Chapter 739 Approved

Waiting for Li Junge to rush back to the village committee in a hurry, Ayin was in a hurry: "Didn't you say that you would come out after appeasing Alimu? Why did it take so long?"

Li Junge hurriedly shook off the pot: "The fourth grandfather's teaching method is simply sweat medicine!

The first half of the wedding ceremony is the six ceremonies, the lottery, the name, the naji, the sign, the invitation, and the welcome.

This part of the etiquette has been left in Lijiagou.

Nacai is to find a matchmaker to send gifts to relatives; asking the name is to send a note to receive the phoenix book and ask for the name of the eight characters; Naji is to combine the eight characters, and the Li family will also send the ancestral hall to ask for auspicious signs; Na Zheng is to send the gift to the set; the invitation is to send the period to the time Jane to return to the knowledge Jane; to welcome is to marry, one by one in accordance with the etiquette and the festival.

Simplification is simplification, but it is a lot of shock.

However, Li Junge's marriage preparations were urgent, and he only scored two steps at the same time, and the wedding ceremony was to come and go, and the rest would be done today.

Ayin's birthday Li Junge already knew, and he didn't need to invite it, when the time came, he would show it to Grandpa Yu and then take it back, even if he completed the questioning;

The matchmaker has already settled Granny Wang, but Nacai's gift proposal does not have to bother her old man, Ayin and Li Junge have long been in love, before pulling the zipline to collect rice and fish, building Tianxing Pavilion, renovating the homestay, repairing the plank road, attracting tourists. This gift of bride has long been given to that full ten;

Picking up Jane and returning Jane is actually a process of discussing the marriage date, and this Najib gift, together with the invitation date, the old man Shihe has already been scheduled.

Since the old man Shihe used his smartphone, he has fallen in love with WeChat chat, and often sends Taoist chicken soup in the internal group of Lijiagou villagers.

Then a group of villagers even held him up to the sky, but sometimes their replies made people laugh and cry.

Therefore, the old man Shihe didn't have to go down the mountain, received his mother's WeChat request, lined up the eight characters of Ayin and Li Junge, and set the date on the sixth day of the ninth month.

In fact, the eight-character mother of the two of them has found someone to meet a few times in private, Uncle Pharmacist, and the fourth grandfather, all of whom have been arranged.

Now the old man Shihe also gave the right words, and the official partial wealth and the ten gods of prosperity and weakness talked about a lot of the main branch and punishment of the joint harm, and finally concluded, Piwa numerology wood is more gold and less gold, and likes the creation of earth and gold, Ayin Five Elements of gold and soil is prosperous, and the creation of joy and wood is called a match made in heaven.

It's so happy that my mother can't close her mouth.

So there is now Li Junge carrying the wild goose pork suitcase up the mountain.

Along the way, Li Junge was inquiring with Ayin about the marriage customs in the village.

Ayin said: "Actually, you know a little, for example, in the village where the relationship was good before, young people told their parents that they had found their sweethearts after visiting the village, and then completed the formalities, this method is called 'marriage'." ”

Li Junge asked, "What if my parents don't allow it?"

Ayin said: "The Miao family attaches great importance to feelings, as long as the young people look at the right eye, they basically agree, and if they don't agree, they can elope." ”

Li Junge patted his head: "Then Uncle Orion is stupid, a whistle in the middle of the night, isn't this clearance in vain?"

Ayin said: "It's not stupid, Uncle Erhu is expressing his sincerity, if he doesn't succeed, my aunt will definitely elope with him." ”

Li Junge said: "That's right, your Miao Village has successfully shaped Uncle Orion's outlook on life, that is, one word, 'shy'!"

Ah Yin smiled: "Don't make trouble! Uncle Erhu has changed a lot now! You still don't listen?"

Li Junge smiled: "Keep going." ”

Ayin said: "Elopement and marriage are particular, usually the man and a few friends, waiting outside the village with glutinous rice. When the girls are asleep, they bring their clothes, prepare wine and food, and most importantly, umbrellas, and steal out of the village with their good sisters, worship their ancestors in the forest, drink and drink wine, and then take out wine and food to entertain friends and sing wedding songs. Then go home with the boys, and the boys go to the women's village to apologize the next day in the boys' village. ”

Li Junge smiled: "Why is it a bit like a little boy and a little girl?"

Ayin said: "It's not a trick, this is really effective! Ha, but speaking of which, they are only thirteen or fourteen years old, and they are really a bit like you said!"

"There is also a kind of marriage, which is generally a strong village against a weak village, that is, when you meet a girl you like, you first grab your own home, and then ask the matchmaker to go to the girl's house within three to seven days. ”

After speaking, he said with a low smile: "You often laugh at my 'colluding marriage and snatching my son-in-law', which is also a kind of 'pulling marriage'." There is also Uncle Erhu, who is also strong, but one person is strong against a village, I really admire his courage!"

Li Junge said with a smile: "The one in front is not good, but the one in the back is not bad to get married and rob the son-in-law, we Ayin is out of the horse, where do we still use to pull, hook the little hand, and shout: 'Come!' Li Erpi went up the mountain by himself." ”

Ayin said with a smile: "There is also 'talking about marriage', this is similar to Yamashita, the set of matchmaking dowry." Now this is quite a lot. ”

"The last is 'marriage recognition', ah yes, it's Ah Tong and Yamashita Ah Vortex kind, but the age of 'marriage recognition' can be even earlier. ”

"Miao cottage, which family has children, the whole village knows. When the father or mother of a son gives birth to a child in a neighbor's house, he runs out of the house and if the neighbor gives birth to a girl, he cries out, 'My son recognizes him!'"

If the neighbor agrees, the two children will be considered to have recognized the marriage contract, and the little girl will be in the mother's house until she is three years old, and if the parents agree, she can be taken by the man to raise at home, and grow up with the boy until she is eighteen years old. ”

Li Junge said: "This is not too good, what if I don't see it right?"

Ayin said: "Our Miao family is different from the Han family, generally when they get married, they are still young, and the marriage of girls is not actually the beginning of married life. It's called 'sitting at home'. ”

"The time spent at home is a short one or two years, and the long time is four or five years, until everyone is an adult, or until they become pregnant, they don't stay at their husband's house for a long time. ”

"In fact, I think the Miao family's wedding is more like an engagement or a trial marriage, and it is not until the 'Hengguo Stove' ceremony is held, or after giving birth to a child, that the official start of the couple's life will begin. ”

"Until then, girls can continue to look for their favorite partners, but they have to do it behind their husbands' backs. ”

Li Junge shook his head: "No wonder there are Miao girls who are powerful and amorous, it turns out that they have roots! Your autonomy is so high!"

Ayin said with a smile: "In fact, this situation is very rare, because we are basically happy when we get married, and parents also respect the opinions of their children, this custom just gives girls a greater guarantee." ”

"Speaking of the status of girls, it can be reflected in many places, for example, if the wife dies of her husband, it can be a transfer of houses, that is, marrying the husband's brother, and then the husband's family has to give another sum of money to the uncle's family, which is considered a remarriage. ”

"It's more about finding a new spouse on their own, and the new husband's family doesn't have to give the old husband's family gifts, and the children are generally raised by the original husband's family, and even if the wife takes them away, they can come back to inherit the family business in the future. ”

If a man is widowed, he will not be able to remarry after three years, and if he is less than three years old, the husband's family will give a gift to his original wife's family. ”

"If you get divorced, whoever mentions it first will pay the other party a gift and pay money, and the man can't ask for a bride price, but also give a gift. If the woman mentions, the bride price and wedding expenses must be returned. After the old man carved the bamboo, he opened it, and half of the men and women were separated, indicating that they would be separated from now on. Relatively fair to both sides. ”

"But these were the customs of the early years, and now they are all according to the Marriage Act. Generally speaking, in the old days, although our Miao family was still a patriarchal society, the status of girls was much higher than that of Han girls. ”

Li Junge was so sweaty when he heard this, and wiped his head vigorously: "I have been educated, compared to the Han family's 'three obedience and four virtues', you Miao family girls are simply going to heaven! The "Marriage Law" is better, or the "Marriage Law" is better......

The two talked and laughed all the way on the zipline, all the way to the mid-mountain forest farm.

The forest path is now getting better and better, and the whole Miaojia Forest Farm has also appeared under the Datuo Shan, which is similar to the greenway of Panao Township, and you can see the students of the Agricultural University in the Jinhua Tea Conservation Ground, the Tianma Land to engage in scientific research, and there is a small white four-wheeled battery car parked next to it.

There are also a few small bamboo bushes that seem to be wild bird feeding grounds, and there are also sheds like hidden fortifications not far away, and the outside is crawling with greenery, which is a special place for tourists who come to hunt birds.

Li Junge even saw a basket of chickens and bamboo chickens swaggering not far from the feeding ground, and the birds in Miao Village were becoming more and more afraid of people.

When a college student saw Li Junge and Ayin coming, he greeted him: "Hey! goddess and idol!"

Li Junge smiled: "you! I said I was going to Lijiagou to fish and see my sister's cub, why did you run up the mountain? Oh, you like the Miao family's sister! I told you that the Miao family can rob the marriage, and whoever you like to snatch home, and then send a matchmaker to the door to propose ......marriage."

The college student's face turned red all of a sudden: "Erpi, don't make trouble! What the hell are you doing here?"

Li Junge said: "The big red box and the goose pork, don't you understand this?"

The college student hesitated: "Ah, you're going to get married!"

Li Junge said: "Ah......hh

The college student took out the car keys: "Let's go...... I don't want to send you anymore...... Although I know that this day will come sooner or later, I will not bless you with a clear conscience......"

Looking at the back of the college student staggering away with grief, Li Junge hooked his little finger to the car key ring and said to Ayin: "What's wrong with this?

Ah Yin pursed his lips and smiled, and then patted Li Junge: "Don't make trouble!

I made a phone call before I came up, and everyone in the village knew that today was Ayin and Li Junge, according to the Miao family's customs, it was called the day of "booking".

Erpi has become our quasi-uncle, and we have gone to pick up the quasi-aunt! I don't know who cheered, and then everyone went to the Miaozhai Forest Farm and waited for onlookers.

The battery car was still five or six hundred meters away from the village and could not move forward, and a large group of people gathered around to ask questions.

Uncle Ah Chong took over Li Junge's burden with a smile and said to everyone: "Make way for the prospective aunt!

With Li Junge's suspicious temperament, he didn't feel right when he heard this, "Uncle Chong, wait a minute!

Ah Tong smiled beside him: "Brother Erpi, I'll know when your welcoming team comes up!"

Soon Ah Yin was pulled aside by the lively Miao girls, and said Miao language in a groeping voice, and then Ah Yin replied with a red face from time to time.

Li Junge couldn't help but roll his eyes: "Hmph!

When I came to the big house on the top of the village, I saw a stove set up on the dam, and Ayin's two uncles worked as oil cooks there.

Li Junge didn't know that there was this stubble at all, looking at his two geese and a few catties of pork, he was so ashamed that he almost didn't find a bottom crack to drill down.

Uncle Ah Chong explained: "Today is the day of the engagement, and the Miao family custom is that the man gives wine and pigs, and the woman invites guests to dinner, even if you are engaged." ”

Li Junge smiled and said: "Ayin didn't tell me this, I came according to the Han family's rules and regulations, I'm really ashamed." ”

Uncle Ah Chong said happily: "It's okay! Then just behave well when the welcoming team comes." ”

This sounds wrong, Li Junge wants to play a round: "Can I show the money?" WeChat Alipay can choose ......."