Three months later, Suzhou Bear Kids Parents School.

I'm sitting in a glass-enclosed work area, the morning sun is shining in my hair, facing the computer, and the spring flowers are blooming!

The cold winter seems to have been driven away from all misfortunes, and now it is spring, the season of recovery, and it seems to be cheering for my new career.

"My child loves to lose his temper and will behave aggressively when he is angry, how can I help him control his emotions?"

"What should I do if my child is procrastinating?"

"Since I have Xiaobao, Dabao suddenly disobedient, beat my brother, grab toys, I used to do what I would do now, every time I was angry and accused him, once he beat him, he said he hated me at the time, I felt very uncomfortable after listening, I always felt that I was too failed, but sometimes when I was irritable, I inevitably wanted to lose my temper with him, and I didn't know how to deal with the relationship between the two children. ”

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Every day, users in the background of the system ask questions in an endless stream. Solving users' questions is also one of the daily tasks of our editorial department of Bear Kids Parent School.

During the three months, I learned a lot about parenting in this new career. With the encouragement of the CEO, I applied for the American Positive Discipline Parent Lecturer, the American Positive Discipline School Lecturer, and the National Level 2 Psychological Counselor.

On the road of parenting, I have not only become handy myself, but also helped many parents who are deeply troubled in child-rearing.

I learned that being a parent requires training, and everyone only has one chance to be a child and a parent in their lifetime, so why don't they need to study?!

In the season of spring flowers, the good news continues.

Tang Wanwan was pregnant on her honeymoon trip!

In addition to the excitement of being a first-time mother, morning sickness does not stop, and I went to the hospital for a check-up and came up with an exciting news. Tang Wanwan was pregnant with a pair of twins!!

Since she was pregnant, the whole person of Goddess Wanwan has become very down-to-earth, she no longer wears makeup, her clothes are loose and casual, she likes to eat hot and sour food on weekdays, and now for the sake of her two children, she has given up her appetite. Every day, I communicate with our two mothers in the group about parenting issues.

Another best friend, Wang Jinjin, is even more proud and jubilant, changing the former lazy lady's temperament and becoming a hands-on female boss.

Wang Jinjin's coffee shop and flower shop is booming, the flower shop on the first floor is elegant, and the coffee bar on the second floor is petty bourgeois. After some experience, she realized that all the security, self-confidence and respect of others are earned by herself, not by others.

Yang Jie came to visit Wang Jinjin by buying coffee for his colleagues in three days, although the two did not remarry, their relationship warmed up a lot. Yang Jie's parents occasionally pass by the store, and they will go in to sit, and from time to time they will take a pair of children to visit their mother. The two children also love their mother more than before, with such a beautiful and positive mother, what child doesn't love?

"Sister Jingjing, do you have an aunt's towel? ”

Zhuang Xiaomu, the editorial team, walked into the office in a strange way, pulling my wandering thoughts back.

"Auntie's towel, yes, I have it in this drawer all year round, I'll give it to you." ”

"Thank you, editor-in-chief, Momoda!"

Zhuang Xiaomu, born in 95, has a big grinning personality, and is the kind of girl who loves to say it out loud. As I get older, I like such youthful young people more and more.

As the head of the editorial department, I can find out the current hot topics and the topics that people are most concerned about in time, so as to meet the needs of households in the first time. This is an essential quality of an Internet practitioner.

At this time, a news suddenly popped up on the computer screen, the two-child policy is fully open, this is a good topic, it is better to start from this point in the parents' course! I plan to start with the two-child parenting, the two-child policy is fully liberalized, parents not only dare to have children, but also be able to raise! Because you have not only two children, but more happiness.

That's a good idea!

"Everyone, pay attention, today's regular editorial meeting will start immediately, and we will start when Zhuang Xiaomu finishes going to the toilet, and let's discuss the course outline of this topic together. ”

"Okay editor-in-chief, Xiao Mu shouldn't fall into the toilet!hahaha!"

I sneered, "You go and see, let her speed up the efficiency~ Let's wait!"

As soon as the words fell, my heart suddenly slammed twice. Zhuang Xiaomu asked me to borrow my aunt's towel just now, and suddenly reminded me that I didn't seem to have come to my aunt for a month and a half.

I've only been in the company for three months, and what employer wants to see a new employee get pregnant just after they arrive, which is a bit like a long-planned plan, a bit like a cheating on insurance.

No, no, I'll have to test if I've really been shot.

"The meeting is delayed for a quarter of an hour, I'll go to the bathroom!"

"Editor-in-chief, how can you be like Xiao Mu, you dropped the chain at a critical moment, hahaha!"

"People have three urgency, how can this thing be controlled!"

I hurriedly hid in the bathroom, and for a while, begged and begged and begged for the pregnancy test!

A minute later, my eyes went black in an instant!.My head exploded, Nima!I was pregnant!!

I returned to the office anxiously, and Zhuang Xiaomu's sweet voice reminded me to be calm and calm.

"Director, when are we going to start the meeting?"

"Let's open it now!"

The meeting began, I sorted out my emotions, and I quickly recovered to my best.

The editorial department began to talk about the raising of the second child, expressing their own opinions.

"After Xiaobao was born, Dabao was in a state of many situations, what should I do? How to deal with the endless toy dispute? What should I do if two children need their mothers at the same time? Mom, you are not allowed to hold your sister! You are an older brother, can't you let your younger brother go? What do parents need to pay attention to when giving birth to a second child? The mentality of a mother with a second child is adjusted.......

This course is suitable for those who are hesitating to have a second child, those who are already pregnant with two children but are very anxious, those who already have two or more children at home, those who are troubled by the children's fighting, those who are full of guilt, self-blame, and helplessness, and all those who care about this topic.

After the meeting, the editors were busy collecting relevant information. And the nervousness was like a mosquito circling around my head.

After work, when I got home, Lao Chen smiled at me with a hippie smile: "Lord Editor-in-Chief, you are back, let's eat!"

I immediately gave him a blank look, "You come in for me!

Mother-in-law and Siqi were stunned, not knowing what I was crazy about, Lao Chen touched his head and followed me into the bedroom.

"What's the matter, wife, what's wrong with them?"

I pulled out the pregnancy test and was furious, "Look, you've done a great job!"

Lao Chen looked at it carefully and looked at it, and muttered to himself, "One bar is not pregnant, and the second bar is pregnant!"

"Pregnant, Jingjing, you're pregnant!" After Lao Chen's reaction, he happily picked me up as if he had hit five million. After putting it down, he rushed out of the bedroom, "Mom, it's quiet, Siqi, you're going to be a sister." ”

The mother-in-law's excited hands kept trembling, and Siqi jumped and applauded, "Great, great, I want to be a sister!

Lao Chen deliberately glanced at Siqi, "Wrong, it's Dad who is so good!", hugged Siqi and kissed him.

The mother-in-law came back to her senses, lost the joy she had just had, and said, "Don't be happy too early, it's not like last time!"

My mother-in-law had something to say, she was afraid that I would go to the hospital for an abortion again, and I would be happy in vain.

At night, I lay in Lao Chen's arms, and the two chatted heartily about the child in their belly.

"Quietly, listen to me, abortion is harmful to the body, and it is unfair to the child in the womb. He worked so hard to find his mother among the countless tadpoles, can you bear not to let him come to this world? Jingjing, whether this child is male or female, I want it, and I will definitely not love Siqi any less than before, do you believe me?"

I snuggled up in Lao Chen's broad arms, and I had mixed feelings in my heart. In the past three months, the Bear Child's Parents School has taught me a lot and changed me a lot, and subconsciously, I have let go of the shadow of my past original family, and even forgiven my mother. She is also a first-time mother, and no one is born to be a good mother. Of course, if she could receive the parent training at the bear child's parent school, she might not be as quiet as she was back then.

Lao Chen's hand gently rested on my stomach, as if greeting the future child. This child came unexpectedly, but the moment came when I learned to respect life and accept the past, as if everything was predestined.

The next day, I handed over my resignation report to Mr. Chen, who sneered after reading it. "Jingjing, you actually resigned for this reason?Jingjing, in the past three months, your performance, your ability, your talent, I have seen it, no one is more suitable for this profession than you, from the first time we met, I knew that you were the employee I was looking for. ”

I pulled the corners of my mouth, feeling guilty, "Mr. Chen, thank you, I also love this job, but I was pregnant after only three months of entry, so the impact is not very good, I feel especially sorry for your appreciation." ”

Mr. Chen smiled gently, "Jingjing, you think too much, I won't fire an excellent employee for this reason." Moreover, there is no one in the editorial department who is more suitable for this profession than you, you are sensitive, kind, professional, and always able to analyze all aspects of users' problems, I appreciate you and hope that I will have you with me in my career. This child comes well, his arrival will completely change you, will reconcile you with your past self, and you will come out of the shadows brought by your family of origin. Quietly, promise me, don't have a next time, fight side by side with me! Let the bear children's parent school become our lifelong career. ”

When I received the resignation report, my eyes were filled with tears, which was touching and a blessing.

In the golden autumn of October, the child cried, announcing that he had come to this world.

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