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When I was a child, I often dreamed that I was playing with my father and leaving my mother far behind, and my mother chased after them in a hurry, but they were just he couldn't catch up with them, they ran too fast, and it was not the footsteps that my mother could catch up with, and the father and son ran happily hand in hand into the distance. At that time, every time he had such a sweet dream, he couldn't wait to wake up from the dream with a smile, and then every time he woke up, he was annoyed, how could he not help but be so happy, it should be holding it back, after holding it back, he could stay in the dream all the time, and he wouldn't wake up, and that dream was so wonderful.

Of course, sensible is really good or false, of course, he will not have such an absurd dream, in the dream he is more in agreement with his mother's ideas, his father is too hard to handle, it is really like a soft clay that can't support the wall, there is no place to be appreciated, and the father's temper is too warm, what the mother says The father always blindly agrees, this person at home seems to be without any manly things, although he became a scholar, as if his mother never asked him to really do anything, a dignified man, I hope that he is elegant and knowledgeable, but for a boy to become a man, it is probably the initial and final dream of every boy.

Anyway, in the cognition of Lord Jia, his father is not so far away from the three words of manhood, in his mind, this family does not rely on his father, but his mother, which is actually a cognitive error, after all, the family's business is mainly run by the master, although he does not have much enterprising heart, but it is still possible to defend the city, maintain these memories left by the ancestors, and also ensure that their family of several people eats and drinks, and the population of their family is indeed relatively small, so naturally, the life of the family is actually more humorous than the generations of the ancestors。

Standing in the person who speaks of adulthood, he feels that his father is not a real man, and he can't support the burden of the family, in fact, this has joined the role of father and mother, and if it is reversed, then it is simply perfect, and the strong character of the mother should not be close to the back house, and with that kind of knowledge, he should go outside to create a foundation, maybe their family property can be doubled several times, of course, this is just other people think about it in their hearts, in fact, it is impossible, he knows very well that the character of his father and mother is impossible to change like his gender, And their family is not the same as other people's families, in other people's homes, they are all male and female protagonists, and their family is male and female, and their family is male and female, anyway, what his mother says is right, and his mother has to suppress his father in whatever he does.

After being sensible, Master Jia also wanted to thank his mother for being able to teach him so earnestly and strictly discipline him when he was young and ignorant. If no matter how distressed he is, he can be careful for you to discipline him all the time, read and write seriously, and learn these things with the invited gentleman are all done in the case of his current 12 hours of uninterrupted, well, take care of him, after all, at that time, of course, the child grew up with his mother, and lived in the back house of the Jia family, so to speak, 24 hours a day, this Lord Jia has no way to leave his mother, and he is under the control of his mother every second of the day, and all kinds of things are done under the control of his mother。

At that time, Master Jia would no longer be like when he was a child, and he wanted to look like his father so tacitly, he was very gentle and gentle, gentle and very good, and he looked very gentle, not like he was playing with his father. At that time, he already felt that his father was simply not qualified, and completely lost his responsibilities and obligations as a father, in his opinion, his father was really absent, at this time he forgot his mother, because every second of every day was with him, and the relationship between his parents was not so deep, two people stayed together, how embarrassing it was to separate the atmosphere at that time, so at a young age, the family did not want their parents to be heavy, and at this time he just thought that his father had no other responsibilities when he was growing up, and did not think that his mother actually succeeded his father, completed the role of father and mother, it can be said that the mother put all her time on him, and it is the contribution of two people.

And when Master Jia finally passed the imperial examination and raised his eyebrows, his moment seemed to have been remembered for decades. The father of more than 10 years suddenly came out and opened in front of everyone, while those people complimented their families, many people also complimented his father at the same time, and they flaunted or praised their father for how to teach, at this time Jia felt very ridiculed, after all, in his opinion, his father had never interfered in his own education, and the top of the day was that he would care about his life when he was young, of course, when he gradually became sensible and knew the value of learning, his father could not even care about his life at this time, and his mother disciplined him more strictlyTherefore, in his opinion, these words of congratulations and words of praise should be attributed to his mother, not as he is now, and his father bears all the glory in front of everyone.

Of course, after Master Jia married his wife, he felt that hey, his father was actually good, after all, he didn't drag him down, and he didn't find any mess for him. Don't think that Mrs. Jia's small actions can really hide from this shrewd father and son, everyone knows both of them, but no one reacts, this matter is big or big, and small is small, after all, it is just a friction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and it can't even be called an argument and fight, but a one-sided daughter-in-law who advanced the door crushed, and wanted to make her mother-in-law a mother-in-law, such a thing has been handled very well by his own wife and daughter-in-law, and they don't need to interfere at all, but the father and son do see every move of the old lady of the Jia family clearly。

And it's because I saw my mother's everything clearly, as a member of the family, I feel a little disappointed, my mother is really old, he is not very clear, unlike when he was young when he had a clear goal, his mother has been working towards that goal.