878 Before and after marriage

After a woman gets married, especially when she has a child and becomes a mother, and before she gets married, there are definitely two types of animals in love. Before getting married, they hope that their man is tall and powerful, handsome and free, ambitious, self-motivated, patient enough, tolerant enough, and gives her everything he has, even if he does something risky, he will provide enough help and support in the future.

However, after getting married, after starting a family and raising children, they hope that their men can take more time to pay for the family, especially in time and care, this is not a matter of money, it is their worry about the future direction of the family, can not take risks, try to seek stability, can live a solid life, don't toss around. Only at this time did I understand that life was originally dull, and the pursuit of this life ended here.

If there are various irreconcilable contradictions in the pursuit, all that remains is the breakdown of the marriage. Men do not need to go bankrupt, they should also leave, women do not become yellow-faced women, and divorce is also an irreversible process. Perhaps, this is the prophecy of the worldview for the marriage of two people. But before getting married, what kind of exam questions can show the worldview of two people?

Different roads do not conspire with each other, and different roads cannot grow old together. Don't forget your original intention, you have to always, but when you are happy in love, you don't study where the end of life is, and whether your destination is the same as mine.

If you know that you are different, why should you fall in love, why not grow old together, why meet each other. The concept of happiness is not at an end, and those marriages cannot be called happy.

If there could be more mutual accommodation, maybe it would be possible to change the final outcome, and try to be innocent, no matter what it is for or for whom.

"Sister Hua, I ----" Hu Dafa pouted, looking at his daughter who had fallen asleep quietly and had not yet received her name, and for a while, she couldn't open her mouth again.

"Dafa, does this have to be done?"

"En----" Hu Dafa nodded lightly, and only after a long time did he answer, "I want to do it!"

"Oh!" Sister Hua also paused for a long time, "Then let's go!, but ---- leave a name for your daughter first!"

Just like sending her husband to the battlefield in the past, before sending her husband away, the daughter-in-law has to ask, what is the name of the son who gave birth to the son, what is the name of the daughter who gave birth, and after the arrangements are made, you can leave.

"Okay!" Hu Dafa nodded and gently pulled Sister Hua into his arms, "I'll be careful! Grandma, don't say it! I'm afraid she's worried!"

In order to give birth to a child and for confinement, Hu Dafa was busy before and after, and he hadn't been to a nursing home for a long time. This time, in order to name the child, he knocked on Lao Liu's door again.

"Master, where are you resting, the two masters are here, hehe!" Hu Dafa walked in with a smile on his face carrying dried and fresh fruits.

"Oops, Dafa is here. Come, sit in the house!" Master Qiu threw down the newspaper and beckoned Hu Dafa.

"Well, Dafa, why don't you go to serve the confinement child, what are you running around? These things should be given to the child's mother, we two old men, can we still grab it with the child?" Lao Liu frowned slightly, a little unhappy.

"Master, I'm having a problem, I'm having a problem, I'm looking for you to find a way!" Hu Dafa gave a gift, poured himself a glass of water, and sat between the two old men, "Master, you can help me think of a name, name the child, my brain is all messed up! If the boy doesn't care anymore, it's okay to call it a cheesy name like an iron egg or a potato! This is not a girl, you must always have a good name that sounds good, is easy to remember, and impresses others!"

"Oh, for this!" Lao Liu and Master Qiu glanced at each other and nodded their heads. "Dafa---- Hu Dafa! Your name is cheesy enough! What should you name your daughter?"

"I didn't get up! I can't get up well with this little knowledge! In order to make a name, my scalp is about to be scratched! The stakes are very high, and the child's life is a matter of life! There is no way, isn't this looking for you! First come up with a good name, give life a different starting point, and change the court!" Hu Dafa laughed hesitantly, just like when Sun Wukong first worshiped Bodhi Ancestor as a teacher, waiting for a name.

"Shall I get up?" Lao Liu looked at Hu Dafa with a respectful face, and then looked at Master Qiu sitting next to him, frowning, "Well, I want to think about it! But I don't have much ability! If it doesn't work, don't delay!" Hu ----"

"Hu Kexin! What about this name? Kexin, thriving Xin, happy Xin!" Lao Liu thought for three minutes, his eyes lit up, and he remembered a name.

"Hu Kexin, well! Nice, good!" Hu Dafa's eyes flashed, he smiled, and gave a thumbs up, "Master, after all, it's Master! Tall, really tall! It's much stronger than the names I thought! Okay, that's it! Hehe, what a name!"

"Well, Hu Dafa, your name is a bit interesting! Dafa, it is a windfall! And his surname is Hu, that is, no matter how he makes it, Hu Fa or Hu Lai, as long as it is haired! Hu Kexin, no matter what, as long as Kexin!" Lao Liu further explained.

"Yes, yes, people nowadays, seeking wealth, career, officials, marriage, children, wine, wealth, everything, in fact, in the end, they just want to be able to their hearts, Ke Xin, yes! It's really good!" Master Qiu nodded his head after hearing this.

"Oh, great, I didn't come in vain today!hehe!" At the end of one thing, Hu Dafa's other thing came to mind, winked at Lao Liu, made a look, and still had a smile on his face, but the relevant information had been passed on.

"Well, Dafa, come, go out for a walk with me, I want to go on a walk!" Lao Liu obviously received the message, and stood up from the side of the bed as he spoke.

"Okay, Master Qiu, sit down, I'll go out for a walk with Master!" With that, Hu Dafa helped Lao Liu out of the room.

"What's wrong? What's the matter?" Out of the building, Lao Liu looked at no one around and asked softly.

"Master, I want to do something......" Hu Dafa said briefly, his plan.

As long as it's about money, Lao Liu generally didn't express his opinions before, and he treated it as if he didn't have his own business, and he didn't know it. In the past, when I lived in a rental house, there was so much cash next door that I didn't even look at it, and no one could do this mentality. But this time, Lao Liu nodded in agreement.

"Yes, then do it!"

"Huh?" Hu Dafa didn't expect it to be like this, "Master, that's a fire pit! You don't want me, don't you stop me, just kick me in? If something happens, I'll go in! If you investigate a little deeper, this nursing home will have to be closed! Because of this money, the way is not right! You can think about it!"