318. On the Importance of Family Education
Unlike passing through a city along the way, local officials and their families came to meet and send the tuyi, Tang Heng'an returned to the capital, and no one came to visit him.
Maybe it's because the officials in the capital are well-informed? Or maybe they have a much more accurate grasp of court affairs than those officials who are far away from the center, so they don't have to waste their energy on the outdated prince who has no possibility of ascending to the throne, and by the way, they also reinforce and strengthen their loyal and upright image.
No one came, and it was with the intention of recruiting his brother, even if Tang Heng'an's family really had the throne to inherit, she didn't want him to fight for this position, anyway, judging from Tang Heng'an's current performance, he didn't seem to have this mind for the time being, as for the future, when that position is no longer the person he fanatically admires, there will always be an arrangement at that time, the transition of royal power, there have been a lot of swords and tigers since ancient times, but there are more smooth handovers.
What's more, there is a lesson from the previous car that the former monarch of Li Guo successfully played himself away from causing the country to be in turmoil, even a mediocre king will learn a lesson, not to mention the Tang Emperor, well, even if he is really unfortunate and confused in his later years, there are still decades to go, and there is really no need to worry about these now.
She inquired with Tang Heng'an with great interest: "You have so many younger brothers, does your father really teach him personally, do you have so much time?"
Tang Heng'an rarely didn't get tired of her, but sat up straight and said: "Of course, when the world was in turmoil, my father led the army to serve the king, at the beginning the conditions were extremely difficult, and I needed to replenish the source of food and grass along the way. If you don't teach your own children, who do you want to teach them for you? No matter how good others are, can they teach your children the way you want?"
Brother Zhao looked at Tang Heng'an, he heard it at the beginning, it seems that he is also ready to learn like this, the power of example is endless, change a person, such as Tang Heng'an is in this position, but he is treated like this, even if he doesn't think about it himself, the people under his hands will continue to remind him without a trace, accumulate and destroy the bones, and be affected by this kind of uncertain words for a long time, what should be thought about and what should not be thought about, will probably think about it, right? No matter how deep the trust, it will slowly thin and even disappear in this day.
There are not too many such examples, from major events in the court to ordinary people in the countryside, they all say that the stepmother is difficult, not every stepmother is vicious, and there are also those who want to raise their children wholeheartedly. It's a pity that most people haven't let their children feel their kindness, and there are already others who have been talking to their children that there is a stepmother, and there is a stepfather, which is always more bad than good, and others have heard of the bad stepmother, so these people have increased the difficulty from the beginning, and there are a lot of just to see a lively, and the analysis of how the queen mother is sweet and bitter, and it is artificially difficult to rectify this matter.
People's hearts are to be exchanged for people's hearts, not everyone is able to stick to their original intentions to the end, frustrated, disappointed, then simply everyone is still the same as outsiders, each going their own way of Yangguan, falling in the eyes of the other party, naturally finally showing their feet, then more convinced that what others say is for their own good, and even because of the hypocrisy that they have felt, it is easier to rebound, not just a stranger who can't be peaceful, but will involuntarily pick thorns, will collide, and will subconsciously do against each other.
In this world, there is no blood tie, a small amount of goodwill can be accepted, too much, will always make people involuntarily guess whether there is something hidden behind it. There are so many good people, how many can be saints?
Brother Zhao leaned over and lay on Tang Heng'an's body, letting him hold the weight of his whole body as if he had no bones, but he also knew how to please him and pull him with one hand and hold him, as if this was an equivalent exchange:" In that case, my father is really amazing, our sisters and brothers grew up together, and I like children enough, but seeing your younger brothers and sisters today, it really hurts my whole brain, even if they are like a different person in front of their father, so many people surround together, everyone's homework is not the same, and they all ask how much time it takes to finish it!"
Tang Heng'an pinched with her, and deliberately relaxed herself, so as not to hurt her hands, and when she said this, she just smiled: "My own child, no matter what, is acceptable, my father is not an ordinary person, these are just a drop in the bucket for him, if you want to see him deal with the government, then you can't throw yourself to the ground." ”
Thinking of something, the whole person warmed up, pulled Brother Zhao into his arms, and ran her hair down and said: "When we have a child in the future, I will teach the child like this, you can rest assured, you will not be tired." After speaking, as if a child was already in front of him, he smiled lowly.
Brother Zhao's hand couldn't help but follow his hand to put it on his lower abdomen, she was not in good health since she was a child, although the family tried their best to pamper her, the damaged foundation was not so easy to repair, and then there was a prescription prescribed by Dr. Li, specializing in symptomatic recuperation, pregnancy is no problem, but compared to others, it is not so easy, but, what Dr. Li said is not easy, at that time it seemed to be said that there was no way to hold two for three years? When Brother Zhao listened to it at the time, Doctor Li said everything very vaguely, he said incomprehensibly, she listened in a daze, and then came down to understand it slowly, it was sad to think about it, but who told the people here to keep it!
The only thing that can be seen that they are not conservative is the children one after another! Compared with a family in the countryside with six or seven children, or even nine or ten, it is not nothing, an emperor in the Tang and Tang Dynasties, and the children may not be as good as the head of a family, which is considered a few.
At this time, there are many lives, the women in the big family have seen and received education since childhood to be virtuous and virtuous, only those who can threaten their interests will be looked at by them, as opponents, for the ants that can be easily pressed to death, it is just an object, and it is not in the category of people at all, so it is always a little more difficult for the concubine in the big family to survive than the concubine, not to mention, the children in the countryside are the big ones with the small, the children in the big family are the nurses of the subordinates, and the Xixi staff are teaching, like the Tang Emperor who personally teaches and requires the child's mother to raise it personally, it is really rare to see, only this point has to be admired。
However, if Tang Heng'an wants to have so many children in the future, Brother Zhao feels uncomfortable, but only for a while, who knows what will happen in the future? Tang Heng'an may have other women, but maybe there will be no third party between the two of them, who knows? Anyway, it is impossible for her to be as virtuous as the brainwashed woman here, and Tang Heng'an, she didn't see the lustful factor in him, the two of them are as good as one person at present, that's it, now she will never make today's self sad for a possibility in the future.
People who have died once, know better than anyone who knows tomorrow and the accident doesn't know who will come first, it's not just a sentence of chicken soup, although it may be more decadent to think like this, but Brother Zhao is really a person who can get by, do what you want to do, and don't give yourself a chance to regret it.
Now she is the same as Tang Heng'an, she wants to have a child who combines the characteristics of the two, this kind of ordinary day is the most suitable for her, the kind of life in the palace that secretly rubs others when she has nothing to do is simply avoidable.
It's a pity that in the capital, as a member of the royal family, how can this kind of thing be avoided, even if you want to be a melon eater quietly, sometimes you will be injured by stray bullets.
In the harem of the Tang Emperor, among the four concubines with the highest rank, Concubine De is the oldest, and she is the only one left in the group of people who entered the palace when the Tang Emperor was the emperor at the beginning. At the beginning, the Tang Emperor, as the most unfavored prince who was almost exiled in the north, fought openly and secretly among several princes in the capital, which led to chaos, and in order to protect himself, he finally became the biggest winner, which no one expected. The officials in the capital, each with their own support, but none of them is this is more embarrassing, at that time, each family was really full of strength to show loyalty, what is more effective than letting the people in their own family have a relationship with the emperor, not to mention, at that time, the Tang Emperor, there was no one in the backyard, who didn't want to fight?
The people who followed the Tang Emperor had their own seals, and the Tang Emperor was not a person who unloaded the mill and killed the donkey, or it may be because the military power was always in his hands, and the people who followed him were all rewarded according to their merits, but among these people, none of their daughters entered the palace, but he also personally made a few matchmakers and fulfilled several pairs of good stories. The atmosphere of men and women personally watching each other and getting along with each other started with him.
And the olive branch thrown by the civil officials, he also took it, the first batch of people who entered the palace, the family background is comparable, he is not impartial to them, but unfortunately, the back position is vacant, whether the people who come in want to or not, there are families pushing behind, wanting to compete for this position, the harem at that time is not what it is now, for this position, what kind of tricks have been used, hard knives dare not come out, soft knives and yin knives greet each other, just from the Tang Emperor and Tang Heng'an get along, he knows that he is not a person who can understand this means, plus he has just ascended the throne, the country needs to calm down because of the chaos caused by the contention for the throne, even if the people in the harem enter the palace, But for him, the former little transparent and now the victor attaches great importance to it, the surrender and awe from the heart is a little worse, the means of the women of the family in the harem are constantly improved and gained from generation to generation, and the harem is used as their own battlefield, fighting fiercely, and never dying.
And after a few lives, he finally angered the Tang Emperor, he couldn't spare his hands to take care of the harem, but did he need to pay attention to what was going on in his heart? A woman is lovely, but vicious is not worthy of being a person, let alone the mother of his children, and those civil officials who once looked down on him with respect on their faces and in their hearts, and felt that he had been stained with mud legs and vulgarity in the poor countryside, finally saw how simple and rough the rude mud legs temper can be, and showed them that I am willing to use you because I don't want to waste your talents to give you a chance, not to give you the opportunity to put your hand into my home! Don't say that the emperor has no family affairs, my own family is only about my own affairs, and it has nothing to do with the previous dynasty, you just do your own job, and you don't have to worry about the rest, you don't have to worry about it.
The harem is his home, so there can't be such a thing as being unsafe in his home, check, you must find out!
So the officials of the Tang Dynasty were dumbfounded and watched a big drama about the investigation of the harem by the Criminal Department, and it must be investigated. This investigation not only found out the murderer, but also found out the spies who were planted by someone, that time, the Tang Emperor did not have a soft hand, as long as there was a human life on his hands, then he paid for his life, and if he planted someone, then exile, otherwise who knows if you arranged for these people to want to kill the king? Home is a place for people to relax, not a place for people to be scared and stabbed by someone who doesn't know when they came out of nowhere.
Such a cleansing, there are few people left in the palace, and there are some smaller mistakes, but in the end, they scared themselves, and their health was not good, and in the end, they experienced all this personally, but only Concubine De, and the people who came in one after another, just heard about it, and they also taught it at home before entering the palace, but outside the means, it was said and said, pets must be fought for, in case of good luck to get the emperor's favor to go further, but the means can be ruthless but not ruthless, no way, year after year they also found out, the Tang Emperor said that the former dynasty and the harem are separated, that is really separated, as long as you have talent for the country, then you can really reuse you, And the harem which wants to blow the pillow wind, I'm sorry, there is no such opportunity at all, he said that it is fair to treat everyone equally and not to give them a chance to meddle in the previous dynasty, anyway, they have seen it for so many years, and the one who can get the rear position must be his favorite rather than the powerful family, and now they only like it and do not have a favorite, so when I think about it, I will use more thought to figure out how to make Tang Huang's heart go a little bit to himself.
As for the throne, Emperor Tang has long said that his heir must be the best of his sons, given that Emperor Tang is currently young and strong, it is natural to be better than others since he was a child. Just look at Concubine De, she doesn't show her face of fighting or grabbing, but her own three children are re-taught by themselves, and the Tang Emperor will take the teaching test every day, and there is no chance to cheat if he wants to, so only if he is better than others since he was a child, can he be seen by the Tang Emperor.