65. Fertility problems
Niu Hulu has not been in a good mood recently, in two months, she will be married into the Fucha family for two years, but she has never been pregnant, a woman can only really gain a firm foothold in her husband's family when she gives birth to a son, even if her husband's family has not pointed fingers at her, and has never urged her on the issue of children, her own psychological burden is not so easy to reduce.
Asking for a son, no daughter-in-law is embarrassed to tell her mother-in-law, this kind of thing is naturally more intimate to her mother-in-law, since she entered the thirty-seventh year, Niu Hulu has not asked her mother to help ask for Zi Guanyin and other things, but more than half a year has passed, her stomach still has no movement at all, and the second brother Jing Guji is also married, she is more and more anxious.
Jing Gule was careful, he had long noticed that Niu Hulu had something in his heart, but he asked twice, Niu Hulu was unwilling to say, and he was not good at asking, seeing that her feelings were getting lower and lower, Jing Gule felt that she could not let her continue like this, and after asking again and again, she finally revealed one or two, Jing Gule heard that it was for the heir, and couldn't help sighing, and said: "I mistook you......"
Niu Hulu couldn't hear this, in her eyes, Jing Gule was the perfect husband, took good care of her, and discussed everything with her, the two have been married for nearly two years, never blushed, and never messed with flowers and grass, such a husband is difficult to find in the Qing Dynasty, she doesn't think there is anything bad about Jing Gule, and she doesn't like to listen to Jing Gule's self-deprecating words.
Jing Gule's guilt, Niu Hulu knew it, but she didn't think it was a problem, so as soon as she heard this, she immediately retorted: "Why do you say this again? I never think that you can't stand me in any way, but always say these things that poke my lungs!"
Jing Gule since he was injured that year, has been relatively weak, so he can't stand it, even in the sexual affairs should also be restrained, although he and Niu Hulu live in the same room, the number of times a month is only three or four times, so Jing Gule always thinks that Niu Hulu can not conceive a child The problem is him, but Niu Hulu does not think so, she thinks, whether you can get pregnant and how many times is not necessarily related, like the two aunts in the family, Ama does not see them in the room once a month, but both of them have given birth to a child, the number of times is less than her, she is not pregnant must be her own reason, so she asks for Zi Guanyin is not less worship, and Qiu Zifu is not less begging, but there is no result, how can she not be in a hurry!
When the couple gets along, if there are differences of opinion, they always love to find reasons from themselves, first check whether they have not done a good job, and then see if the other party is inappropriate, this style of getting along, so that the two of them get along more harmoniously, but when they encounter major events, it is easier to carry the responsibility on themselves, and this is the case now, because of the problem of children, the two of them invariably suffer together, and they both think that they can't live with each other, and they are sad.
In fact, Niu Hulu's love is low, except for Erhe, everyone else in the family feels it, Erhe is because he is a father-in-law, and he basically doesn't get along with his daughter-in-law, and it is normal not to notice it, Shu Yierha also asked at the beginning, but Niu Hulu didn't say it, Shu Yierha thought she was in conflict with Jing Gule, and said a few words, "If your brother bullies you, just sue Ama Eniang, Ama Eniang will definitely support you" and something like that, she is really not easy to mix with as a sister-in-law, so she didn't care.
Xilin Jue Luo was also out of the same consideration, thinking that their young husband and wife had a conflict and would soon be reconciled, so they comforted Niu Hulu a few words, where did Jing Gule do not do well, let her take care of it more, and said that Jing Gule wanted him to be more considerate of Niu Hulu's family, as a big man, he should coax his daughter-in-law more, etc., not much else, not deaf, not dumb, not a family, this reason Xilin Jue Luo is very clear.
Who knows that two or three months have passed, these two people have not seen a red face, nor have they seen a quarrel, but they have seen that the love has become even lower, whether it is Xilin Jue Luo's or Shu Yierha, they can't sit still, this situation is obviously not a small fight between husband and wife, there must be something big wrong between the two, they can't solve it themselves, where can the family continue to ignore it?
Xilin Jue Luo and Shu Yier Ha are not good at asking Niu Hulu's family, but they don't have this scruple about Jing Gule, Xilin Jue Luo took up the majesty of being a mother, Shu Yier Ha even coquettishly threatened, and pry Jing Gule's mouth open, knowing that it was because of the child's problem, the two were dumbfounded together, and they couldn't help it.
The method that Xilin Jue Luo can think of is to ask a trusted doctor to prescribe some medicine that is conducive to conception, and boil it up for Jing Gule and Niu Hulu, Shu Yierha disagrees, but when it comes to pregnancy and childbirth, she has no say as an unmarried woman, and she thinks about it for a long time, and calls Mama Wu to the room, saying: "Mama, I have something to ask Mama to help me with, but I can't let anyone know, Mama can do it, right?"
Mama Wu has been with Shu Yierha for a few years, and she knows her very well, this Gege often has some novel ideas in his mind that no one else can think of, but he doesn't want people to know, so he doesn't say anything about it, but she has already made up her mind to follow Shu Yierha, so she naturally obeys her, and when she asks this, she immediately replied: "Gege has something to order, the old slave will not let Gege down." β
Shu Yierha nodded, and whispered: "I have a piece of paper here, the content of which Mama remembers, and after remembering it, tell my Eniang, and say that it is the secret method that Mama got in the palace, and the specific origin Mama herself looked at it and said, don't let Eniang know that it was my idea." β
Mama Wu solemnly responded, took the paper handed over by Shu Yierha, and the more she looked at it, the more surprised she became, because there were several items on it that were completely contrary to her previous cognition, but she didn't ask anything, and memorized the content in front of Shu Yierha, and then handed the paper back to Shu Yierha, watching her soak the paper, the handwriting on it was dizzy, and she couldn't see what was written.
Mama Wu saluted Shu Yierha, turned around and went out to find Xilin Jue Luo, Xilin Jue Luo was busy asking her what was wrong, she looked left and right, Xilin Jue Luo thought that there was something in Shu Yierha that people couldn't know, she was slightly shocked, and hurriedly sent the people around her out, she asked urgently: "Mama said quickly, what's wrong with Shu Yierha?"
Mama Wu paused and said softly: "Don't worry, madam, we are not fine, it is the old slave who listened to Gege, and the wife and the eldest grandmother are a little troubled, because when the old slave was in the palace, he got a secret recipe from an aunt who served in front of the concubine, and the old slave felt that it might have some effect on the eldest grandmother, so he came to tell the wife......
"Is there a secret recipe for giving birth?" Before Mama Wu finished speaking, Xilin Jue Luo asked in surprise.
Mama Wu said: "I heard that this method can make people easy to get pregnant, whether it can guarantee the birth of a child, but the old slave does not know, however, this recipe does not need to take medicine, even if it is not effective, it will not cause any damage to the uncle and grandmother, the old slave dares to say it, but whether it can be used, and the wife has to make up with the grandmother." β
Where does Xilin Jue Luo disagree, it is that the medicine is three poisonous, if she can, she will not let Jing Gule and Niu Hulu drink those birth pills, so she is busy asking Mama Wu to elaborate, Mama Wu will follow the cat and draw the tiger back, nothing more than to calculate the time * room, and then with some easy to conceive food, it will not be long before it is finished, Xilin Jue Luo Shi wondered: "Why is this * room time as far away from the menstrual period as possible?
With an authoritative expression and a very affirmative tone, Mama Wu said: "The old slave that Mrs. said also knows, but Mrs. thinks about it, if this is the case, how can there be so many children who can't give birth to them?
Xilin Jue Luo saw that Mama Wu was so determined, and unconsciously deepened her sense of trust, she smiled and said: "Mama has a heart, I will let them use it, if it really works, I will let Jing Gule and Niu Hulu personally thank you." β
Mama Wu hurriedly said: "Don't dare to be the uncle and grandmother thanks, this is the duty of the old slave, if it is useful, it is the life of the uncle and the grandmother, the old slave does not dare to take credit, if it is useless, please don't blame the old slave, besides, this recipe is not easy to spread, and please ask the wife to help the old slave keep it secret......"
Xilin Jue Luo agreed, watching Wu Mama retreat, she was afraid that she would forget, and was busy going to the bamboo courtyard to find Niu Hulu, she called Niu Hulu into the room, let the maids and women guard the door, and whispered the words just heard from Wu Mama to learn again, Niu Hulu was overjoyed, in order to get pregnant, she did not worship the Buddha and ask for a signature, this time she got a prescription that looked reliable, she naturally wanted to give it a try, and inevitably asked where she got it, Xilin Jue Luo whispered, and told Niu Hulu not to spread it, Niu Hulu agreed repeatedly, this kind of secret recipe, she can listen to it is already a great blessing, where will it be passed out, she is not stupidγ
In order to make Niu Hulu's peace of mind to prepare for pregnancy, Xilin Jue Luo specially calculated the date of easy conception for her, let Jing Gule accompany her in those days, and adjusted the diet of the bamboo courtyard, Niu Hulu may have got the secret recipe and had confidence, the mood is much more relaxed than before, plus the weather is getting colder, Xilin Jue Luo also drove her and Jing Gule to live in the hot spring village for a few days, she and Jing Gule are in a happy mood, and with a reasonable diet, plus at the right time to do things, and wait until the New Year, Niu Hulu to the big fish and meat on the table, suddenly feel disgusting, she remembered that the menstrual period was a few days late, called the doctor to see, it was really pregnant, Niu Hulu immediately cried with joy, looking at Jing Gule speechless, the whole family was overjoyed. R1152