Chapter 1398: Adoption?
(Cat flutter Chinese) "Since you are treated equally, does it mean that everything you and Shu Jinyuan will have the same chance as your children in the future?" Ye Jingjia turned her face sideways and looked at Bo Lingling with a smile, "To give a simple example, if you and Shu Jinyuan have a child in the future, then your father's love and mother's love, your own flesh and blood can only enjoy half of it, because you have to use it on Maomao on the other side." After you are a hundred years old, your biological children can only get half of your property, and the other side will be inherited by Maomao?
Hearing this, Bo Lingling was stunned, she moved her lips, wanting to say something, but found that she didn't know what to say at all.
Ye Jingjia didn't seem to see the confusion in Bo Lingling's eyes, and said instead: "Sister Lingling, I guess the reason why you and Shu Jinyuan chose to adopt Maomao is not because you can't have your own children, nor because Maomao has no biological parents, and it's not because you love Maomao very much, and you have a lot of eyes." It's because Shu Jinyuan single-handedly raised Maomao as an adult, because Shu Jinyuan is reluctant to suffer with Zhuo Caifeng, right?"
Bo Lingling subconsciously wanted to nod, but she didn't.
I only heard Ye Jingjia continue: "Sister Lingling, I don't understand, why would you be willing to let a person who has no blood relationship with you and Shu Jinyuan divide up the father's love, mother's love, property, and status that originally belonged to you and Shu Jinyuan's biological flesh and blood? Isn't this making your own children suffer in disguise? Is it really worth it to let your own children suffer for the sake of other people's children not suffering?"
Ye Jingjia's words completely broke Bo Lingling's three views.
Yes, Bo Lingling is willing to accept trade trade in order not to make her husband regret it, but her children ......
Bo Lingling wanted to say that even if she accepted the trade, her children would not suffer, and she would love both children equally. But she found that she couldn't speak, just because Ye Jingjia's analysis was very right, and sometimes, some suffering was not literal suffering.
Ye Jingjia stretched out his hand, held Bo Lingling's hand, and said seriously: "If you keep interrupting, you will suffer from it." Sister Lingling, I'm not hard-hearted to ask you to give up Maomao, but as we all know, Maomao has nothing to do with the two of you. Maybe in your opinion, Mao Mao is happier with your life, but I must remind you that Mao Mao has his own biological parents, and he is not an orphan. ”
"However, they are not good for trade. "Bo Lingling tried to make a dying struggle.
Ye Jingjia shook her head slightly, "What's wrong? The so-called bad is just your imagination, and there is no real evidence." Moreover, if it is really bad, there will naturally be a law to punish it, not for you to deal with it with adoption. Besides, if you really think that Zhuo Caifeng is not good for Maomao, you can send Maomao to a private school, instead of having to adopt. ”
Bo Lingling was dumbfounded by Ye Jingjia's words, she hesitated and said, "But ......"
Ye Jingjia shook her head, and said with a firm look in her eyes: "No, Sister Lingling, if you and your brother-in-law really don't worry about Maomao following Zhuo Caifeng, sending Maomao to a private school is the best way to deal with it." I believe that Zhuo Caifeng and Gan Zhensheng will be very willing to see such a result. If you forcibly adopt Maomao, it will not be a good thing for you, the Shu family, the Bo family, or even your future children. ”
"The most important point, Sister Lingling, you have to let the trade and trade learn to be grateful, clearly know that your husband Shu Jinyuan is not his father, and understand that his existence brings not glory to the Shu family, but shame. If Mao Mao has always regarded Shu Jin as his father, he is afraid that there will be chaos in the future. Ye Jingjia saw that Bo Lingling listened to her words, and said the key points in a serious tone.
Lunch ended after Bo Lingling left in a hurry.
Looking at the rest of the food, Ye Jingjia picked up the chopsticks and continued.
On the other side, Bo Lingling asked for leave from the Foundation.
Her husband went to work, Mao Mao went to school, and Bo Lingling stayed at home alone all afternoon.
She admitted that she was moved by Ye Jingjia's words.
She can raise Maomao as her own flesh and blood, but if she has her own flesh and blood......
Bo Lingling suddenly hugged her head, she felt that she was very selfish, why couldn't she love trade selflessly, why did she become wavering when she mentioned her own flesh and blood?
"As long as I think of my mother's love and can't be completely focused on my child, I feel very sorry for him. After receiving Ning Lulu's call, Bo Lingling couldn't help but tell Ning Lulu about his troubles.
Ning Lulu immediately understood what Ye Jingjia said to her cousin, and persuaded: "I understand, I am the same, after becoming a mother, I realized that everything in the world is not as important as my baby." ”
Bo Lingling couldn't help but put his hand on his lower abdomen, yes, everything in the world is not as important as his own treasure. She had already lost a baby, and she had vowed to put the best in the world in front of her baby if she became pregnant again.
But......
Ning on the other end of the phone was a little more thorough, and said, "Cousin, don't blame me for being too talkative." If you and Shu Jin really adopted Maomao, then Maomao would rightfully become the eldest son of the Shu family. In the future, if you give birth to a girl, everything is easy to say, at most it is an inheritance dispute. But if you give birth to a boy, then it stands to reason that Momao is the eldest son of the Shu family, and your biological son is the second son. Cousin, look at the current situation of the Qi family, are you willing to let your children go through bad infighting? Speaking of which, Qi Hao and Qi Kai are still half-brothers!"
Compared with Ye Jingjia's words, Ning Lingling's words shocked Bo Lingling even more.
While Bo Lingling hung up the phone, he also made up his mind.
When Shu Jinyuan received a call and heard that Bo Lingling did not want to adopt Maomao, he was very surprised.
However, it was originally his personal delusion to adopt Maomao. Now Bo Lingling didn't want to adopt, and he wouldn't force the other party to accept it, so he immediately agreed: "Okay." ”
Bo Lingling held the phone and continued to her husband with selfish thoughts in her heart: "Maomao is a good child, but he is not our own child after all, we will have our own children, I want to leave everything we have to our baby." ”
Hearing this, Shu Jinyuan fully understood, and he opened his mouth and promised: "Since I have decided to marry you, I will not let you follow me to suffer the previous grievances." I will take care of the affairs of the trade and trade and tell him the truth. ”
"Thank you. Bo Lingling said softly.
"No, I should be here to thank you. Shu Jin said. Cat flutter Chinese