"Equality between men and women," Zhuang Lijun smiled slightly, "just like when I go to the battlefield and support me without saying a word, I will also support her choice." She and I will be husband and wife in the future, independent and equal to each other, respecting and supporting each other, and I can't just ask her to pay for me, and I take it for granted that I enjoy everything she dedicates, and I should also fulfill her dreams. ”

Zhuang Jianming was dumbfounded, although it is said that men and women are equal, and some people have practiced this, but in the eyes of most people, including Zhuang Jianming, who is in a high position, but in the eyes of people who are very traditional in their bones, women should still focus on the family, men dedicate themselves to the country, and women sacrifice for the family, which should be justified.

This is determined by the social division of labor, men put their careers first, and women should take care of their families more. Zhuang Jianming is also selfish, if Liu Haohao is his own granddaughter, he will definitely support her to work hard for her career and let her other half be the backing of her family, but Liu Haohao is just his granddaughter-in-law, and he doesn't want to wronged his grandson.

"If the social division of labor is immutable, then the rights and interests that have been fought for women for so many decades are all in vain, you see......" Zhuang Lijun smiled, counting several outstanding women who are famous in China, they have a place in the political, military, cultural, and scientific circles, and have also made great contributions to the country, "Good and excellent are no less than them, and they will definitely achieve achievements comparable to them, and I am willing to support her." ”

If in the past, he agreed with Zhuang Jianming's point of view, the concept of male protagonist and female protagonist is very traditional, and most of his brothers in the army are also married like this.

But now it's different, I've been with Liu for so long, not only her views have influenced him, but her excellence has also impressed him, how can he bear to make her stand out from everyone.

"Such an excellent girl, I don't know how many men are stronger, if she is also required to focus on her family in the future and give up her career, it is undoubtedly a waste of talents and a waste of national resources. Zhuang Lijun's words were sonorous and powerful.

Zhuang Jianming was speechless by him, and was stunned for a long time before finally speaking, "That's your daughter-in-law, what do you think is good, just what, can I, an old man, still manage your housework?"

Zhuang Jian was weak, but this was more or less a hint of anger, Zhuang Lijun was a little embarrassed, "Grandpa, I didn't mean that......"

"Then what do you mean, aren't you afraid that your daughter-in-law will be wronged by me?" Zhuang Jianming said angrily, Zhuang Lijun is good at everything, but before he married his daughter-in-law, he got the stinky problem of strict wife control, and the most terrible thing is that he still feels that there is nothing wrong with him.

In the past few days since Zhuang Lijun came back, he had to report to the campus of Beijing University almost every day to meet his sweetheart, but in just a few days, Liu Haohao had the gentleness and lingering of a little woman, and everyone was amazed.

"Okay, your fiancé is back, when are you going to get married?" Shen Qinghua asked while reciting English words.

"I'll have to wait until I graduate. Liu Hao combed her hair in the mirror, the words "women are pleasing to themselves" sometimes makes sense, although she usually pays attention to her image, but after Zhuang Lijun came back, she spent more time looking in the mirror.

"Well, won't we be able to eat your candy?" quipped.

"Don't worry, I'll send it to you when the time comes, and you'll be indispensable for safekeeping. "Liu Hao is not shy at all.

Everyone fell silent.

"If we go abroad, I'm afraid it will be difficult to send it if you want to send it. Shen Qinghua said a little melancholy.

The atmosphere of going abroad is very strong, especially in Beijing University, there are all kinds of opportunities to study abroad, everyone is full of energy, sharpen their heads to drill abroad, eight out of ten people in their dormitory are determined to go abroad, and they will consider staying in the case that they really can't go abroad.

"Sister Qinghua, you are also going to go abroad, what about the child?" Liu Hao stopped and looked at Shen Qinghua with complicated eyes.

"I'll go abroad first, and then I'll find a way to get the kids out as well. Shen Qinghua smiled slightly, she didn't think it was a big deal, she worked hard, wasn't it also for the sake of the child to have a good future?

Liu Hao wanted to talk and stopped, wanting to tell her that the children's childhood without the care of their parents would have a great impact on their future personalities, and these influences could not be made up for by how many brilliant achievements she had in the future, and if she missed it, she missed it.

But in the end, she didn't say it, she knew that Shen Qinghua was a very strong woman, otherwise she wouldn't have studied hard for the exam and was admitted to Beijing University when she already had a family, and now she is full of energy to study abroad.

"It's not easy for us to be women," a thousand words turned into such an emotion.

"Okay, this is not like you, you have always been a woman who does not let you shave your eyebrows, how can you say such depressing words. Except for Shen Qinghua, everyone laughed.

"It's useless for me to be a woman alone, the atmosphere in society has not been reversed, you see that those heroes are all giving up their small families for everyone, but if you change their gender, think about it, if a lesbian throws her children to her husband and goes out to fight, will people's evaluation of them be so positive?" Liu Haohao felt very sad, even if the society progressed for several decades, people's exploration and curiosity about outstanding women were limited to how they balanced the relationship between career and family, and for excellent men, no one would ask such words.

"Of course it won't be positive," Shen Qinghua shook the book in his hand and said coldly, "They will only say that this woman's heart is so ruthless, she doesn't even want her husband and children, she only cares about herself!"

Except for Shen Qinghua, everyone is not married, and they do not have a deep understanding of the relationship between family and career, seeing her appearance at the moment, I also understand a little in my heart, I am afraid that Shen Qinghua has received a lot of pressure at home.

"Sister Qinghua, you just got married too early. ”

"No way, you don't know my original situation, in our hometown, at my age, those who are not married at my age will be drowned by people's spittle, my father and mother chase me all day long and cry and scold, there is really no way, so I went on a blind date to find an honest and loyal man to marry, and I had a child not long after I got married. If I hadn't resumed the college entrance examination, maybe I would have lived like this in my life, but I got out of the exam and saw hope, how could I be willing to go back?" Shen Qinghua's face was unwilling, she and her husband did not have any common language, and no one understood her in her hometown, she couldn't say these words to anyone, only these little sisters in the dormitory could make her vomit bitterness.