can hate Jinren.