109. Consultation

After Yinzhen arrived at the Begonia Courtyard that night, Shu Yier Ha happily hugged Hongxuan to show off to him, coaxed Hongxuan to call him Amma, he was obviously very happy in his heart, but his face was silent, and he had to belittle two sentences, saying that Ergege and Hongshi were only one month older than Hongxuan, and people would have been able to speak a long time ago, which one was earlier than him.

Yinzhen is still very inexplicable, I don't know what kind of wind Shu Yierha smokes, but he feels that he has always been magnanimous to women, even if Shu Yierha kicked his nose a little in the face, he also decided not to bother with her, but when the two sat down to eat together, he still said a few words, which means that Shu Yierha's temper is getting bigger and bigger, and it doesn't matter if there are no outsiders, it is better to be restrained if there are outsiders, Shu Yierha himself has half the weather and decided to talk to him.

After eating, sending everyone down, Shu Yierha looked at Yinzhen seriously, seeing her like this, Yinzhen couldn't help but get up, raised her eyebrows and signaled that she would say something if she had something to say, Shu Yierha played the draft for a long time, and said after thinking about it: " In the past few months, the concubine has been paying attention to it, the lord should love Hongxuan's son, but your attitude is completely opposite, no matter how well-behaved he is, he can't get a word of praise and praise from you, the child is still young, and he can't distinguish the deep meaning of the adult's words, you are always like this, doesn't it hurt the child's heart?"

Yin Zhen doesn't feel that there is anything wrong with his attitude, what he pays attention to this year is his strict father and mother, he has been like this since he was a child, and his brother is the same, he used to be like this to Honghui, and he didn't see any opinions about the Wulana clan, so this must not be his problem, but Shu Yierha's problem! He thought so in his heart, he didn't say it in the end, but gestured to Shu Yierha to continue, he wanted to hear what she could say.

Shu Yierha knew that he couldn't say anything, sorted out his thinking, and continued: "There is an old family member in the concubine's family, the most virtuous, he said, the child is the mirror of his parents, you love and care for him, he will also respect and filial piety, you are cold to him, he will only be estranged, when the child is young, he must let him feel the sufficient love of his parents, he can grow up healthy and happy, and if when he is young, there has always been an impression that a father does not like him, and the child is prone to character defects when he grows up. The concubine didn't know if there was any truth in this, but then she was curious, and asked her father and brother to help check it, and there were seven or eight points accurate, where the parents were gentle and loving, even if the family was poor, most of the children were positive and sunny, on the contrary, those children with defective families were either inferior and cowardly, or indifferent and paranoid, and the better ones were also insecure and had no trust in people. The concubine doesn't want her child to grow up like that, the concubine hopes that he can become a confident, positive, and open-minded person, and the concubine doesn't dare to expect the lord to be kind and kind to Hongxuan, as long as you don't always criticize him, you can praise him when he does well, don't always compare him with others, can you agree?"

Yin Zhen has always known that Shu Yierha has a lot of ideas in her head, but she doesn't like to say it outside, but she didn't expect that once she opened up and said it, she was really able to bluff people, he was a little persuaded by him now, thinking about occasionally praising Hongxuan, it doesn't seem to be a difficult thing, as for not comparing with others, he probably can't do it, so he can only say it without taking it out, this request is really not too much, if he doesn't agree, does this still have to show his face? Yinzhen also reacted at this time, Shu Yierha hung him there just now, just because he belittled Hongxuan in his words, and he was upset for his son.

Yin Zhen is a person, although he is a little far away from what he says, but under normal circumstances, he will not lie to others, everything promised to others, unless there are very special circumstances, he will generally do it, he thought about it, and felt that Shu Yierha's requirements were not too high, and he didn't want to be treated coldly, plus he also believed in Shu Yierha's words in his heart, so he happily agreed.

Shu Yier breathed a sigh of relief, she was really afraid that this food would not change, Hongxuan is still young now, most of the adults' words can't be understood, he judges a person's likes and dislikes mostly by intuition, this is the instinct of a child, he instinctively feels Yinzhen's closeness and love, so he is also close to Yinzhen, but as he grows up, this instinct will gradually disappear, he can only rely on words and actions to judge whether a person likes him, and the child does not have the wisdom to see the essence through the phenomenon, she is worried that Yinzhen's coldness and bad words will hurt Hongxuan, she doesn't want her baby son to haveThe psychological shadow of "my father doesn't like him", fortunately, Yinzhen can still listen to persuasion.

The biggest disagreement on the treatment of children has been temporarily resolved, and the effect is not yet known, but Shu Yierha can get Yinzhen's statement, and he is already very satisfied, this person is really incarnated as a loving father, Shu Yierha is not suitable for it, can you imagine what the cold face king looks like to be gentle and loving to the child? Shu Yierha can't imagine it anyway, what she needs is a fair and strict tall father image, Yinzhen maintains the current image, and then learns to praise and praise, it is very in line with Shu Yierha's requirements.

Anyway, there is a relatively satisfactory solution to this problem, Shu Yierha also thought of giving Yinzhen a cold face just now, and hurriedly stepped forward to coax him softly, pinching his shoulders and beating his back, Yinzhen, a man in his twenties, is naturally keen on certain things, especially the perfect cooperation with Shu Yierha, this night is naturally another hot night.

But the next day, Shu Yier Ha didn't dare to sleep lazy, and if she didn't go to say hello today, she didn't dare to guarantee that Wu Lana would not go crazy, and when she walked to the main courtyard, Wu Lan Na Lashi just lightly asked her if she was all right, if there was any discomfort, you could rest for a few more days, the implication is, if you are really uncomfortable, just stay in the house honestly, don't hook up with Yinzhen to run into your courtyard!

Shu Yierha's face was sneering, only saying that he was fine, and he had to thank others for their concern, Wulana Lashi saw that she was interested, and he didn't say much, but Wu sneered and said: "Sister Fucha is really the most favored by the master, there is a little headache and brain fever, no need to invite, the master will go by himself, but my sister should also pay attention, she is unwell, she should recuperate behind closed doors, and she should not stay with her when she goes, and the provincial master is sick, and my sister said that this is the reason?" R1152