Chapter 5 Disputes between Husband and Wife in the Mountains
Disputes between husband and wife in the mountains
The people in the mountains have a mountain-like temperament, and most of the men are brave, rude, stocky, rarely read poetry and books, and do not understand the customs. Most women are cheerful, strong, simple, illiterate, and lack gentleness. It is not normal for such a man or woman to walk into a door and make a little trouble from time to time.
Yan Yongnong and Wang Huilan are a minority, Wang Huilan is a home-based woman who stays at home, she doesn't have to worry about all the food and clothing at home, Yan Yongnong is all involved, Yan Yongnong will move the firewood to the corner of the stove door, pick the water into the water tank, and get the rice into the rice tank. What kind of clothes should I change in what season, Yan Yongnong is ready to stop for the family. And Yan Yongnong is a very popular carpenter, who will make a lot of money and leave no money to Wang Huilan. Of course, Wang Huilan is no different from a safe, and the money Yan Yongnong put in will not be missing a corner when it is taken out. Wang Huilan can manage money but can't use it, she has no place to use money, not to mention the rest, even the toilet paper she uses every month is ready-made.
Wang Huilan is a very beautiful person who is very good at cleaning herself up and is loved by everyone. She has a very good temper, speaks softly, and usually always smiles on her face, but occasionally she can't see it when she holds her breath in her heart. The whole part of her life is her husband and daughter, sewing and washing for them all day long, making tea and cooking for them. Her greatest pleasure is to see her husband and daughter dressed in good clothes, and to see them eat and sleep soundly. Her favorite thing to do is to keep her home tidy and spotless.
Yan Yongnong treats Wang Huilan as a royal lady, and she doesn't want her to stick to the edge of the digging and digging, and she doesn't want her to interfere in the work in the field. Even in a busy season such as planting and harvesting grain, he would rather spend money to hire a job or exchange jobs with others himself, leaving her at home empty. Now it is a new society that does not allow exploitation and oppression, and if it is allowed, he really wants to ask the maid to serve her.
All these envy the women of the village, for the women, the children are the good of their own family, and the husband is the good of others. With Yan Yongnong's mirror, they are more and more singled out what is wrong with their men. As long as the women get together, they will take Yan Yongnong's kindness to Wang Huilan to draw out their own bitterness and resentment, and then teach each of them the tricks of reconciling men, and learn the skills of driving men.
"People are more popular than people, compared to Wang Huilan, I don't have a life, I am afraid that Yan Yongnong will speak loudly and softly when I see Yan Yongnong talking to her. The one in my house is useless outside, other people's fingers knock on the door of his head and he still closes his eyes and grits his teeth, he can't press a fart with a grinder, he looks like a Hades in front of me, there is no soft word, and he scolds his mother if he doesn't reconcile his three sentences, and my mother simply curses him. A woman said.
"As the old saying goes, 'Give birth to a daughter and a mother.'" That's what happens to a daughter. Another woman said.
"When a woman is raised to a teenage age, the water has to be drunk to drain a pond, and the grass has to be eaten to a mountain. It was sent to his door to help him start a family and serve his parents. And fortunately, those who work hard to raise their daughters do not get any benefits, but beg for scolding. What is the reason for this? It is not necessary to adopt a daughter to break the law?" a woman echoed.
"He scolded you, maybe your mouth was stuck to the glutinous rice cake, and you were not allowed to scold him for being polite? I'm like this, if you don't feel sorry for my grandmother, I won't feel sorry for your grandmother, so I have to return a tooth for a tooth. I promise that I won't move my mouth first, I won't run to your seat first, as long as you scold me one sentence, I will scold you ten times, and call your grandmother to your face to scold. Anyway, my grandmother is not in front of me, and I can't hear the scolding. "Immediately there was experience of women marketing themselves.
"But it's hard to be faced, after all, his grandmother didn't mess with you. "There was opposition.
"Maybe my grandmother will recruit him to provoke him, and if you don't teach cubs, you should scold. Once, my mother-in-law said, 'Good scolding, who told me to give birth to such a cub.' Although she said angry words, she still destroyed her son's prestige. It's much better to make trouble twice like this, and he doesn't scold casually anymore. Said the experienced woman.
"I don't agree with scolding his grandmother, if you want to scold him, scolding him himself, sinners should break the law. Besides, we are all masters of life, and if you scold your master like this now, your daughter-in-law will also scold you in the future. Those who opposed continued to oppose.
But also, there is a story about a mother-in-law who collapsed on the bed, and her daughter-in-law used a broken bowl to serve her for many years. Later, the daughter-in-law also married her daughter-in-law and became a mother-in-law, and one day the young daughter-in-law took the rice bowl in her mother-in-law's hand and sent it to her grandmother-in-law, and when she came back with the fragments of the bowl in her hand, the young daughter-in-law looked very sad, and the old daughter-in-law comforted her: 'Isn't it just a broken bowl? The young daughter-in-law hurriedly said, 'Well, I want to keep this bowl and use it to serve you food while you are slumped on the bed.' The old daughter-in-law woke up with a kick, and then served her mother-in-law with all her heart. This is said by a woman who is about to become a mother-in-law.
"Exactly, 'hemp rope bundle cloth bags----- generation after generation. Someone chimed in.
Some women were reluctant to interrupt the previous topic: "It's better to scold alone, anyway, if you scold, it won't stick to your body." The one in my house can't do a good job of beating people, this pain is on you! Your cousin follows him outside during the day, and when he returns, he puts his feet down and rests, and your cousin gathers densely at home. He still thinks you are doing too little, and scolding you is not counted, and he will beat you. What's the way? Go and break the drum!"
"If he beats you, you may not be able to hold tofu in your hand? If you want to fight, you will fight!" Someone immediately came out to mend the steel.
"Sai Da, you can beat him? A woman with an experience said.
"I'm not afraid of you laughing. The one at my house once hit me too, and I didn't fight back at the time, and then I kept the chance. Once, when he was taking a shower and was stripped naked in the footbasin, I took a bamboo tip and went in and smacked him on his head. He couldn't figure it out, and when he realized that I flew up and ran, he couldn't have chased him shirtless, and when he got dressed, I didn't know where I had gone?" The joke made the woman in the room laugh backwards and forwards.
"Count your men who know the importance and know how to advance and retreat. My cow won't let you go, and he will catch up with you when he chases the sky, and he won't beat you to death and count him losing. He also said to run, if you can run, the monk can't run the temple, unless you never come back. Alas, he beat me several times, if it weren't for the fear of drying the child [delaying] the child, I would really be gone. One woman burst into tears as she said this.
"There's no way to keep up with this man, you just have to let it go and endure it a little more. Otherwise, if you see the ox in front of you and want to arch you, you will not avoid it, but you will go to find death? A good man will not suffer the loss in front of him! No matter what, don't be cold to your children, people don't come to the world for their children, and it is good that they will be raised by hardships and hardships. "Someone exhorted the woman who wept.
"Someone summed it up: 'The superior people are afraid of their wives, the average people respect their wives, and the inferior people beat their wives.' There is no mistake, but the fault is that we are marrying the wrong person. Let the superior people not pursue, and the medium people miss, but they want to grab the inferior people. Immediately the sick woman chimed in.
"What's the point of beating and scolding? If you win, you will fight more, and if you can't win, you will fight less, but your flesh will suffer. Whoever is like my family is the one who makes your heart suffer. He's like a chicken who always likes to fetch water outside (stealing his mother-in-law), and that's the good thing. He let out these words outside: 'He's going to play with a hundred fake women.' One day I will take a knife and take down his 'family business' (sexual organs) and let him play with his life. Another woman said.
"You mother-in-law, what are you going to do with ruining your 'family business'? Immediately a woman laughed.
"You hooligan woman is always not afraid of ugliness, and there is nothing you can't say. The pain is not on you, the itch is not on you, you only know how to make others happy. The woman couldn't laugh or cry.
"The red flag does not fall in the house, and the colorful flags flutter outside. Whatever, as long as it's not your share. He doesn't care about his 'family business', he is not afraid of getting into trouble, he is not afraid of consuming his body, and he is not afraid of a short life!" a woman interjected.
"I don't agree with your statement, it's not a matter of throwing cattle and letting things go freely. First, he is wild-hearted, and people are also wild, second, he goes out to play with fake and asks for money, and there is no fake for him to play in vain, and third, he brings back the filth outside without harming his family?"
"How can you manage it? You can't follow the man running around outside, even if he follows, he can't follow every minute, and the rooster only hits water for a minute. He did it out there without leaving a mark. The person who was refuted discerned again.
"Indeed, the person who steals has his or her tricks. I've heard of a woman who was a thief, and her man was so nervous that he didn't tie her around his waist with a rope, but he still couldn't control it. Once the two in-laws were making glutinous rice cakes in the kitchen, and the woman said that she wanted to untie her little hands and ask her husband to untie her trouser belt for her. Look, a soak of urine. "Someone helped.
"It's one thing to be able to manage it, but it has to be managed, and it's better to manage it than to ignore it. If people don't know unless they do it, there is no impermeable wall in the world. I told my boss that the score was ringing.,I don't know what he's doing outside that can't stop me, so I'll just (forget it),Once I know it, let him get his cock rolled.,I don't want such a sloppy cock.。 "Someone helped. ------
After the women discussed the sensitive and stimulating topic to the fullest, someone asked a question like this: "It is we women who are weak, why do you say this?"
"Men are nothing more than relying on a few pounds of strength in them. Someone answered immediately.
"We women who have left their homes and single-handedly entered their homes are still treated as people outside the circle. The in-laws protected their sons, fearing that their sons would be wronged, and that his brothers and sisters would protect him. In this way, they are many and powerful, and we women are isolated and helpless, no matter how tough a woman is, she can't fight against that room of people, so naturally she can only suffer from the weak. I don't know which dynasty came out of this custom of women going to men's homes? When did it turn backwards, did we really turn over as women. "Someone analyzed.
"But Wang Huilan didn't marry in like us, only her sister-in-law was a little angry with her, and she didn't see her suffer the slightest grievance. Her man loves him, her in-laws are towards her, her sister-in-law has her, and even her relatives are not good to her. ”
"People are made from home, and her man values her, so naturally others will not despise her. ”
"Alas, I don't know how many generations people have been cultivating Lan, and the only good man in the world who is rich (capable) and benevolent was picked by her. ”
"Thousands of battles and fate, this is a note from the previous life. ”
"Women are rapeseed life, obey orders to bump into it, Mobi Mo fights, ignorant and ignorant to draw circles in this life. ”
Later, a few people made some negative remarks that cooled down the fierce and fiery argument. But it was not over, the women's hearts did not return to peace, they were emotional, and they returned home with resentment and counted down to their husbands with almost the same meaning: "Look at Yan Yongnong's daughter-in-law as a treasure, don't say a word, don't flick your fingers." The water reaches the cylinder and the wood to the corner of the stove, and the widow only needs her to cook it; I don't want her to go into the sun to dry, and I don't want her to wet her feet in the rain. What about me? I can't get a good word from you as a male worker and a female worker at night, and I poke my mother and pound my maid at every turn, and I am prone to soft fists and hard stones. We are also women, and she has nothing more than me, so why should she be so blessed?
The women received different answers:
"You are so envious of Yan Yongnong, you are not allowed to marry him. ”
"Do you have her good-looking? She has black hair and white flesh, so tender that she can pinch water, her eyes are shining, her lips are red and her teeth are white, her body is single, she is a fairy who is alive and well, you are half as good-looking as her, and I am more than Yan Yongnong's daughter-in-law! I want to worship you on the sacred case of the ancestral hall house and kneel to you once a day. ”
Then the women went toe-to-toe and counted a long list:
"Your original eyes were poked blind by the dick, you are so envious of Huilan, she has been in her mother's house for more than ten years and she didn't grow up in a day, why don't you have a dick Taoist art to get her hands? I still come to marry you when she looks like her? I don't go to the urine bucket to take a photo, you just wash people's feet and she can't look down on it!"
"Her man loves her, not to mention letting her do the outside Sanhe {work in the fields} is not even allowed to enter the day, and is raised at home all day long. It's like me wearing a wheat hat and a rain on a sunny day, carrying a plough and palm, carrying it in and out, and the tan is not slipping in and out, grinding into a toad skin. ”
"As the saying goes, 'A family is wide for a young man.'" Her man earned a lot of money at home, and he cut off chicken and fish for a few meals, which meal was not three dishes and one soup. Like a chicken egg in your cub house, a piece of fine meat gives way to the old and the young, the vegetables are less than mine, and the rice is less than mine. You can eat less food and work less, and your iron body can't afford to grind so much!"
"Look at her clothes, she wears really good and poplin on hot days, and prints and corduroy on cold days. As for me, I occasionally make a coarse cloth coat and am reluctant to wear it when I work on weekdays, but I only wear it out during the New Year's holidays and when I leave. A piece of clothing is new for three years, old for three years, sewing and mending, and another three years. She touches the alabaster all year round, and the hair growth oil is sprinkled with flower water, and I have the money to keep for soy sauce to eat. ”
Although women would say in their previous lives, they still didn't convince men, and men picked thorns:
"Although Wang Huilan doesn't do anything outside, she doesn't know how well she can do things in the house! You can visit her home at any time, it is neat and comfortable, and you can't see a single spider silk or touch a little dust. Look at your home again, as if you have never lived in a woman, dusty, things littered, the bowl you eat is left for the next meal, and the bed you slept on is like a dog kennel. ”
"You have a plate eye to feed this family, don't let me interfere in the outside affairs, I promise to work quietly like theirs. Oh, I do the work outside during the day and the house at night, and I am paid the same work as you for the work outside, and I do the work of the house by myself. When you enter the house, you are the boss of Shimizu, the broom is upside down, and he kicks it aside, and the flat shoulder is crossed on the ground and his feet are lifted over. Maybe I ate iron and gave birth to two hands?"
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It's sad words, and it's the sore spots. In this way, you come and go to the village as if you have a plague of quarrels, and the east and west are noisy and restless.
The people in the mountains have a mountain-like temperament, and most of the men are brave, rude, stocky, rarely read poetry and books, and do not understand the customs. Most women are cheerful, strong, simple, illiterate, and lack gentleness. It is not normal for such a man or woman to walk into a door and make a little trouble from time to time.
Yan Yongnong and Wang Huilan are a minority, Wang Huilan is a home-based woman who stays at home, she doesn't have to worry about all the food and clothing at home, Yan Yongnong is all involved, Yan Yongnong will move the firewood to the corner of the stove door, pick the water into the water tank, and get the rice into the rice tank. What kind of clothes should I change in what season, Yan Yongnong is ready to stop for the family. And Yan Yongnong is a very popular carpenter, who will make a lot of money and leave no money to Wang Huilan. Of course, Wang Huilan is no different from a safe, and the money Yan Yongnong put in will not be missing a corner when it is taken out. Wang Huilan can manage money but can't use it, she has no place to use money, not to mention the rest, even the toilet paper she uses every month is ready-made.
Wang Huilan is a very beautiful person who is very good at cleaning herself up and is loved by everyone. She has a very good temper, speaks softly, and usually always smiles on her face, but occasionally she can't see it when she holds her breath in her heart. The whole part of her life is her husband and daughter, sewing and washing for them all day long, making tea and cooking for them. Her greatest pleasure is to see her husband and daughter dressed in good clothes, and to see them eat and sleep soundly. Her favorite thing to do is to keep her home tidy and spotless.
Yan Yongnong treats Wang Huilan as a royal lady, and she doesn't want her to stick to the edge of the digging and digging, and she doesn't want her to interfere in the work in the field. Even in a busy season such as planting and harvesting grain, he would rather spend money to hire a job or exchange jobs with others himself, leaving her at home empty. Now it is a new society that does not allow exploitation and oppression, and if it is allowed, he really wants to ask the maid to serve her.
All these envy the women of the village, for the women, the children are the good of their own family, and the husband is the good of others. With Yan Yongnong's mirror, they are more and more singled out what is wrong with their men. As long as the women get together, they will take Yan Yongnong's kindness to Wang Huilan to draw out their own bitterness and resentment, and then teach each of them the tricks of reconciling men, and learn the skills of driving men.
"People are more popular than people, compared to Wang Huilan, I don't have a life, I am afraid that Yan Yongnong will speak loudly and softly when I see Yan Yongnong talking to her. The one in my house is useless outside, other people's fingers knock on the door of his head and he still closes his eyes and grits his teeth, he can't press a fart with a grinder, he looks like a Hades in front of me, there is no soft word, and he scolds his mother if he doesn't reconcile his three sentences, and my mother simply curses him. A woman said.
"As the old saying goes, 'Give birth to a daughter and a mother.'" That's what happens to a daughter. Another woman said.
"When a woman is raised to a teenage age, the water has to be drunk to drain a pond, and the grass has to be eaten to a mountain. It was sent to his door to help him start a family and serve his parents. And fortunately, those who work hard to raise their daughters do not get any benefits, but beg for scolding. What is the reason for this? It is not necessary to adopt a daughter to break the law?" a woman echoed.
"He scolded you, maybe your mouth was stuck to the glutinous rice cake, and you were not allowed to scold him for being polite? I'm like this, if you don't feel sorry for my grandmother, I won't feel sorry for your grandmother, so I have to return a tooth for a tooth. I promise that I won't move my mouth first, I won't run to your seat first, as long as you scold me one sentence, I will scold you ten times, and call your grandmother to your face to scold. Anyway, my grandmother is not in front of me, and I can't hear the scolding. "Immediately there was experience of women marketing themselves.
"But it's hard to be faced, after all, his grandmother didn't mess with you. "There was opposition.
"Maybe my grandmother will recruit him to provoke him, and if you don't teach cubs, you should scold. Once, my mother-in-law said, 'Good scolding, who told me to give birth to such a cub.' Although she said angry words, she still destroyed her son's prestige. It's much better to make trouble twice like this, and he doesn't scold casually anymore. Said the experienced woman.
"I don't agree with scolding his grandmother, if you want to scold him, scolding him himself, sinners should break the law. Besides, we are all masters of life, and if you scold your master like this now, your daughter-in-law will also scold you in the future. Those who opposed continued to oppose.
But also, there is a story about a mother-in-law who collapsed on the bed, and her daughter-in-law used a broken bowl to serve her for many years. Later, the daughter-in-law also married her daughter-in-law and became a mother-in-law, and one day the young daughter-in-law took the rice bowl in her mother-in-law's hand and sent it to her grandmother-in-law, and when she came back with the fragments of the bowl in her hand, the young daughter-in-law looked very sad, and the old daughter-in-law comforted her: 'Isn't it just a broken bowl? The young daughter-in-law hurriedly said, 'Well, I want to keep this bowl and use it to serve you food while you are slumped on the bed.' The old daughter-in-law woke up with a kick, and then served her mother-in-law with all her heart. This is said by a woman who is about to become a mother-in-law.
"Exactly, 'hemp rope bundle cloth bags----- generation after generation. Someone chimed in.
Some women were reluctant to interrupt the previous topic: "It's better to scold alone, anyway, if you scold, it won't stick to your body." The one in my house can't do a good job of beating people, this pain is on you! Your cousin follows him outside during the day, and when he returns, he puts his feet down and rests, and your cousin gathers densely at home. He still thinks you are doing too little, and scolding you is not counted, and he will beat you. What's the way? Go and break the drum!"
"If he beats you, you may not be able to hold tofu in your hand? If you want to fight, you will fight!" Someone immediately came out to mend the steel.
"Sai Da, you can beat him? A woman with an experience said.
"I'm not afraid of you laughing. The one at my house once hit me too, and I didn't fight back at the time, and then I kept the chance. Once, when he was taking a shower and was stripped naked in the footbasin, I took a bamboo tip and went in and smacked him on his head. He couldn't figure it out, and when he realized that I flew up and ran, he couldn't have chased him shirtless, and when he got dressed, I didn't know where I had gone?" The joke made the woman in the room laugh backwards and forwards.
"Count your men who know the importance and know how to advance and retreat. My cow won't let you go, and he will catch up with you when he chases the sky, and he won't beat you to death and count him losing. He also said to run, if you can run, the monk can't run the temple, unless you never come back. Alas, he beat me several times, if it weren't for the fear of drying the child [delaying] the child, I would really be gone. One woman burst into tears as she said this.
"There's no way to keep up with this man, you just have to let it go and endure it a little more. Otherwise, if you see the ox in front of you and want to arch you, you will not avoid it, but you will go to find death? A good man will not suffer the loss in front of him! No matter what, don't be cold to your children, people don't come to the world for their children, and it is good that they will be raised by hardships and hardships. "Someone exhorted the woman who wept.
"Someone summed it up: 'The superior people are afraid of their wives, the average people respect their wives, and the inferior people beat their wives.' There is no mistake, but the fault is that we are marrying the wrong person. Let the superior people not pursue, and the medium people miss, but they want to grab the inferior people. Immediately the sick woman chimed in.
"What's the point of beating and scolding? If you win, you will fight more, and if you can't win, you will fight less, but your flesh will suffer. Whoever is like my family is the one who makes your heart suffer. He's like a chicken who always likes to fetch water outside (stealing his mother-in-law), and that's the good thing. He let out these words outside: 'He's going to play with a hundred fake women.' One day I will take a knife and take down his 'family business' (sexual organs) and let him play with his life. Another woman said.
"You mother-in-law, what are you going to do with ruining your 'family business'? Immediately a woman laughed.
"You hooligan woman is always not afraid of ugliness, and there is nothing you can't say. The pain is not on you, the itch is not on you, you only know how to make others happy. The woman couldn't laugh or cry.
"The red flag does not fall in the house, and the colorful flags flutter outside. Whatever, as long as it's not your share. He doesn't care about his 'family business', he is not afraid of getting into trouble, he is not afraid of consuming his body, and he is not afraid of a short life!" a woman interjected.
"I don't agree with your statement, it's not a matter of throwing cattle and letting things go freely. First, he is wild-hearted, and people are also wild, second, he goes out to play with fake and asks for money, and there is no fake for him to play in vain, and third, he brings back the filth outside without harming his family?"
"How can you manage it? You can't follow the man running around outside, even if he follows, he can't follow every minute, and the rooster only hits water for a minute. He did it out there without leaving a mark. The person who was refuted discerned again.
"Indeed, the person who steals has his or her tricks. I've heard of a woman who was a thief, and her man was so nervous that he didn't tie her around his waist with a rope, but he still couldn't control it. Once the two in-laws were making glutinous rice cakes in the kitchen, and the woman said that she wanted to untie her little hands and ask her husband to untie her trouser belt for her. Look, a soak of urine. "Someone helped.
"It's one thing to be able to manage it, but it has to be managed, and it's better to manage it than to ignore it. If people don't know unless they do it, there is no impermeable wall in the world. I told my boss that the score was ringing.,I don't know what he's doing outside that can't stop me, so I'll just (forget it),Once I know it, let him get his cock rolled.,I don't want such a sloppy cock.。 "Someone helped. ------
After the women discussed the sensitive and stimulating topic to the fullest, someone asked a question like this: "It is we women who are weak, why do you say this?"
"Men are nothing more than relying on a few pounds of strength in them. Someone answered immediately.
"We women who have left their homes and single-handedly entered their homes are still treated as people outside the circle. The in-laws protected their sons, fearing that their sons would be wronged, and that his brothers and sisters would protect him. In this way, they are many and powerful, and we women are isolated and helpless, no matter how tough a woman is, she can't fight against that room of people, so naturally she can only suffer from the weak. I don't know which dynasty came out of this custom of women going to men's homes? When did it turn backwards, did we really turn over as women. "Someone analyzed.
"But Wang Huilan didn't marry in like us, only her sister-in-law was a little angry with her, and she didn't see her suffer the slightest grievance. Her man loves him, her in-laws are towards her, her sister-in-law has her, and even her relatives are not good to her. ”
"People are made from home, and her man values her, so naturally others will not despise her. ”
"Alas, I don't know how many generations people have been cultivating Lan, and the only good man in the world who is rich (capable) and benevolent was picked by her. ”
"Thousands of battles and fate, this is a note from the previous life. ”
"Women are rapeseed life, obey orders to bump into it, Mobi Mo fights, ignorant and ignorant to draw circles in this life. ”
Later, a few people made some negative remarks that cooled down the fierce and fiery argument. But it was not over, the women's hearts did not return to peace, they were emotional, and they returned home with resentment and counted down to their husbands with almost the same meaning: "Look at Yan Yongnong's daughter-in-law as a treasure, don't say a word, don't flick your fingers." The water reaches the cylinder and the wood to the corner of the stove, and the widow only needs her to cook it; I don't want her to go into the sun to dry, and I don't want her to wet her feet in the rain. What about me? I can't get a good word from you as a male worker and a female worker at night, and I poke my mother and pound my maid at every turn, and I am prone to soft fists and hard stones. We are also women, and she has nothing more than me, so why should she be so blessed?
The women received different answers:
"You are so envious of Yan Yongnong, you are not allowed to marry him. ”
"Do you have her good-looking? She has black hair and white flesh, so tender that she can pinch water, her eyes are shining, her lips are red and her teeth are white, her body is single, she is a fairy who is alive and well, you are half as good-looking as her, and I am more than Yan Yongnong's daughter-in-law! I want to worship you on the sacred case of the ancestral hall house and kneel to you once a day. ”
Then the women went toe-to-toe and counted a long list:
"Your original eyes were poked blind by the dick, you are so envious of Huilan, she has been in her mother's house for more than ten years and she didn't grow up in a day, why don't you have a dick Taoist art to get her hands? I still come to marry you when she looks like her? I don't go to the urine bucket to take a photo, you just wash people's feet and she can't look down on it!"
"Her man loves her, not to mention letting her do the outside Sanhe {work in the fields} is not even allowed to enter the day, and is raised at home all day long. It's like me wearing a wheat hat and a rain on a sunny day, carrying a plough and palm, carrying it in and out, and the tan is not slipping in and out, grinding into a toad skin. ”
"As the saying goes, 'A family is wide for a young man.'" Her man earned a lot of money at home, and he cut off chicken and fish for a few meals, which meal was not three dishes and one soup. Like a chicken egg in your cub house, a piece of fine meat gives way to the old and the young, the vegetables are less than mine, and the rice is less than mine. You can eat less food and work less, and your iron body can't afford to grind so much!"
"Look at her clothes, she wears really good and poplin on hot days, and prints and corduroy on cold days. As for me, I occasionally make a coarse cloth coat and am reluctant to wear it when I work on weekdays, but I only wear it out during the New Year's holidays and when I leave. A piece of clothing is new for three years, old for three years, sewing and mending, and another three years. She touches the alabaster all year round, and the hair growth oil is sprinkled with flower water, and I have the money to keep for soy sauce to eat. ”
Although women would say in their previous lives, they still didn't convince men, and men picked thorns:
"Although Wang Huilan doesn't do anything outside, she doesn't know how well she can do things in the house! You can visit her home at any time, it is neat and comfortable, and you can't see a single spider silk or touch a little dust. Look at your home again, as if you have never lived in a woman, dusty, things littered, the bowl you eat is left for the next meal, and the bed you slept on is like a dog kennel. ”
"You have a plate eye to feed this family, don't let me interfere in the outside affairs, I promise to work quietly like theirs. Oh, I do the work outside during the day and the house at night, and I am paid the same work as you for the work outside, and I do the work of the house by myself. When you enter the house, you are the boss of Shimizu, the broom is upside down, and he kicks it aside, and the flat shoulder is crossed on the ground and his feet are lifted over. Maybe I ate iron and gave birth to two hands?"
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It's sad words, and it's the sore spots. In this way, you come and go to the village as if you have a plague of quarrels, and the east and west are noisy and restless.