Chapter 145: Can't be changed
"That kind of companionship is a daughter instead of not talking, why does he object to your father falling in love, and how can he decide whether your father is in love or not, does he have that right? What you do to your father is a filial daughter will do it, so you don't need to report any guilt, you are not sorry for anyone, on the contrary, I want to praise you"
You are a very filial child, I think so in my heart, you think about it like this, I want to do this, and I want to ask you, I hope that in the process of finding a wife, I will be a child. What kind of mentality should I have, you go and talk to my dad, or just provide him, if the father likes it, she is willing to share these things with you, of course, if he is willing to share these things with you, she thinks that the daughter is reasonable and can talk together, you can help him analyze and give him advice These are nothing.
"You can tell your father directly and boldly about your suggestion, or whether you like his girlfriend or not, then I think you can be straight, like or dislike, but you also have to tell your father"
It doesn't matter if you like it or not, the most important thing is that you like people to treat you with sincerity.
This is the most important thing for you to be accompanied by each other and respect and love each other, so I think there will be no obstacles to communication between you.
I originally thought the same way, because I fell in love and found a partner to marry, I also have this mentality, we like each other and sincerely, and like each other because of feelings, my father found out that in the process of finding a wife, he will think a lot in the process of finding, and her liking is a prerequisite on the one hand.
"There are many other aspects to consider, such as the body, the other party's children, such as the other party's family environment, these are all right, these are all considerations that should be considered."
And then sometimes he had one some time ago, and he probably talked for a long time, and then found out that there was something very different about the human body, and she gave up.
Give up and return him to come, I then since you like my physical aspect, he is not a big problem, he was given up, no, and then I myself is quite entangled, of course I am also very confused about my people, I suddenly thought, this wife is really quite complicated, it is a more complicated thing than love, it is really your father to consider these things are not out of the line at all.
He seems to be very comprehensive, but as far as I am concerned, I don't know how to give her advice, or talk to him, share with him what you don't know, you just tell him your own thoughts, and the father himself listens to his daughter's advice and uses his own opinions, and your advice is a reference.
You didn't force him to do anything, I think that's good, it's a healthier communication, you don't have to worry about it once, and your father is thinking about it more complicated.
"I support your father in this regard, because marriage is not a simple thing, it is indeed more complicated than love, we have to consider a lot of things, because my father's is older than you after all, she knows the complexity of marriage, he knows that if every detail is not taken into account before marriage, it may cause a loss that he regrets after remarriage, or will he regret it after marriage?"
So he considers this in detail and carefully, and I support it, there are many people who are because they didn't think about it well before they got married, which gives them the reason for ignoring that and selectively ignoring all the contradictions, and finding them in the marriage after getting married, and then it's even more troublesome.
At that time, it will not be as simple as breaking up, it is divorce, is it more troublesome to divorce than breaking up, and then I thought about it again just now, when I talk to him about this issue, I can talk to him about these issues from the perspective of a friend, and talking to him is the way to communicate between you.
You can hear from his tone that he is cautious, there are many things to consider, but when he talks about love, his advice to his father can't help but surprise me, if he likes it.
But marriage really doesn't like it so much, maybe it's enough to fall in love, but what about marriage, marriage is the union of two families, and the father thinks more, children, family conditions, body, etc., the father has experience and expectations for life.
My sister is too selfish, my father is still so young to prevent the pursuit of happiness in the neighborhood, children can't be with their parents all the time, and the children's love for their father is different from the love of their old wife.
Sister won't be glued to Dad, right, before the child grows up, Dad is not allowed to have his own life, and if he can't let go of his mother, he should let his father live better, if Mom is in Mom, he must think the same way, you are good to a person, you must hope that you really love someone, like a person, you must hope that he has a happy life and good health.
It's that she's happy, and you definitely won't let the person you love go lonely and lonely because of what I want, so isn't the person who does this too selfish, no one wants to contact such a person, I'm afraid that my father will break up if he finds his wife, and the time with grandchildren nearby and the selfishness of loving my sister are threatened by their own interests.
My son inherited that my single eyelid is not good-looking, you help me evaluate it, look carefully at your photos, how cute the child is, and very handsome, they are all single eyelids, and they don't affect people's appearance, I have a single eyelid and a single eyelid is very good-looking.
"What does it mean that they have a pair of phoenix eyes? That is, our eyes are narrow and long, what are tears? It is from the beginning of your eyes to the end of the eyes, the distance between the eyes is longer, and the corners of the eyes are slightly raised, the eyes are particularly brainy, and the eyes are very beautiful regardless of single eyelids and double eyelids."
My son's appearance is very high, even more than the offline that is now popular, you are also a single eyelid first, so don't care about your husband, these words of mine, he is obviously not confident in his appearance.
What is wrong with me now, because my aunt is very short-tempered, very bad, if I am with me, it may be more serious, my sister has had that mild depression before, he may be at home now, I will also you don't have to do anything, you are studying, that person is very strict, and then he may have some pressure, may want to find an outlet to release, but he has not accepted it yet.
Maybe it's not a test, but I'm worried right now that I'm just waiting, should I talk to my aunt or me about going forward and talking to this guy.
My cousin is more introverted, and I had mild depression before, and recently my cousin talked to my sister, and my sister learned that there was a married man, and the old cheeky man was pursuing him, I think this is a married man who pursues other people's unmarried girls, I don't know what they think, but this kind of married man must be thick-skinned and thick-skinned, why if this matter is known by others, the girl's family raops this anger, and if his daughter-in-law knows.
Anger from Rao's daughter-in-law and mother's family, I'm afraid that he will be able to bear the thick flesh again, I think he must not be able to bear it, it should be for him to think about this problem, and let her think about it before stretching out his claws, but now my sister doesn't hate her, how can I solve this problem, you just lacked care and love as a sister, and this man is very cunning, this cheeky man is very thick-skinned, this man is what he likes, and the one who likes it imagines that he is good to the girl in the details?
Because my sister has never been with a partner, from school to university, in the eyes of our family, he is a very well-behaved girl, very well-behaved, and has never been in love. At noon I was worried about him, if I did something wrong, because once in my life, I had to be clean, but I didn't dare to talk to my aunt, if I talked, he was a little grumpy.
I'm afraid that he will have some depression if he has done it like before, if I don't, I'm still afraid of some accidents, I'm still very guilty in my heart, and now I'm very entangled, so I suggest that you can listen to us and your sister's mother.
I must hope that my daughter is a cheerful and assertive character, and knows how to reject this shameless disciple, and can protect her own girl, every mother wants her child to be strong and brave, benevolent and kind, but your short temper is strict with her daughter, and all the things that cover half of your daughter will often make your daughter introverted.
Silent and silent, and he will feel that he lacks love, then in this case, he feels that no one understands the deep pit of this emotion in his heart when he needs to be filled, then some bad men may take advantage of it, if at this time you are like thunder, and even pull your daughter's hair to beat her, it is likely that your daughter will inspire two possibilities, first, your daughter will be frightened by you, as strange as when she was there.
At your mercy, quit this job. Away from that villain, you will achieve your goal, but you will avoid one here, in case there will be another bad man in his life over there.