Chapter 952: A Thin Water Flows
Wang Biyun has always been cheerful and active. And Zhao Mingyi is introverted and rarely spoken. The two of them complement each other's personalities, and they may be able to stay together for a longer time. But, as Wang Biyun said, life can be very dull.
Is it better for men and women in marriage to complement each other or to be similar? This is a question that is too old. It's like what a happy marriage should look like?
Someone's marriage seems to outsiders to be happy, but two people in marriage don't feel happy. Someone's marriage, all relatives and friends are not optimistic, but the two of them fought to the end, and they still loved each other to death.
So, does it mean that whether the personality of two people in a marriage is suitable or not is not the main issue, the question is whether there is love, right?
The love we are talking about here is mutual love, not one-sided love. If you are in love, you like to talk, the other party likes to listen, what a wonderful thing, if you are in love, he likes to read, you are willing to accompany him, it is also a beautiful picture, if you are in love, you like to dance, he helps you play music, if you are in love, he likes to write, you help him polish the ink.
If you don't love, no matter how beautiful she is, you will feel noisy; if you don't love, no matter how beautiful she is, you don't want to take a second look; if you don't love, even if both of you like the rhythm, you can't play the notes of harmony.
It has been said that love is short-lived. What lasts longer in a marriage is affection and tolerance. However, Lin Wan believes that this is love. If there is no love, the person who lives together is not a relative, but an enemy, and it is impossible to be tolerant. Love may tend to be flat, but it is still love, it is a love that flows through the long stream, it is the persistence that is willing to go to the end together, and it is the romance that is willing to grow old together.
Some couples have very similar personalities and hobbies, but they often argue and quarrel, and neither of them is willing to give in, and finally part ways. And some couples are in the same situation, but they are entangled until the end, even if their heads are broken and bleeding, and they are not willing to break up.
Some people break up because their personalities are incompatible, and some people are too similar to live together. And in Lin Wan's previous life, it was precisely because of such and such worries and confusion that he could not really devote himself to a relationship.
She always thought that it was because she had experienced too much love in the play, and because she saw too many failed loves around her. So, she was scared, she didn't dare, and she didn't know how to love someone.
However, when she came here, she inexplicably fell into a love that lasted until death, so unhesitatingly, so unreservedly giving all her feelings. It's not that she hasn't doubted her choice, it's not that she hasn't considered retreating. However, in terms of action, she never took half a step back, and did not even leave herself any way out.
If it was in the past, Lin Wan might have persuaded Wang Biyun to choose Zhao Mingyi, because Zhao Mingyi has liked Wang Biyun since he was a child and is wholeheartedly devoted to Wang Biyun, and the men of the Zhao family will not accept concubines or accept the house, Zhao Mingyi can give Wang Biyun a more comfortable and comfortable family life.
And if Wang Biyun marries Wu Qi, they have similar temperaments, they can have fun together, go out together, maybe it will be more fun, and there will be more common language. However, Wang Biyun has to face more complex family relationships, and has to face more difficulties and troubles.
Although Lin Wan didn't know the specific situation of the Wu family, she had seen Yin Wutong in Kyoto Prefecture, Mrs. Wu, and Wu Qian. Wu Tong is shrewd and sleek, and he shouldn't care about the affairs of the inner house. But Mrs. Wu has a strong sense of superiority, and even some strength. Wu Qian is a straightforward girl, somewhat similar to Wang Biyun, but she doesn't know whether Wu Qian will stand on the side of her best friend Liu Chunqin in the future, or will help Wang Biyun.
However, no matter what, the current Lin Wan has no position to persuade Wang Biyun to change her decision. Because, Lin Wan chose Zhou Tianqi, no one's family is more complicated than the relationship between the royal family, no one has to face difficulties and troubles, more and more difficult than Lin Wan and Zhou Tianqi.
Therefore, Lin Wan didn't say anything more, all she could do was help Wang Biyun and let Wang Biyun go better and farther on the path she chose.
After listening to Wang Biyun talk about her heart for a while, seeing that her mood had calmed down, Lin Wan got up and left.
Out of the guest room where Wang Biyun lived, Lin Wan returned to the room where Wu Qi lived, and she wanted to ask Wu Qi a few questions to ensure that Wang Biyun's choice was not wrong. If Lin Wan finds out that Wang Biyun chose the wrong person, she will find a way to make Wang Biyun recognize her mistake and let Wang Biyun completely sober up from love.
Maybe others will say that Lin Wan is nosy, maybe in the end, Lin Wan offended Wu Qi because of this, and was complained by Wang Biyun. However, Lin Wan felt that there were some things that had to be done.
When I walked into Wu Qi's room, I saw him lying on the bed with his clothes, his eyes staring at the top of the tent in a daze, and his expression was very painful.
Lin Wan stood at the table, looking at Wu Qi from a distance, and didn't know how to speak for a while. She could see that Wu Qi was sincere to Wang Biyun.
It's just that Wu Qi, like all the children of official families in the capital, has long been accustomed to three wives and four concubines. Like all big families, he attaches great importance to the choice of his wife and the head of the house.
Of course, Wu Qi knew that Lin Wan was coming, but he didn't look back, he still stared at the top of the tent, quietly waiting for Lin Wan's verdict.
However, Lin Wan didn't speak, she looked at Wu Qi like this, frowning, her eyes sharp, and her face solemn, as if she was making a very important decision.
Wu Qi finally sighed lightly, sat up, faced Lin Wan, and said dejectedly: "Princess Wanxin, just say it." No matter what Biyun's decision is, I won't embarrass her. If she must dissolve the marriage contract, I will go to the emperor, explain everything to the emperor and ask the emperor to take back his fate. ”
Lin Wan took a deep breath, shook his head, and slowly spoke: "Brother Wu, Sister Biyun has not made the final decision. ”
Wu Qi's eyes lit up suddenly, and he said excitedly: "Really, Biyun, is she willing to believe me and forgive me?"
Lin Wan frowned slightly, shook his head again, and said, "Brother Wu, the most important thing now is not what has happened, not whether Sister Biyun is willing to believe you and forgive you." Rather, what is the truth of the matter? Do you have feelings for that Liu Chunqin? Do you want to take her as a concubine? Also, is the child she is carrying yours?"