Chapter 125: Stand up if you can't reach it
In recent weekends, Shan Hong will fly back to Songjiang, no matter how tired she is, she has to keep vigil in the hospital on Saturday night, no matter how many brothers persuade her, she must persevere. This is her life principle, her brother and sister-in-law keep vigil, that is their filial piety, and Shan Hong does his filial piety.
One night, Shan Rao was in the hospital with her aunt.
On the chair in the corridor, Shan Hong asked Shan Rao: "How is the boy I saw in Beidaihe last time?
This is the first time Shan Hong has officially talked to Shan Rao about her and Bian Xuedao.
Their whole family, including Shan Rao's parents, only vaguely felt that Shan Rao seemed to have a boyfriend, but graduation was imminent, and the old lady was seriously ill, so she put it aside for the time being.
Shan Rao said: "His name is Bian Xuedao, majoring in international trade, one year younger than me, and he can't take the national examination." ”
Shan Hong seemed a little surprised when he heard this: "One year younger than you? repeat? or younger than you?"
Shan Rao was a little embarrassed and said, "One year younger than me." ”
There was a very playful smile on the corner of Shan Hong's mouth: "It's not like, I looked at him carefully last time in Beidaihe, and he looked at his eyes like a very mature boy, but I didn't expect that he was one year younger than you." What did you two do?"
Shan Rao found that no matter how rational and strong a woman usually is, when she talks about this topic, she is full of gossip, which is no different from the little girl in the bedroom.
My aunt asked, and Shan Rao couldn't help but say.
And Shan Rao also has her thoughts.
Even if she graduated first, Shan Rao never thought about breaking up with Bian Xuedao.
If you want to continue to follow Bian Xuedao, your family will have to pass this hurdle sooner or later.
Listening to my aunt's tone just now, it seems that my first impression of Bian Xuedao is not bad. My aunt has a lot of say in the family, and as long as my aunt supports her, there will be many fewer obstacles for her and Bian Xuedao.
In fact, when Bian Xuedao told her that his parents were laid-off workers, Shan Rao knew that it was not easy for Bian Xuedao to pass the family level.
Therefore, Shan Rao is ready to seize this opportunity to win over her aunt, who has loved her the most since she was a child, and let her help her talk to Bian Xuedao.
Also, my aunt has been rooted in Beijing for so many years and has a considerable interpersonal circle. Bian Xuedao will graduate next year, if he fails the national examination, Shan Rao is ready to ask her aunt to help find a job for Bian Xuedao in Beijing to do it first, take the exam while working, settle down in Beijing first, and then the two will figure out a way together.
In Shan Rao's heart, all the obstacles between her and Bian Xuedao are just a year of separation.
Shan Rao believes that with such a sweet relationship between the two, a year is not a problem at all. She has confidence in herself, and she has even more confidence in Bian Xuedao.
In the past few months, Shan Rao has figured out that Bian Xuedao is a boy who is mature, reliable and steady, understands human feelings and affairs, is informal, and has a degree of squareness. Such a boy can find millions of gold on the Internet when he is in college, and after graduation, he may not need the help of his aunt to establish himself in Beijing and live with her.
As a person who has come over, as an elder who has watched Shan Rao grow up since childhood, Shan Hong understands the meaning of the expression on Shan Rao's face at this moment.
Shan Hong asked Shan Rao: "Are you very satisfied with this little boyfriend?"
Shan Rao nodded without hesitation.
Shan Hong asked, "What does he do at home?"
Shan Rao Zhidao asked the key place, "We have only been dating for a few months, and I haven't asked yet." ”
What kind of person Shan Hong is, he immediately understands what Shan Rao is hiding.
Shan Hong asked Shan Rao: "The girl I played with you when I was a child, surnamed Guan, what are you doing now? Are you married?"
Seeing that her aunt didn't ask Bian Xuedao's family background, Shan Rao secretly breathed a sigh of relief: "Guan Shunan, it's very good, she works in a bank, and it's still very close to our school." My boyfriend was sent abroad for further study, and he should be back soon. I'm not married yet, and I'm buying a house a while ago!"
Shan Hong said: "Why didn't I see you take Bian Xuedao to see grandma?"
Of course, Shan Rao couldn't tell the truth: "It was the school's final exam season a while ago, and the pressure of their major's exams this semester was quite high, so I didn't bring him here." ”
Shan Hong said: "Tomorrow, you bring him, I invite you two to have a meal before I leave, I also want to see how attractive this boy who makes you so satisfied." ”
The next day's meal was simple.
Shan Rao's parents, Shan Hong, Shan Rao and Bian Xuedao.
The restaurant was found near the hospital, a very ordinary small restaurant.
After all, it's Shan Rao's boyfriend, and he hasn't graduated out of school yet, so he doesn't need to be so particular, at least that's what Shan Rao's parents think.
When Shan Hong told them about today's lunch, Shan Rao's parents were very surprised.
The old lady was still sick and didn't want to come, but after listening to Shan Hong's words, she seemed to be quite satisfied with this boy, anyway, it was just a meal, who to eat with?
Since Zhiyan Dao Shan Rao entered the interview of the middle X department, Shan Rao's parents have high expectations for their daughter's future.
Especially Shan Rao's mother, who has been pressed by a strong sister-in-law all her life, she is the most hopeful to rely on her daughter to turn over.
But she also eats public dinners, and she knows that if a woman wants to rise in officialdom, it is difficult to climb to the sky. However, there is also a shortcut to being a woman: getting married.
Why is Shan Hong so crazy? In her eyes, it's not like marrying a good man!
Can you marry?
Shan Hong has been kind to Shan Rao since he was a child, and it is not false to treat him as half a daughter, but this cannot calm the spiritual struggle between his sister-in-law.
The dinner was opened by Shan Rao's father.
"Xiaobian, the first time we met, it shouldn't have been so casual, but Shan Rao must have told you about the things at home, don't be weird!"
Bian Xuedao smiled and said, "Uncle, you are too polite. ”
Shan Rao's father said: "I heard her aunt say, you are studying international trade, one year lower than Shan Rao?"
Bian Xuedao still smiled and said, "Yes." ”
Shan Rao's father said, "How is the family? My parents are all right? What are they doing?"
Bian Xuedao said: "The body is very good. A few years ago, both of them were laid off and worked odd jobs at home. ”
As soon as this sentence came out, Shan Rao saw her mother's brows furrowed.
Shan Rao knew that it was finally here.
This was her biggest concern, but she couldn't say or hint at anything to Bian Xuedao in advance.
She knows the Tao, and with the cleverness of Bian Xuedao, even if she reveals a trace of tone before, she can be prepared for Bian Xuedao, but it is also equivalent to leaving a knot between the two, because it is equivalent to indirectly indicating that Shan Rao is not very satisfied with Bian Xuedao's family background.
Besides, even if you say it in advance, what can you do?
Parents are like this, who can change parents?
Shan Rao knew that Lu Daobian Xuedao had millions of deposits in the bank, but she couldn't say it.
Not to mention that even if she knows the Dao, it is best to pretend that she does not know the Dao in front of Bian Xuedao, otherwise it will complicate the relationship between the two. Even if she says it, if her parents ask how she makes money?
Say you make money selling plug-ins online?
A while ago, CCTV was broadcasting, and the five central departments jointly launched a special governance action to crack down on online game plug-ins across the country, and the plug-in behavior has been listed by relevant departments as the target of "anti-pornography" and "anti-illegal".
Shan Rao can only hope that her father will stop this topic as soon as possible. She picked up chopsticks and picked up vegetables for her father, saying, "I'm hungry, and I'm talking while eating." Learn the Tao, try the hot kohlrabi, and see how my craftsmanship is?"
Knowing the daughter Mo Ruo's father.
Shan Rao picked up vegetables and spoke, and her father knew that her daughter was very satisfied with this kid and had begun to protect him face to face.
After all, he is also a person who rolls in the officialdom, and immediately said with a smile: "Xiaobian, okay! My daughter has been raised for more than 20 years, and I have never tasted her craftsmanship, and the young man is very set." By the way, don't you usually have any hobbies, men, have a wider range of interests. ”
Bian Xuedao took the dish from Shan Rao, and politely said to Shan Rao's father: "I like long-distance running, I like football, and when I have time after graduation, I may go out to play outdoors." ”
Shan Hong said: "Outdoors is a money-burning sport, but it's been very popular in big cities lately. ”
Shan Rao's father said: "Do you like football, how do you play?"
Shan Rao saw that the atmosphere was a little more relaxed, and hurriedly joined: "Xuedao is very good at playing football, when SARS closed the school, our school inter-collegiate competition, he was the main center of the championship team." ”
"Yes! When I was young, we played games between several organs, and I also played in the ......" said Shan Rao's father turned his head and said to his wife: "Right? ”
Shan Rao's father saw that his wife had not spoken, and seemed to have an opinion, he didn't want to hurt his daughter's face too much, so he led his wife to speak.
Shan Rao's mother didn't join the topic after all, but just reminded Bian Xuedao to eat two bites of food far away, telling him: "If you can't reach the food, stand up." ”
If you can't reach the food, stand up!
It sounds like no problem, it's very appropriate, but there are no stupid people on the table, Shan Hong and Shan Rao's father turned their heads to look at Shan Rao's expression.
Sure enough, Shan Rao's mouth immediately pursed.
Bian Xuedao was still smiling, as if he didn't understand the meaning of Shan Rao's mother's words, and said calmly: "Auntie, no, I have long arms, and I can sit still." ”
Annoyed that her mother didn't give Bian Xuedao face when they met for the first time, Shan Rao's little temper came up: "Xuedao, which one can't reach? I'll clip it for you." ”
In this meal, the most transcendent is Shan Hong.
She seemed happy to see Shan Rao and her mother each other. And, from the moment she called the dinner, she seemed to have expected this scene.
Shan Hong finally spoke: "Come, Xiaobian, tell me if you can't reach it." ”
Hearing Shan Hong say this, Shan Rao's mother's eyes began to turn between Bian Xuedao and Shan Hong, trying to capture useful information.
Shan Hong seemed to be explaining to his brother and sister-in-law, so he continued: "The last time Real Madrid went to Beijing, it was Xiaobian who took Shan Rao and my Xiaobao to Gongti to watch the ball. Xiaobao went home and told me that they were in a good position to watch the game, and the tickets were very expensive, and they were all bought by Shan Rao's boyfriend. And Xiaobao said that Sister Rao's boyfriend is cool, tall, and very secure. ”
Shan Rao listened to it and laughed, boasting and boasting, how did she turn to a cool and high sense of security?
After eating, Shan Rao went back to the hospital with her parents and aunt, and went back to school by herself.
Not long after arriving home, Shan Rao's call arrived.
"Learn the Tao, don't be angry, don't take it to heart, my mother doesn't usually like to talk. On the way back, my dad said he had a good impression of you. ”
Bian Xuedao said, "Why am I angry? Don't think about it. By the way, on the way back, I thought, if you are going to go to the interview, you must practice by yourself first. I'll go out and buy you a DV in a while, and you can record it yourself and watch it yourself. ”
Shan Rao asked: "Isn't it okay to use Walkman to record?"
Bian Xuedao said: "It's different. Walkman You can only hear your own speed and tone, but you can't see your own appearance and demeanor. Both of these are important during the interview. ”
Shan Rao said: "Okay, don't buy too expensive, just use it." ”
Bian Xuedao said: "Don't worry, I know it in my heart." ”