Chapter 274: About Adolescence
Chengcheng raised his chin: "Who said that the dormitories are crowded and noisy? The professor in our department arranged a single dormitory for me......
Before he finished being proud, Su Yi interrupted him: "Are there many single dormitories?
Xiao Yi: "That's a good idea. Xiao Su, call the teachers at the law school and ask them to help arrange a new dormitory......"
Xinxin hid outside the door, and when she heard them say this, the little girl pushed open the door with a heavy brow: "Dad, Mom, don't make trouble, okay?
"You said that if you asked the teacher to arrange a single dormitory for me, they would agree? Many graduate students in our college do not have a single dormitory. ”
"As a new undergraduate, can I be more refined than those seniors, and can the school give me this privilege?"
Seeing that Xiao Yi seemed to have something to say, she didn't give him a chance to speak, and said quickly: "Even if you can get me a place in a single dormitory, I won't go!"
"I just want to live in a big dormitory, live with my classmates, and communicate a lot. You can't always protect me from this society, can you? I can't never grow up. ”
They had made up their minds, Su Yi and the others couldn't convince her, but they were persuaded by her, packed a bunch of luggage for her, and drove her into the dormitory.
They were close to Beijing University, and when they went, there were no other students living in the dormitory.
Su Yi asked Xiao Yi to make her daughter's bed, and said with one heart: "You usually live on campus, and go home with me on weekends to eat and live." ”
"Okay. ”
"My mother used to teach in the mountains and lived in a dormitory, although I didn't share a dormitory with anyone else, but I also knew that there were many girls' dormitories. ”
"As the saying goes: three women in one play, you have to live in the dormitory for twelve people, and there must be quarrels in ordinary times. You are the youngest, you have been spoiled by us since you were a child, and you have a soft temper. ”
"If someone takes advantage of you or bullies you, you call my office, and my mother will be the first to come and call the shots. ”
Su Yi is now an associate professor in the Faculty of Arts at Beijing University, sharing an office with three other teachers, and she paid for a phone in the office to keep in touch with her family.
Xiao Yi shook the quilt and told his daughter: "Your mother is not young, her body is not as good as before, Wen is very weak, she may quarrel badly." But in terms of actual combat, it still doesn't work. ”
Since he was worried about living on campus, Xiao Yi asked someone to inquire about the situation of the dormitory of Beijing University, and heard the dormitory manager say that the girls' dormitory was much more noisy than the boys' dormitory. Often because of some trivial things, the quarrel is inseparable.
Sometimes the farce escalates, and some people even move their hands and scuffle together.
Su Yi heard Xiao Yi say this and glanced at him a few times.
This person really underestimated her! How can I say that she was also a heroine who knocked down several crutches by accident.
Even if the skills are not as good as before, it should not be a problem to deal with a few delicate and soft female students.
"If you really have a conflict with someone else and are wronged, call your father or Brother Chengcheng as soon as possible. ”
Xiao Yi straightened out the quilt, laid out the sheets, and very virtuously fetched water to moisten the cloth, like a hard-working worker bee, wiping everywhere.
Xinxin really didn't understand Su Yi and Xiao Yi's concerns: "Where is it so exaggerated as you say." Everyone is a cultural person, and they enter the school to learn, not to compete for strengths and weaknesses. ”
"We have a full schedule of professional courses, and there are so many things to learn. Who will have the leisure to make a fuss in the dormitory? If you have that time, it is better to read more professional books and memorize a few articles of the constitution to enrich yourself. ”
Su Yi felt that her daughter was really naïve: "You think so, others don't think so." The world is so big, and there are all kinds of people. ”
"We're talking to you now, and you think we're alarmist. When you really meet it, you will know that it is amazing. ”
"Xinxin, when you are alone, keep two more eyes on everything. Don't meddle in your business, of course, I'm not leaving you alone and not helping anyone. Don't turn a blind eye to those who need help and you happen to have the ability to help......"
Xinxin entered a period of youth rebellion, and couldn't stand Su Yi's verbosity, saying that she was going out to buy warm water bottles and other daily necessities.
A puff of smoke flashes people.
Leaving Su Yi and Xiao Yi looking at each other.
Su Yi silently picked up a handkerchief, cleaned up the house with Xiao Yi, and entered the live broadcast room angrily, complaining about her daughter with the audience.
Su Yi: 'The bigger the heart, the less cute it is!' In the past, no matter what I said to her, the little girl would listen carefully, and said that my mother was right, and I wanted to listen to my mother. ’
Now, she doesn't give me a chance to give advice. Since last fall, every time I wanted to have a long talk with her, she made excuses to slip away. What a gas!'
Lin family's mother: 'The anchor looks away. When children grow up, their minds slowly mature and they have their own world and opinions. You have to learn to let go and let her have independent access to the world. You can't live her life for your heart. ’
'There is a generation gap between the young and our middle-aged and elderly people, and it is normal that they don't like to take care of us. I think you've been out of hague lately. It's better to ask for leave from school, take five or seven days, and go out to travel with Mr. Xiao. ’
The old lady will quit sooner or later: 'I can especially understand the mood of the anchor, recently my two children are in a period of adolescent restlessness, very rebellious, and cause trouble every day. Compared to them, Xinxin is completely obedient. At best, she doesn't like to listen to you. ’
Yesterday I couldn't stand them, so I packed them up and sent them to my ex-husband's place, and without the torture of the two bear boys, I felt that the air was a little sweeter. ’
Just love to make movies: 'A child's adolescence can be said to be the existence of parents who talk about color change and fear like a tiger. ’
'As a poor old father who raised three children and was made a lot higher by their adolescence one after another, I just want to tell the anchor to go with the children!'
As long as she's not particularly deviant and doesn't do anything harmful to society, leave her alone. The more you manage, the more your child will work against you. I have a lot of experience in this area. According to my observation, Xinxin's situation does not need to be worried about by the anchor at all. She just longs for independence, and you fulfill her. ’
Su Yi: "But I just can't rest assured, I'm afraid that the child will take a detour or be bullied." ’
Blue and white porcelain: 'Great, you don't want to think like this. As someone who has just come out of puberty, I must remind you that adolescents do not like to be disciplined too much. You are wider than the sea level in this way, not to mention that I don't like it, I am disgusted when I see it. ’
I must emphasize: Xinxin is a mature and independent-minded individual, no longer the little girl who babbles, is ignorant and needs you to watch and protect her all the time. ’
You have to learn to change your role, otherwise, I'm afraid that my heart will only get farther and farther away from you in the future. ’
Black Pink No. 44: 'Kudos upstairs! Anchors, don't always complain to us and ignore you, you also have to reflect on yourself. It must be that you do something you don't like that will alienate her. ’
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Chronicle No. 99: 'After watching the speeches of many viewers, no one seems to think that Xinxin's behavior is inappropriate. Is it possible that as soon as a child reaches puberty, no matter how unacceptably wrong or even bad she or he does because of the so-called rebellion, she can be forgiven?'
Some people also advised the anchor to leave her alone as long as the child didn't make a big fuss, and wait for her to pass this period of puberty. Hehe, this view, I can't agree with it. ’
'You're an adolescent, and your parents are still menopausal.' Why can't children be considerate of their parents and think about them from their parents' standpoint?'
Of course, I don't deny that streamers do manage too much sometimes. Those who advise the anchor to let go appropriately also make sense. ’
It's just that I think I should listen more to my parents. Although the anchors nag, what they can say is heartfelt, which is the valuable experience of those who have come over. As long as she listens carefully, it will only benefit her. ’
Su Yi praised the audience in seconds, and he said what she wanted. Confidant!
After being warmed by the confidant audience, Su Yi said to Xiao Yi happily: "Brother Xiao, have you been busy lately? If you are not busy, let's go out for a walk together? We haven't traveled alone this year." ”
"Now that the children are older, they have moved out and don't have to take care of them. On the side of Mr. Fei and Professor Zhou, there are special aunts and nurses to take care of their diet and daily life, keep an eye on them to take medicine, urge them to exercise, and give them regular physical examinations, without us watching. We're completely free. Take advantage of your energy to get out and about more. ”
Su Yi said that he was more and more interested.
Xiao Yi's eyebrows moved: "Okay! It's just, Xiao Su, don't you still have to teach the students? The school can let you ask for leave?"
"I'll find someone to substitute for me for a week. On your side, can you spare time? I heard Qiaoqiao said that you have been doing a good business lately, and it seems that you are going to expand the factory......"
Xiao Yi thought that he was about to swim sweetly with his daughter-in-law, threw the handkerchief aside, snatched the handkerchief in Su Yi's hand and threw it away, and pulled her out: "Don't get it, let's go." ”
"Xinxin always said that she had grown up and didn't want us to care about her. Let her do this sanitation work alone. If she wants to be independent, she starts by tidying up her room by herself. ”
"Daughter-in-law, there is no need to worry about your suitability! On the factory side, there are Yan Er and Qiaoqiao watching, and there are so many excellent management personnel, one less me, and the factory will not be unable to operate. ”
"Let's go to your office first and write a fake note and find someone to replace you. Tomorrow we'll drive off and go to ...... Haicheng. ”
"An Lin and her lover have long invited us to their home, wanting to treat us to seafood, take us to blow the sea breeze, and watch seagulls and dolphins. We haven't gone for a walk to the beach together and watched the sunrise and sunset together. It's beautiful to think about. ”
Su Yi was completely attracted by the picture described by Xiao Yi, and she couldn't wait to fly to Haicheng with two pairs of wings now, "No! Go faster, arrange it early, and go home early to pack your luggage." ”
Xinxin carried two brand-new big red twined plum warm water bottles upstairs, and met his parents who went down three steps at a time in the corridor and were not afraid of falling, and were a little confused: "What happened? Why are you walking in such a hurry?"
Xiao Yi was proud: "Your mother and I plan to go to Haicheng to play." ”
"Okay, don't ask, if you ask again, we won't take you there. Save you from saying all day long that we treat you as a child who doesn't grow up, and we want to tie you around wherever we go. ”
Xinxin: ...... "No, Dad, Mom, why do you suddenly want to go to Haicheng? Don't you have to go to work? Why don't you wait for my mother to go ......on vacation?"
In this way, she can also be wiped out with her.
Su Yi waved at her daughter: "Don't stand in the middle and block the way." We're going to go far away, and we need to pack a lot of things. Time is precious, you let let. ”
Xin Xin was so angry that he turned into a pouty face: "Why are you like this!"
I used to treat her as a treasure, but now I suddenly treat her as grass, and I don't buffer it, giving people time to adapt.
"Isn't that what you want? In the future, your mother and I will give you the greatest freedom. Are you happy?" Xiao Yi held back his sadness, bitterness and reluctance, and deliberately said so.
Xinxin told him to block an evil fire rushing above his head, snorted heavily, passed between him and Su Yi, and left.
I thought to myself: This dad changed his mind too quickly, it's not good!
and her mother, who actually let her father talk about her, and didn't help her say a word. Completely bad!
Su Yi left with a disheartened heart, and asked Xiao Yi with some concern: "I see that my daughter was going to cry just now, is she okay? You too, why are you deliberately angry with her? Angry with a little girl, are you naïve or not!"
"What kind of anger is this! She's just spoiled by us, and she can't listen to any serious words. I thought it would be nice for her to move into a dormitory. We can't teach her that life is not easy, and she will slowly experience ......"
Su Yi couldn't help laughing: "Look at what you said! It seems that the dormitory is a tiger's den in Longtan." ”
Xiao Yi smiled incomprehensibly: "Although it is not hit, it is not far away." ”
"Xiao Su, what do you think, so many female comrades from all over the world, with different temperaments and living habits, living in the same room, where can there be no right and wrong! ”
Su Yi shook his head: "This is not necessarily. Our daughter is strong when she is strong, and weak when she is weak. If her dorm life is as bad as we expected, she will definitely not move back home, and will definitely live there until she has the dorm as she wants. ”
"Even if she doesn't graduate, she won't move back. Because the dormitory has become what she wants, she is comfortable to live in. Save yourself the hassle of moving around. ”
"Hmph!╭(╯^╰)╮ It's okay if she doesn't move back, the two of us live alone in a side courtyard, which is more comfortable. ”
Su Yi laughed at Xiao Yi's duplicity, Xiao Yi was so hot by her that her ears were hot, and she pulled her downstairs quickly to do business.
Because she got a phone call that benefited the whole office at her own expense, and she usually sent canned meat to her colleagues, Su Yi's popularity was very good, and as soon as she said that she wanted to find someone to help teach for a week, the other three colleagues in the office rushed to replace her, and they fought for it.
It's a rare opportunity to repay Su Yi, and everyone doesn't want to miss it.
Xiao Yi lamented his daughter-in-law's good popularity, and he didn't care which teacher grabbed the opportunity to substitute in the end, he thanked them first, and dragged Su Yi to the dean's office to hand in the fake note.
Then the two of them came back in a hurry and packed their bags.