Chapter 126: Women also hold up half the sky
"Oh my God!" Bai Ce, Qin Yongmei, and Bai Zong were all stunned, unable to speak for a long time.
After a while, I suddenly heard a cry from my grandfather's house.
Only then did everyone react, and Qin Yongmei hurriedly went into the house to comfort Feng Yan.
Kan Mingxi also hurriedly followed.
Bai Ke didn't know the news until he came back from school in the evening.
Although he didn't believe that Kan Mingjie would give in easily, he didn't expect to resist so fiercely and ran away from home.
Lao Kan obviously overestimated his parental will.
But Lao Kan's wishful thinking not only harmed himself, but also others.
Qin Yongmei asked Bai Zong to go to the countryside to inform her aunt to cancel the wedding temporarily, and at the same time discussed Feng Yan's way out with Bai Ce.
"It's too late for an abortion, it's too dangerous to see how she's got four or five months. ”
"yes, if only I could find someone to marry. ”
Qin Yongmei looked at the opposite room and lowered her voice: "Who wants to marry like this." ”
"Don't count on it, young man, can you find someone older, such as a second marriage?"
"Is there anything in our unit, is there anything like that in your unit?"
Bai Ce sighed: "We don't have any units either." ”
"If you find someone to help you introduce, you will definitely be able to find something like that, but Feng Yan's stomach is almost impossible to hide. ”
"yes, if you have enough time, you can find it. Even Dolma's mother with two children can find ......"
"Hey, by the way, isn't Dolma's adoptive father alone right now?"
"He's older than me, and I don't know if he's been found. ”
"Call the white customer and ask......"
As soon as Qin Yongmei got together, Bai Ke walked in.
"Mom, you're looking for me. ”
And he eavesdropped on the adults. ”
"I happened to be passing by. Hehe. ”
"Mom asks you, Zhuoma's adoptive father, Uncle Fat, has he been looking for it recently. ”
"I shouldn't have looked for it, but the fat uncle said he didn't want to look for it anymore. ”
Bai Ce sighed: "Yes, after these things, he is also a little disheartened. ”
"That's not necessarily, you ask if Uncle Fat is willing to find another big girl with a child. ”
"You said cousin," Bai Ke shook his head, "even if the fat uncle is willing, it is not appropriate." ”
"What's wrong?"
"Uncle Fat has a physical defect. ”
"Little boy, he also understands physical defects. ”
Bai Ce said softly: "Our Fengyan is still young......
Qin Yongmei sighed, was silent for a long time, turned her face and found that Bai Ke was still standing beside her, and put on a straight face again: "Okay, go back to your own room, adults say something." ”
Bai Ke hesitated: "I think if my cousin can't find a suitable one, don't be in a hurry to get married first, and there will be more single mothers in society in the future." ”
Bai Ce shook his head: "Maybe it will be like that in the future, but now you can't be poked in the backbone by others, besides, where will I put my mother's face with you, and where will my aunt's face go?"
Bai Ke thinks about it, the current era is a society of acquaintances and human feelings, and people are used to interfering in other people's private lives.
Whoever does something deviant will have someone behind them.
"Alright, kids don't care about adults. Qin Yongmei went out to pick up white guests.
As soon as the white guest stepped out of the threshold on his front foot, he suddenly remembered something.
"There's someone who has to be suitable. ”
"Who. ”
"Lao He. ”
Qin Yongmei shook her head like a rattle: "No, no, how can we Fengyan marry a psychopath." ”
"Are you talking about the old man who climbed the chimney?"
"Who else. The other person is really good, and he will hurt his wife when he sees it. The economic conditions are also good, and he is a senior engineer in a pharmaceutical factory. But he's mentally ill, and it's scary to be sick. ”
"yes, I think it's better to forget it. ”
"You guys are discriminating against mental illness! Lao He is already well, and the doctors say he can get married. Besides, Lao He's mental illness belongs to the emotional disorder type, and he is not harmful to people at all. ”
Bai Ce frowned: "Little child, why do you always call adults old He Lao He." ”
Qin Yongmei smiled helplessly: "Lao He is quite a rare white guest, I see that he is a lonely old pole, strange and pitiful, so I often let the white guest go to see him, and the two of them smell the same." ”
"If Lao He does have a hospital certificate, he should be fine. ”
"But can mental illness really be cured?" Qin Yongmei will still be skeptical.
"Of course it can be cured. Many writers and poets have mental illness, and curing them does not affect their work and study. And as long as he doesn't have symptoms of schizophrenia, it's not serious. ”
"Lao He does not have schizophrenia, Lao He is a mental disorder. ”
"Children know a lot. ”
"Alas......" Bai Ke sighed and lowered his head.
"Then ask Feng Yan first, and then ask Lao He to see if he is willing to remarry. ”
Bai Ce and Qin Yongmei turned around to go to the grandfather's room in the opposite room, and Bai Ke hurriedly followed.
Qin Yongmei frowned, and was about to stop it, but Bai Ke hurriedly said, "I can explain Lao He's situation." ”
Bai Ce nodded: "Let's go, let's go together." ”
The three of them walked into the opposite room, Grandpa's room.
Feng Yan was sitting on the kang, his originally permed long hair was tied back into his braids, and there were faint tears on his face.
Bai Ke couldn't help but sigh.
Could it be that like in the previous life, my cousin's marriage in this life is also doomed?
Sitting in the opposite room, Feng Yan also heard some conversations between Bai Ce and Qin Yongmei.
Therefore, when Qin Yongmei talked about introducing a mental illness to her, she immediately said: "You all said it's okay, I'll listen to you." ”
"Don't worry, listen to me. ”
Qin Yongmei took Feng Yan's hand: "Feng Yan, I blamed my aunt before, I was in a hurry, I was in a hurry to marry you off......"
"Don't blame my aunt, it's me who is in a hurry to get married. ”
"I've thought about it for the past two days. We are a new society now, unlike in the past, marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating. We all have two hands and two feet, and we can support ourselves. ”
"Hmm!" Feng Yan nodded vigorously.
"I mean, you can't lower your standards just because you're pregnant with a baby. Everyone has their own eyes, and people who really like you won't care about that. If we take 10,000 steps back, what can we do even if we can't get married? We are now a new society, and women can hold up half the sky, and no man can live like him. Besides, if you have an aunt, as well as your Bai Zong and Bai Ke's cousin, they will also help you. Auntie doesn't mean that you don't want to marry, but that you don't wronged yourself, just pick what you like, and the other party is willing to marry you!"
"Well, I see. ”
Bai Ke couldn't help but be a little excited as he listened.
He didn't expect his mother to accept new things so quickly.
But if you think about it carefully, my mother was originally a person who pursued equality between men and women, and she always had a simple idea of equal rights.
Although her cultural level is low, it does not mean that her ideological realm is not high.
The three of them carefully told Feng Yan about Lao He's situation again.
Feng Yan nodded: "I'm willing to meet, and besides, I've always wanted to find a man who knows everything." It's like ...... old brother-in-law."
Bai Ce touched his head embarrassedly: "But Lao He is much taller than me." ”
Qin Yongmei pouted: "Look, he's chattering again." ”
Feng Yan and Feng Jun sisters' marriage is ruined, and a large part of the reason is because the benchmark they set for themselves is a bit high.
They have always wanted to be like their aunt Qin Yongmei, marrying a man in the city who is educated and will feel sorry for his wife.
Instead of marrying a rough man from the countryside like their mother, they have worked hard all their lives.
At the moment, it seems that Lao why not be a low-profile version of Bai Ce?