Zhou Meizhen looked at Ginkgo nervously, hoping that Ginkgo could support their relationship and bless them.

A dignified graduate student, looking for someone who didn't graduate from junior high school. When I say it, I guess no one believes it. In the eyes of others, she is self-depraved, self-deprecating, and her brain is in water.

She didn't dare to tell her grandmother, for fear that her grandmother would be sad and wipe her tears alone. But she still hopes to be recognized by her elders, and Ginkgo is also a teacher and friend, and she is one of the few people she values and trusts.

When did the little seedling of her love with the big one grow?

To be honest, she didn't know either.

The eldest self-taught accounting course, but Mr. Li was usually too busy, and most of the doubts and difficulties were solved by her. She likes people who are serious and hardworking, and she teaches the big ones.

It can be said that she has not officially stepped onto the podium yet, but she already has a diligent three-good student.

The big man is as careful as a hair and cares for her.

Whenever she was in a bad mood, he would try his best to make her happy.

Whenever she encountered a question that she couldn't answer, he always stayed with her quietly. Although he could not give her any academic help, his company was invaluable.

Whenever she needed coolies, he could always appear in front of her in time and help without complaint.

Both of their parents are no longer there, one is the eldest sister in the family, and the other is alone after joining the army and leaving the army, with similar values. When it comes to talking about certain things, there is a surprising unanimity.

However, she feels that she is luckier than the eldest one, her elderly grandmother is still alive, and she cares for her a lot, although she has more than enough heart and strength, but she is very satisfied.

I don't know whether to appreciate the big man's shameless questioning, or to move the big man to reach out to help, or to have the same interests as him. Suddenly, one day, when she looked at the big one, sparks "crackled" out.

The two of them did not immediately pierce the window paper, on the contrary, the big one avoided her as much as possible, and when they met, they should bow their heads, as if the ground was not a stone, but a pearl.

She went from being shy at the beginning to becoming depressed and angry.

She is not a flood beast, she doesn't look like a small jasper, at least she is upright, she is not picky, she is not squeamish, she has a good temper, she has a good housework, and she is a standard good wife and mother. Such a good daughter-in-law, others can't ask for it.

Hmph, the big coward, don't even dare to try.

No, he can't be a deserter.

She took the initiative to attack, questioned face to face, and pressed step by step.

Later, the seedlings of love thrived.

She's so happy.

I don't care about the eyes of irrelevant people, after all, life is lived by myself, no matter how glamorous the face is, what is the meaning of the inside.

"Mr. Li, I just want to marry a big man. Zhou Meizhen's voice was not loud, but her tone was extremely firm.

Yin Xing looked at Zhou Meizhen, "Don't bully the poor youth, academic qualifications are not the only criterion for evaluating a person." ”

Zhou Meizhen was overjoyed, her smile had not yet been revealed, and Ginkgo went on to say, "Love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families." Your parents are gone, but you still have your grandmother, and if you don't get the approval of your elders, you won't be happy even if you don't have a marriage that lasts a long time. ”

Zhou Meizhen's face was gloomy.

"Since you have decided to be with the big one, sooner or later you will have to face the old man's level, it is better to tell her earlier. ”

"What if my grandmother doesn't agree?" Zhou Meizhen was worried.

"Timid, not at all like your usual style, it seems that you have a deep affection for the big one. Ginkgo smiled and teased, "You can't just pay alone, the big one has to show sincerity." ”

Zhou Meizhen blinked her eyes and inquired, "What sincerity?"

"Persuade your grandma's sincerity, let your grandma see that he can bring a good life to her granddaughter, and rest assured that she will hand over her granddaughter to her sincerity. ”

If the big one can't even be done by the old lady, Ginkgo feels that the two of them might as well break up early, so as not to embark on the road of divorce after marriage and bear the name of "married".

"My grandma is a bit powerful and a little hard to talk to. ”

Zhou Meizhen knew that her grandmother had always hoped that she would find a husband who was an official, so that no one would dare to bully their orphans and widows and covet their family's property.

If you are worried about the big one before you get married, no wonder people say that girls are outgoing. However, Zhou Meizhen can't be blamed, her mother died early, and her grandmother is a traditional housewife, so no one tells her how to get along with husband and wife.

"Meizhen, you have to remember that girls are the weak party in marriage, and if they are too strong, they are easy to be disliked, but if they are too weak and withdrawn, they will not end well." ”

"Why?"

"Thinking about each other everywhere, you think you are generous and a good wife, but in fact, you just pull the bottom line down step by step and step on your face for others. After a long time, I lose myself, become unrecognizable, and become submissive. ”

Zhou Meizhen's eyes widened, Teacher Li's words were completely different from her cognition, she seemed to have opened another door.

At this time, the man will feel that you have no personality and no opinions, and you are no longer the girl in his mind. What do you think will happen next?"

"Divorce?"

"Yes, divorce, or a marriage that looks like a god, the three little four, the little five follow one after another, one wave is higher than the other, and the original match is just a decoration doll. ”

"So what should I do?"

"Never post it upside down, it's easy to be looked down upon. Let the eldest know that you are a fragrant bun, and being able to marry you is his blessing in his last life and use it in this life. I have to treat you wholeheartedly and put you in the palm of my hand. ”

Zhou Meizhen kindly corrected, "We only have one life, and feudal superstition is unacceptable." ”

Oh, my mother, Ginkgo patted her head, if it weren't for the confidant disciple in front of her, she really wanted to roll her eyes and leave. What is this, is the last life the point, the point is to let the big one be a wife and slave.

Playing the piano to the cow is also angry.

"He can protect his family and defend the country and save blessings, so that he can marry such an excellent daughter-in-law as you, right?"

Zhou Meizhen was rarely shy, and the flush on her cheeks floated again.

After a pause, Zhou Meizhen asked curiously, "That's how Teacher Li treats Shigong?" So Shigong can't leave Teacher Li, and he is obedient to Teacher Li, and listens to her everything.

"I've told you everything, don't call me Shigong, it sounds like an old man. Lao Xu, Xu Yang, Camp Commander Xu, which one you like to use. "It's better to call Heiwa than that, and there is no generation.

Zhou Meizhen immediately changed her words, "Catch up with the big one and let the big one learn from Camp Chief Xu." ”

"That's pretty much it. ”

Zhou Meizhen took out a pen from her bag, and a notebook, and took notes in the notebook of the pen walking dragon.

Ginkgo was stunned, and after coming back to her senses, she hurriedly added, "There is one more point, your values must be the same. No matter when and where, the gap between the two people's thinking cannot be too big. There must not be a burst of superiority and a lack of self-confidence. ”

Zhou Meizhen raised her head, and after listening, she wrote it down again.

went back and took care of it, but she wholeheartedly wanted to live the second half of her life with the big one.

Ginkgo decided to teach her, not because she gave the big one a problem, but because Zhou Meizhen's knowledge of this area was too meager, rather than letting her cross the river by feeling the stones in marriage, it was better to teach her early, so as not to take a detour. 2k reading web