1142.Away from Ah (3)
Patriarchal preference is common in rural areas, but it is even more common in fishing areas, and many families take it for granted.
Undoubtedly, this is very unfair to women, but for the fishermen, there is a reason for this tradition.
The first is the old tradition, so that the son can inherit the bloodline of the heirs. The children born after the daughter married out have a surname, which is a very taboo thing for the fishermen who drift on the sea all year round.
The second is that the fisherman's life depends on the sea to swing the oar to fish, and in the past, fishing was hard work, and women could not do this work, so they had to rely on men to support their families. Therefore, the more men in the family work more, and the life can be better.
There is also a violent temper of the fisherman, when he encounters trouble, he will fight, and if there are many men in the family, his fists will be hard, and his speech will be hard, if there is no man in the family, he will not dare to quarrel with people outside. There are even some people who are very hateful and specialize in bullying families with few men.
A few years ago, Wangjia Village was able to suppress Longtou Village by Wang Youwei, and now Longtou Village can sweep the surrounding area by Ao Muyang, and regardless of Wang Youwei or Ao Muyang, they are all men.
As for other old concepts such as raising children to prevent old age, this has dissipated a lot, mainly because there are more and more unfilial children of the fisherman's family, but the girl's family is more filial, and it is best to raise a daughter to raise a baby to prevent old age.
Ao Muyang called several village cadres, and then went to the village committee office to wait for the meeting.
Ao Muqing's mother and daughter came late, and they had to take care of the two dolls at home before they could go out.
Taking advantage of the fact that the mother and daughter did not come, Ao Muyang asked first: "Dongzi, Wenchang, do you two like boys and girls?
Ao Wenchang was a little dissatisfied, and said: "Why don't you open the pot and mention the pot? My daughter-in-law can't have children, this matter is a pain in my heart." ”
Ao Mudong also twitched: "Longtou, I haven't met Zhu'er yet, isn't it a little anxious to discuss the issue of children too early?"
Ao Muyang rolled his eyes and asked Ao Daodao: "What about you, do you like a son or a daughter?"
A few people didn't know what he was asking for, but they knew that Ao Muyang was good at playing routines, so after making eye contact with each other, they all said: "It's the same for boys and girls!" ”
"Actually, as long as it was born to my daughter-in-law and it was definitely mine, the son and daughter were fine, and I was quite rare. Ao Mufeng finally said.
Hearing him say this, Ao Mudong and the other younger generation nodded with deep feelings.
Ao Muyang patted the table and said, "Very good, it seems that our village's ideological concept of treating future generations is still very positive." ”
"It's all up to the faucet, and you teach well. Ao Wenchang complimented him.
Ao Muyang said: "Needless to say, Aunt Pigeon's little green girl came to me this morning, she just gave birth to two daughters, and then her man's family disliked her because of this." It's not out this month, and it's still winter, Xiaoqing ran back with two children in her arms, how can you solve this matter?"
As soon as his words fell, the conference room immediately exploded.
"Riding a horse, this family is such a grandson? Lao Tzu doesn't have a daughter-in-law, they are not satisfied with having a granddaughter? This is a problem, and it is a habitual problem, and I will treat this problem, it is a typical underbeating!" Ao Mudong was very angry.
Ao Wenchang was also very angry: "What's wrong with my two daughters? I always want to have daughters, I don't need two, just one! This time I support Dongzi and beat them!"
Ao Daodao persuaded: "Everyone be sensible, be sensible, patriarchal things, isn't it the first time we've seen each other, right?"
"You're still sensible, big country, you have to know that the days when you hold your grandson or granddaughter are still far away. Now the child doesn't want a baby, maybe your son won't give you a grandson or granddaughter in the future, take this current mention, you can think about it again!"
Ao Daodao wiped his mouth and said: "That's right, their family is just underwhelmed, when we don't have a master in Longtou Village, right? When the girl who marries out in our village is the water that is spilled, right? grass, beat them up, and vent their anger!"
There was a surprisingly unanimous opinion, and the big guys unanimously asked to beat people.
Ao Muyang regretted that he couldn't find Lu Zhizi, these people together are not as reliable as their own daughter-in-law, they are all a group of birdmen, they can't help him at all, they will only add to the chaos.
But this was a great comfort to Ao Muqing's mother and daughter, when the mother and daughter arrived, they saw that the backbone of the village were so angry, and they were moved to tears.
Ao Muyang asked Ao Muqing's mother: "Aunt Pigeon, you know Xiaoqing's affairs better than us, have you ever been to her house?"
Aunt Pigeon is a woman in her fifties, she is not as spicy as the daughter-in-law of Sandeng, she is an ordinary fisherwoman.
After listening to Ao Muyang's inquiry, she rubbed her hands stiffly and said: "Alas, I went, I must have gone, I did the confinement that served Qingqing a few days ago, and her man's family refused to take care of it, alas, it was really a sin." ”
Ao Mudong said irritably: "Aunt Pigeon, you said that when you encounter this kind of thing, why don't you tell us earlier?
Aunt Pigeon lowered her head and said, "What do you say about this? My daughter gave birth to two girls, which is indeed a shame for her man's family. ”
Ao Muyang was speechless for a while, the concept of patriarchy among the older generation really can't be changed.
Ao Wenchang couldn't help but say, "Aunt Pigeon, do you think so? Are you Xiaoqing's own mother?"
As soon as the big guy blamed her, the woman cried aggrievedly: "Old and young masters, what can I do if I am an old lady who has no man? I went to their house, and when I went, I could only say some nice soft words and do more work, otherwise what could I do? I felt sorry for my daughter, I could be angry, but I was angry and I had nothing to say when I went home, wasn't it my daughter who was wronged when I turned around?"
Ao Muqing hugged the old lady's shoulders and cried.
After listening to Aunt Pigeon's words, no one can blame her anymore, this is really to the point.
Including them, they can beat people and play prestige, but as long as Ao Muqing does not divorce her husband, then after this kind of incident, it is Ao Muqing herself who suffers.
Ao Mudong pinched the bridge of his nose and muttered: "Alas, this matter is not very easy to do, Xiaoqing, come on, are you still willing to live with your man?
Aunt Pigeon was dumbfounded: "Ah? This is a divorce? I just gave birth to a baby and it has not been a month, so I am divorced?"
Ao Muyang thought for a while and said, "That's it, Xiaoqing, you give me your man's phone, and I'll go and meet their family." ”
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