After chatting, it was time to get off work soon.

Staying in this company all day, I actually felt an inexplicable sense of intimacy, and an indescribable sense of belonging. Maybe it's because the company's products are related to parents and children. Not only is the name of the company very interesting and the product concept is very avant-garde, but what attracted me the most was the working atmosphere of the company.

During the chat with the founder, I learned that most of the employees in this unit are married women with children, and only some men are engaged in technical and marketing positions. I feel more close to this group again.

On this day, I listened to them talk about various problems in the parenting process while applying for cards, and they started from some pain points encountered by users in the process of parenting, and discussed and researched a series of courses and dry goods to share with the parents of tens of millions of users.

Their views almost always hit my heart, and if it weren't for the task of applying for a card, I would have liked to join them immediately.

"Thank you for cooperating with my work so much today, special thanks, go back and wait for the latest thermos cup in the line to come down, I will personally give it to you, one for each person. ”

Seeing that it was not early and it was already time to get off work, I politely greeted everyone and planned to leave.

"Everyone is a working mother, help each other, maybe we still have financial knowledge to ask Director Wang for advice in the future!"

"Yes, yes, Director Wang often comes to play, you are Mr. Gu's friend, you are our friend, and we are both mothers, we will not be embarrassed to talk when we meet. ”

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At the same time, working mothers, a group of women cherish each other and are very friendly to me. It is indeed a lucky thing to be able to meet such a loving and like-minded company in the process of running performance.

Xiao Gu saw that I was leaving, so he hurriedly escorted me downstairs all the way, and said with a smile, "Sister Jingjing, how is my performance today? Are you still satisfied?" Wanwan asked, Sister Jingjing, you have to say something good for me!"

I sneered, "Before I got the certificate, I was already a strict wife, so afraid of my wife?"

Unexpectedly, Xiao Gu's good-looking smiling eyes suddenly lost their light, and the eyes that were originally as bright as light bulbs actually had a trace of sadness at this moment.

"Sister Jingjing, I want to be restrained by my wife's strict discipline, but Wanwan has not agreed to my proposal, hey, a woman's heart is a needle, I may not have done well! Sister Jingjing, you have time to help me persuade Wanwan, I really love her, I want to grow old with her, my parents have been urging us to get married, but Wanwan has not agreed, I really have no sense of security at all. ”

Listening to Xiao Gu's grievances, I admire Tang Wanwan even more, there are really not many men urging marriage these days, the charm of the goddess is different, Xiao Gu is like a woman, desperately trying to marry her Ruyi Langjun.

"Okay, don't worry, I'll definitely persuade her when I'm free. ”

I responded politely to Xiao Gu, but I knew very well in my heart that Tang Wanwan's delay in agreeing to Xiao Gu's marriage proposal actually had another hidden reason.

Over the years, the men around Tang Wanwan have kept changing, but none of the men are sincere to her, either treating her as an incidental product to show off her social status, or a purely transactional relationship. But whenever she Tang Wanwan falls in love with a man, the final result is that Lao Yan flies apart, so Tang Wanwan has long lost her sense of security about men.

Xiao Gu is dignified, only eight years old, and his love history is almost blank, he belongs to the kind of typical academic bully, a good child who only knows how to study and has no time to fall in love. finally fell in love at the beginning, and suddenly met the old driver Tang Wanwan, and then fell in love completely.

Tang Wanwan is Xiao Gu's first love, and Xiao Gu regards her like a pearl in her palm. Life is too short, I am willing to use all my strength to find you and pamper you. This is probably the purest idea of first love! But Tang Wanwan couldn't guarantee that Xiao Gu wouldn't become an old driver one day, and then kicked herself, she really couldn't afford to hurt herself.

Cars shuttle through the rush hour, driving and stopping, like a snail crawling.

When she was bored in the car, Tang Wanwan's phone call came like a timely rain, "Honey, how is your performance today?

"Good! Super good! Wanwan, Xiao Gu is really good, he is handsome, and he is a rare science and engineering man with high emotional intelligence and high IQ, and he is so considerate to his girlfriend's friends, he is simply the perfect boyfriend! Xiao Gu's colleagues in the unit all call him Mr. Gu, only you treat others as the second child. Tell me, when are you going to marry him? I can't stand it. ”

"Oh, you were bought so quickly? Sure enough, you can't avoid being vulgar if you have a short hand! Is he suing in front of you? Give me an honest explanation word for word!"

"You, you don't know how blessed you are, Xiao Gu is the object that many young girls are looking for with lanterns!"

"Okay, I know! It seems that Director Wang's performance today is very good, otherwise he would not have said good things for him. Tsk, such a realistic woman!"

"You can do it hard! Others are obedient to you, you don't take it seriously, others call you and go as soon as they call you, you are like a teddy going around. ”

"Okay, you Wang Jing, you actually said that I was a dog, you are too bad!

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Along the way, Tang Wanwan and I fought a verbal battle that was neither salty nor light, and soon arrived home.

When they wanted to hang up the phone, they showed inseparable affection for each other. Girlfriends are the kind of people who can't quarrel and scold.

As soon as one foot stepped into the house, I was so frightened by my sister-in-law's sharp voice that I staggered half a step.

"Say! Why do you talk nonsense in class, you learned to speak hooligan words at a young age, did you inherit your second-rate father? Look at me if I don't kill you little rabbit cub today!"

The eldest sister-in-law took a broom and slapped the little soldier's body fiercely, and the little soldier cried wolf and ran all over the house, still reciting words in his mouth.

"Mom, don't fight, I'm not the only one who reads it, it's just that I have a loud voice, and I follow you, so I suffered the loss of this door! Teacher, she just made an example for others to see, and I just accidentally bumped into her gun. Mom, please stop fighting. ”

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The eldest sister-in-law still didn't give up, chasing after her with a broom, Siqi was so frightened that she hid behind Lao Chen and covered her eyes and didn't dare to look.

"Enough! Stop fighting! What can't you say well! You have to use sticks to educate, now it is no longer popular to play filial piety with sticks, sister, you have to learn a good knowledge of parenting, you can't solve the problem by force. You beat him, he was obedient for a while, and after a few days he changed back to his original form, and you have to find a way to do it fundamentally. I recommend you download a parenting app......"

During the day, it is really not in vain to be in the bear child's parent school, when changing, the little soldier caused some trouble, the sister-in-law wants to whip her son, I don't bother to care, I may think that the sister-in-law beat well, this bear child has to be fiercely big, it is best to tie it to a tree and whip it, so that he can have a long memory next time, and deal with the bear child, he will have to be afraid of him at one time.

But today, I spent a day at a childcare company, and I still listened to some knowledge theories.

"Sister, listen to my advice, don't fight and kill all day long. When this child is confused, you have to face the child with empathy, you can squat down, keep the perspective of the child, and then ask him softly like a spring breeze, baby, why are you doing this today? What is the starting point for doing this? What benefits do you get from doing this?"

The eldest sister-in-law looked impatient when she heard this, "Wang Jing, come on! Don't Tang Seng chant the scriptures and chatter, you don't know what nonsense this rabbit cub said in class! I'm afraid that if I say it, I will scare you to death!"

"What can you say? I said suspiciously.

The eldest sister-in-law's nose snorted contemptuously, "Teacher Xiaofang of their class pointed to the pinyin of M, A, Y, D, and B on the blackboard to test him, and he actually said in the most standard pronunciation: touch-a-aunt-of-wave——。 ”

"Nani, oh my God!" I was taken aback, what is this and where?

"You know now, this rabbit cub was so angry that their female teacher blushed for a long time, and the teacher called me to go to school, and in front of the teacher in an office, he told me what happened again, didn't you see it, those teachers looked at me, I wanted to dig a hole in the ground. It's really a shame to be embarrassed! Do you say that this muddy boy has inherited his father, maybe he will be a second-rate son in the future, I knew this, I shouldn't have run away from home with him in the first place, and just threw him to his father, turn around, his father found him a stepmother, and he will be angry with his stepmother to death, this is good!"

"Qingyi, it's not such an exaggeration, don't go crazy, freak out the children!"

The little soldier is like a frightened lobster, hunched over and hiding behind her mother-in-law, how can the mother-in-law be willing to let her grandson be beaten, after all, the next generation!

Lao Chen is lying on the sofa looking at his mobile phone, in this case he generally does not express any opinions, he will tell me afterwards, "children can only listen to one adult at home, when the child is educated, others should not interject, so that the child can clearly know the right and wrong of things, and who he should listen to, if the voice of a family is always different, everyone has their own set of education methods, then this family has a good education at all." Children will only seek support when they are beaten and scolded, and they will not know repentance at all. ”

Although I don't usually treat Xiaobing very well, this child has reached the age of seven or eight years old, and he has been crying for three days.

But I really want to help him say a few words today, after all, I spent a day at the Bear Kids Parent School today!

"Sister, don't label your child with trumped-up charges, if you label your child now, for example, if he is a hooligan, the power of this kind of language is terrifying, maybe he will be a hooligan in the future. On the other hand, there is a mother who experiments like this, and she will say two things to her child every day, the first sentence, baby, you are the best! The second sentence, baby, you will definitely be a useful person. "Twenty years later, do you know what happened to this child?"

The eldest sister-in-law looked confused, "Imprisoned?" or ......?"