22. The weakness of recruiting younger brothers

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Building houses, clearing wasteland, foraging for food, and finding out news, these can only be done by him alone, and even confusing the villagers to conceal their identities has to be done by himself, not that the two women in the family are unwilling to do it, but that there is a reason, if they really want to come forward, they will be found out that something is wrong in minutes.

This is the truth that the mother-in-law must take care of the frail daughter-in-law and has no time at all, and the Li family's mother is the target who must be cut and eradicated.

is also because he is so busy, so most of the things about taking care of the children are on Granny Li, the lady of the Li family, that is the existence that makes Granny Li feel heartache when she freshens up by herself, and she has done the heaviest work, that is, sitting on the edge of the bed and taking care of the child so that she does not fall.

As they grew older, they took on the responsibility of teaching them to read and write, and the etiquette of female celebrities, and Zhao Di watched coldly, always feeling that this was the way Li Dalang and Granny Li let her relieve her boredom and pass the time.

But she really loves her own child!

The most painful thing is the sick Brother Zhao, in her opinion, it is entirely because of her responsibility that Brother Zhao was injured in the stomach, resulting in endless pain from birth.

No matter how much the other two comforted and persuaded her, they couldn't change her mind.

There were so many people who came to open up the wasteland, except that the people from the Tang Kingdom came automatically, and they had already prepared, and generally there were children who were too young at home, and they would not sign up for fear of dying after a long journey, and their daughter-in-law would not come if they were pregnant.

Therefore, there are many brothers in the family but too little land, the children are a little older, at least there will be no accidents on the way, there are also some people who have no land in their hometowns and can only rely on helpers to live, thinking of gambling to earn some family business for future generations, these are not burdensome.

But it's not the same among refugees.

Among them, there are many who are pregnant like the Li family's mother, but they have no one to carry on their backs, and there is no ox cart to travel, so they all rely on their own legs to come over, and they also follow the wasteland together, because they are usually used to heavy labor, which is only a little tiring for them, and the children they give birth to are also healthy.

So in the heart of the Li family's lady, it was because she was too useless, she didn't have a strong body, and she couldn't control her mood, so she let Brother Zhao bear all this for her, so no matter how many children she had later, none of Brother Zhao was important in her eyes.

What she didn't even realize was that when the country broke down and the family fell so hard, it was the existence of Zhaodi that made her strong and did not collapse, and she followed her all the way through hardships, everyone has this feeling, and the one who accompanies her through the most difficult time is the most special person in her heart.

What's more, before the birth of the younger brother, the focus of the family is all on the life and treatment of the younger brother, people will always look at the people or things that they have invested infinite energy and resources in, and they will not be obvious if there is no comparison, but when there is a comparison, it can still be clearly seen.

And the performance of the younger brother in the stomach was completely different from that of the younger brother, and even Granny Li felt that it must be a boy, if it was still before, although it needed a son to inherit the incense, but their husband and wife were still young, there was no need to worry at all, even if it was not a son, then it would be enough to continue to live.

However, in the circumstances at that time, there was really an urgent need for a son to inherit that noble surname, and it is conceivable that the birth of the younger brother was not without a trace of disappointment and regret.

There is never a perfect and perfect person in this world, and no one will have endless energy, so under the limited energy, it is natural to focus on the most needed, and the second to take care of the most important, naturally cannot get the same treatment.

The child who can cry has candy to eat, and the younger brother can't cry, but her illness is much worse than crying, and taking the younger brother is too worry-free, so unconsciously, she encountered the embarrassment of the second child in a family with many children.

It's not that her parents don't care about her, but they don't have more energy to treat her like they do to her younger brother, but fortunately, she is not only born with divine power and talent like Li Dalang, but also has no love and love for ordinary little girls, and was born with a boy's character.

I have never been jealous of Zhao Di's love for his parents, but also because although Zhao Di is a short man in action, he is really a giant in speech, and he has mastered the language here, and in the face of his sister who is not worried about being exposed at all, he automatically turned on the chatter mode, and he eliminated the anxiety and fear of finding himself crossing, and also made up for the loss of love for Zhao Di.

The two sisters are good like a person, recruiting the younger brother is the head of the command, and taking the younger brother is the body of execution, because it is customary to recruit the younger brother to take the idea, and the younger brother likes to use his hands more than his brain.

Brother Zhao didn't know that during the period when he lost his memory, he still had to support himself to contact outsiders, handle his father's funeral to support the family, and how did he survive with his younger brother.

Thinking of the inexplicable look of his brother when he first woke up, thinking of the hopeful temptation of his brother again and again, and the disappointment after his hope was shattered, Zhao Di really hated his own inappropriate self-protection mechanism.

It's not surprising why a few younger sisters seem to have forgotten everything and don't remember anything when they see Zhao Di, because this is not the first time she has lost her memory.

Zhaodi's spirit is too strong, and imposing adult thinking on babies whose brains are not yet fully developed will naturally bring some sequelae, and when Zhaodi is extremely emotional, the body will automatically turn on the self-protection mode, so that she can recover from her deep sleep.

And the lady of the Li family used her love to smooth the wound in her brother's heart little by little, and let her accept her father and mother who were younger than her previous life, many people will always take a pedown on what they can't ask for to comfort themselves, as if they have cultivated a hundred poisons and no longer need this thing.

Actually, it's not, it's just because I know that I can't get it, so I comfort myself that I don't want it at all, but the desire to force it down like this, when I get it unexpectedly, the rebound is also very powerful, and I will be doubly afraid of losing.

When the Li family's lady died in childbirth, she once again lost the maternal love she longed for, and there was no longer such a mother's blow to love herself.

If it is not the love that you have personally experienced, the hurt will naturally not be there.

After that recovery, Brother Zhao really did a lot of training for his evasive nature, but he didn't expect that he still couldn't resist the blow of his father's death.

It's not that she's not strong, it's that her body can't bear such a great compassion at all, if it weren't for the fact that her body would choose such self-protection when she couldn't bear it, and let her gradually take a few months to accept, then she might really not be able to wake up.