50 Youth never ends
The head teacher of the university once said these things to a few of us after getting drunk, and he said that he didn't want these students to go to the same company, even if everyone was in the same place, which was a good thing. When I said these words www.biquge.info Mr. Li was already drunk, and I agreed in my heart, but there was no evidence to support this approval. However, more than a dozen of my classmates actually went on to work in the same company, and gradually, I seemed to find the so-called "evidence".
Ah Peng and I are lucky among our classmates, from college to work, we can always be said to be inseparable. There were a few changes along the way, but they were always in the same unit. However, just this year, Peng resigned, and we ended our six-year relationship as colleagues. His resignation touched me a lot, after all, I still really regarded him as a buddy and friend in my heart.
Peng is a self-motivated person, and he has his own set of ways to communicate. In contrast, I am an ignorant person, and I can't bow my head in front of people I don't like, and I can't hold a shaky wine glass. For such reasons, there is always a gap between me and Ah Peng in the unit, and I naturally become a weakling. Ah Peng was already a squad leader of six people when he first entered the factory, although I also had the opportunity to be a squad leader, but because of many inexplicable small ways, I was a class member.
Later, Ah Peng became the district mayor through his own efforts. In this way, I became my direct supervisor, and I was still a member of the class. When he became the district chief, I was happy for him from the bottom of my heart, and I felt that it was a good thing that my buddy could become a leader. However, our relationship seems to have changed from this.
Since Peng became my leader, I have been strict with myself in all aspects, because I know that other colleagues are staring at me with a sharp gaze. Outside of work, I have a relationship with Ah Peng, but I try not to talk to him about work. In this very careful relationship, I still carried a lot of black pots, and for a while, I felt like I had become an enemy of the people, and everyone regarded me as a traitor.
The most important thing in being a human being is to be upright and upright. In fact, I have a clear conscience at this point, and I have been trying to be a responsible and upright person. As for how others oppose me, I feel that the person who should be opposed will never be able to stand on my side, so I will face it calmly.
I found that even Ah Peng had changed a little later, and I often comforted myself, maybe it was because he had difficulties in that position! Change was also a very normal thing. But I'm starting to have some dissatisfaction, and this dissatisfaction comes from many sources, and I don't think a good relationship can be a victim of surgery, and there's no need to sacrifice friendship for work, right?
Once, I had a conflict with Peng. I was in a very bad mood that day, and I had a verbal altercation with Ah Peng in a very distorted state. He used a leader's perspective to maintain the dignity that belongs to a leader, and I fought with my own long-term confusion. At that time, we had a very strong quarrel, I saw that the A4 paper that Ah Peng was holding was trembling in his hands, and in the face of that quarrel that had been held for a long time, but it was inevitable, even if I was wrong, it seemed that I had to be wrong. Because if it weren't for this way, our friendship might be ruined, and a red face can actually make us wake up for a while. In short, work is work, friendship is friendship, and it should not be a mess.
Peng's resignation was quite surprising to me at the time, and many people asked me if Peng was going to resign. Ah Peng didn't seem to mention his resignation in front of me, and after he took family leave, he hurriedly resigned. His resignation makes me feel sad that my comrade-in-arms has fallen, he wants to leave, naturally there is a reason to go, maybe if he goes out, his life will be better.
After Peng's resignation, I suddenly felt a sense of sadness. It seems that we will never quarrel over a common cause again, and no one will force the traitor's hat on my head. Mr. Li's words back then felt more and more reasonable, yes, we may tear each other down because we know each other too well, and finally break up unhappily.
Growth comes at a cost, and along the way, we have to constantly weigh the priorities of things, and we have to use blood and tears to confirm the iron truth. We are all working hard for the ideals of life, we are all struggling for the trivialities of life, those comrades-in-arms who were once in a trench, although we are all over the world, but the most valuable thing is that we are still deeply affectionate.
As long as everyone is well.