Chapter 34: C-section has seven layers
Although Yang Jie has an unspeakable physical appearance, he has always taken good care of Jin Jin, and he is a nanny and a sister-in-law at home, Jin Jin has hardly suffered from life and family like ordinary women. To be honest, Wang Jinjin is 32 years old this year, walking on the road as if following a female college student, with a face full of collagen, body management is also very good, two yoga private classes a week, and most of the rest of the time is also in the gym. To put it bluntly, Wang Jinjin is a rich woman, a spoiled little girl, and sometimes even more immature than her two children.
Without hitting the south wall and not looking back, Wang Jinjin angrily played with her three thousand green silks, complaining that we didn't understand her loneliness, emptiness and coldness.
Rare girlfriend time, I really don't want to be disturbed by these troublesome things sisterhood, I affectionately hugged Wang Jinjin's neck, and deliberately gave her the stairs: "My family Jin Jin is just lost in his mind for a while, I don't believe that Jin Jin has a good life at home, but find a fitness coach to live!"
"yes, men are just a boring pastime, it's not a big deal. After this freshness, Jin Jin will figure out that Yang Jie is the most suitable man to spend the rest of her life with. Tang Wanwan had a good eyesight, and hurriedly echoed.
The atmosphere is relaxed and the friendship is warm. The three women opened the refrigerator with great interest, the fruits, vegetables, meat, jams, etc. in the refrigerator were classified in an orderly manner, and the frozen layer also had finished ingredients, and the food was pasted with warm reminders one by one, such as: Wanwan, an apple a day, don't be lazy; Wanwan, broccoli is anti-cancer, you should eat more; Wanwan, there is finished food in the freezing area, and you can ...... it by microwave heating"
Looking at the vigorous and powerful font on the post-it note, presumably these heart-warming actions were carefully prepared by Tang Wanwan's boyfriend, Wang Jinjin and I sighed that this is someone else's boyfriend. Every time she and Yang Jie lost their temper, within three days, a latest-style luxury bag was delivered to Wang Jinjin's hands like timely rain. This is also someone else's husband.
Wang Jinjin looked at the post-it notes of a refrigerator and pretended to be envious, and said with a smile: "It is said on the Internet that programmers have low emotional intelligence, and they only know how to type code. In fact, women don't need expensive gifts, as long as the man is attentive, it is enough. Last time I had my birthday, what kind of gift did Xiaopeng give me? Let me tell you, it was a greeting card from our middle school days, which was full of love for me, and it was really very attentive. ”
"You don't know how to be blessed in the blessing, because you are now living a life of fine clothes and food, and you have long been accustomed to all kinds of luxury goods of brand-name bags, so you will think that the greeting card sent by Xiaopeng is novel, hehe, you are really a big-chested woman, how can you be like a junior high school girl, and you still like this set. How much money can a greeting card cost?Don't tell me, you don't care about how much money you have, the scale of how much money a man spends on a woman determines the depth of this man's love, do you know why some men like to find a mistress?" Tang Wanwan laughed while holding the broccoli.
"Isn't it because the junior is young and charming! Men are all virtuous and like wild flowers outside. ”
"Wrong! Xiao San is different from his wife, Xiao San is a man who piles up money, they are based on physical and money transactions, the more money a man spends on a woman, the more he will get into it, just like investing in stocks, even in a bear market, men will continue to increase their positions, expecting a higher rate of return. And the wife, to put it mildly, is a free venting tool, which comes and goes as soon as it is called, and saves money for men everywhere, and the nature of men who are cheap will become less and less concerned about the wife of the chaff at home, they know that their wives will never run, but the mistress is different, the mistress is who treats her well, who spends more money on her, she will go with whom!"
Tang Wanwan is not a master of the love field, this set of imperial husband skills has a nose and eyes, I feel that listening to her is better than reading ten years.
I thought that I couldn't complain about Lao Chen Pofei to buy me a gift in the future, the more sensible this woman is, the less the man will cherish it.
The three women were frolicking and making lunch in the kitchen, Wang Jinjin, a noble lady, couldn't even tell the difference between garlic and green onions, I smiled and teased: "Wang Jinjin noblewoman, garlic is flat, green onions are hollow, you are really a pampered young grandmother in a noble mansion, look at your Yang Jie has raised you to waste, you still dislike others." ”
Wang Jinjin glanced at me with a roll of his eyes, "These are two different things!", as he spoke, he picked up a piece of sugar and mixed tomatoes to relieve his hunger, who knew that he had just covered his mouth and spit on the trash can, "Wanwan, you shouldn't put sugar into salt, you are dead, can you not even tell the difference between sugar and salt?" Sister, I really convinced you, you are better than me!"
The three women looked at each other and laughed.
I tugged at the corners of my mouth and glanced helplessly at the two ladies in front of me, "It seems that I didn't come to enjoy happiness today, I wanted to come to eat a ready-made meal, but now it seems that I have to roll up my sleeves and cook." Come on, you guys go out and watch TV, don't help here, it's just getting more and more messy, and I'm afraid you won't be able to eat a bite of food at night. ”
The two women looked at each other and smiled, with a relieved face, Wang Jinjin, a sycophant, did not forget to flatter a few words: "The woman in the kitchen is very beautiful, the woman who can cook is even more beautiful, and the woman who likes to cook is the most beautiful!
Cooking is indeed a piece of cake for me, before I married Lao Chen, I rented a house alone, how can I not be a necessary skill of cooking?
It didn't take long for a table of sumptuous and delicious dishes to be served, and the two hungry women were busy moving their chopsticks, and they didn't forget to pat their asses and say some flattering words.
"Jingjing, Lao Chen is really blessed to marry you! You can go to the hall, go down to the kitchen, and mix in the workplace, quietly, you are simply omnipotent. ”
"Yes, Lao Chen must have burned high incense in his last life, married a woman who can make money and cook, and the key is a beautiful good wife and mother. I'm a man, and my dream in this life is to marry a woman like you who is extremely cost-effective. ”
I glanced at the two women who were feasting, "Okay, don't be a sycophant, you can't stop your mouth when you eat!" ”
As soon as the child was mentioned, Wang Jinjin's chatterbox suddenly opened, "Yes, I usually educate two children like this, but I can't do it on my side, the teacher said, parents are a mirror of their children, and parents should always lead by example and teach by example." But it's really difficult, for example, I don't allow my children to eat junk food, but I often eat it secretly, and it's not so easy to teach by example. ”
The two old mothers exchanged parenting experiences, Tang Wanwan, an unmarried woman, couldn't interject at all, muttered her mouth, and said helplessly: "Can you consider the unmarried lady who has no children, I can't even interject when teaching the parenting scriptures here, it's so boring." ”
Wang Jinjin giggled, "Wanwan, when are you going to get married, my money is already ready to move." Let's get married early, strive to hold two in three years, have both children, how happy! You can also join our parenting team, we can go out to walk the baby together when we are free, you say, we three super hot moms are walking on the road, is it a turning back rate?"
"Why are you in a hurry to get married, I still want to enjoy a pure world for two! Besides, maybe one day Xiao Gu and I are not suitable? We are still in the state of trying love before marriage, let's see if we can get tired of it for a long time!"
"Hypocrisy! Xiao Gu is talented and powerful, don't pick and choose, although you are well maintained, but there are more women younger than you and more beautiful than you, especially in Suzhou, there are not too many beauties in Jiangnan Wu Nong, don't let the cooked duck fly when the time comes, regret it." ”
"Hehe, if I can snatch the man, why do I want to? However, I'm really a little afraid of having a child, I'm 31 years old, medical students are already considered advanced maternal age, natural delivery is unlikely, caesarean section is definitely the best choice, think about the blade on the belly, it's scary!"
"In fact, there are pros and cons to natural birth and caesarean section!", when it comes to giving birth, Wang Jinjin is indeed more experienced than the two of us, and she is a mother who has given birth to two children. "Smooth labor recovery is fast, but it is easy to cut laterally, causing various gynecological diseases, what cervical erosion, all kinds of inflammation...... The most important thing is that after giving birth, it will affect the quality of life of the couple, and the woman will inevitably relax in that place. Caesarean section, the recovery is slow, but the quality of life of the couple does not affect at all, the biggest impact is the body! You think, there are seven layers of caesarean section, skin, subcutaneous tissue, fascial layer, peritoneum, and to * There are serous layers, muscle layers, and endometrium. Isn't motherly love great?"
Tang Wanwan was so frightened that she panicked, "If I don't give birth, I'll still be a dink, being a woman is too sinful, I don't want to give birth." ”
Wang Jinjin saw Tang Wanwan's frightened face, and became even more energetic, "This is just the first step, and the next is the moment when you really suffer! If the mammary gland is blocked, the newborn child will not be able to suck the mother's breast milk, so you have to carry out painful lactation technology, which is called a pain, not only does it hurt but you also have to endure the pain and insist on feeding the child's breast milk, the two grapes are broken, bleeding, and scarred have to be fed, who makes you the child's own mother!"
"Oh my God, I finally got a scar after bleeding, and then let the child suck it, then I can't break the skin and bleed again? It's so terrifying, I don't give birth, I don't give birth!"
Wang Jinjin said more and more, "These are just physical destruction, when the children grow up day by day, slowly enter the kindergarten, you will find that it is better to stuff them back into the stomach, all of them are bear children, skin to the upper room to uncover the tiles, do homework for three minutes, some even do not do homework, counting on their parents to do it." Some time ago, it was said on the Internet that a mother had a stroke in the process of tutoring her child's homework, do you say horror is not horror?"
"Okay, you just persuaded Wanwan to hold the two for three years, and you are saying this now, it's strange that Wanwan dares to give birth!"
Wang Jinjin stuck out his tongue, looked like he had done something wrong, and laughed stupidly.