Chapter 1754
Pushing the suitcase, Chu Minghui was envious of Gong Ruini again.
Originally, I thought that Gong Ruini was carrying so many boxes, could she handle so many boxes by herself.
I didn't expect that Ping'an and they were all pushing their small suitcases, especially Pingping's own suitcases, and they had to help Jianjian push his suitcases.
Looking at his son again, he carried a small bag, which really can't be compared.
"Don't you think it's a bit tiring for them to push the suitcase like this. "Even if it's a small suitcase, it's still big for them.
Gong Ruini didn't feel tired, "It's all their things, if they feel tired, don't bring so many things." ”
"Sister, you have to believe that these things are really not a burden for them. "Ping An An has been exercising with Zhao Xuran since he was a child, is it a problem to push such a box?
As for Jianjian, that is, because of his size, Pingping will help him control the direction, otherwise Jianjian can do it alone.
Gong Ruini remembered that this is not a foreign country, and many concepts of educating children are unbelievable in the eyes of many people.
"The children born to me and Xu Ran in the United States sometimes talk to many parents about their children's experiences, and we all say that we can't spoil them. ”
"They have something that they can do when they are a year old, and something that they can do when they are two years old. ”
"Start nurturing them from a young age and let them know that they are also part of the family and that they can't be excluded from participation just because they are young. ”
"Let them develop this habit from an early age, and they will get used to doing things, otherwise when the children reach their teens, you want them to work, of course they will resist. "Gong Ruini has talked to some parents about their children's experiences.
Gong Ruini just wants to say that she is really not a person all the way, "There are other things besides grades." ”
For their families, grades are not necessarily so important, and emotional intelligence is often more important than IQ.
However, many people have fallen into the misunderstanding, either thinking that learning is not important at all, or they feel that learning is not generally important, it is very important, in addition to letting children learn, there is only learning, what housework is not housework, that is all the responsibility of parents.
Chu Minghui listened to Gong Ruini talking about the children's scriptures, and didn't care about the manuscript written before, and quickly wrote down what Gong Ruini said with a pen.
"I always thought I was good at educating children.,Dongdong's education is basically me in charge.,I'm catching.,But compared to you.。。 Chu Minghui smiled bitterly.
After her son was born, Chu Minghui chatted with many friends who were parents and asked them for children's scriptures, in her opinion, she had really taken the strengths of each family, and her son had grown up very well, and he was an example for parents around her to learn from their children.
But such a little achievement, and Gong Ruini can't be compared, their excellence is not because of the smart children that were rumored before.
Chu Minghui was thinking about the shortcomings of her usual education for her son, but Gong Ruini frowned, "You said that you usually discipline your children?"
"Don't Dong Dong his father care?" Many men in later generations used the excuse that they were busy with work, and their children's education and other matters were handled by their children's mothers, are men now also busy like this?
"Aren't you busy with work?" Chu Minghui originally wanted to say that men are not all busy with work, her family is busy, and Zhao Xuran should also be busy.
Before the words came out, she remembered that at the airport before, the mode of getting along with Zhao Xuran was mediocre, and the good thing to say was to get along with each other on an equal footing, and the ugly thing to say was that it was neither big nor small.
In short, such a pattern is impossible to happen between her man and son, and Chu Minghui didn't think there was a problem before.
Because men with good careers basically don't care about their families, many men who take care of their families have no achievements in their careers.
But it seems that such a set is not suitable for Gong Ruini and his wife at all, obviously their husband and wife have such a big career, shouldn't they be busier?
Busy with work? This is all an excuse, if Cao Na is present, Gong Ruini will directly explode foul language, and now in front of Chu Minghui, of course, she has to restrain one or two.
"Boys still have to follow their fathers more, no matter how well we manage, they are also women, and they don't have the perseverance of men in their bones. ”
In addition to letting the child have more contact with his father and deepen the relationship, it is also to let the man know that he is the father of the child and should take on the responsibility of the father. ”
Father's responsibility? Chu Minghui was dizzy when he heard it, isn't it just to be able to let the wives and children at home live a happy life?
How can you listen to Gong Ruini's meaning, this is not a responsibility at all, "Do you want men to leave their careers alone?"
"It's not about not being responsible, it's about knowing how to allocate time wisely. Gong Ruini felt that she had to explain this topic clearly, not just ordinary words.
Chu Minghui will not agree with this point of view, and what worries Gong Ruini even more is that if she disagrees with this point of view, she also mentions it with her man.
If he is a generous man, even if he disagrees with such a theory, he will not have too many ideas, he will only laugh it off, and more seriously, he will tell Chu Minghui not to have more contact with her.
What if the other party is a cautious man, and while not letting Chu Minghui have more contact with her, he also spreads this remark.
At that time, the circle doesn't know what it will be misunderstood, just thinking about it will make Gong Ruini have all kinds of headaches.
Alas, she made another mistake of being too talkative, she was really sleeping, or she thought Chu Minghui was a straightforward person, and then she thought about it and said it.
It seems that after returning to the house, the first thing he did was to report Zhao Xuran's safety and ask Zhao Xuran what he thought of Chu Minghui's man.
It can be regarded as a call for help, at least let Zhao Xuran know how to deal with this matter after it gets big.
Gong Ruini originally thought that she was looking for a pick-up person for a long time, but she didn't expect to see that the housekeeper she had invited before was already waiting for them at the pick-up gate.
It's just that Gong Ruini really wants to say that there is really no need to be so high-profile to pick up people, she is really not short-sighted.
With the words Gong Ruini written on such a big piece of paper, as long as you are not blind, you will be the first to see such a swaggering pick-up signboard after you come out.
After the housekeeper saw Gong Ruini and them, "Hello, madam." ”
"Young master, hello young lady. The butler was ready to get his hands on the luggage that Pingping had pushed.
"Lieber, let them push themselves. Of course, Gong Ruini knew that there was a cart that could actually put luggage on it, but she just deliberately didn't push the cart, what she wanted was exercise.
Otherwise, these children went to the mall and saw their favorite toys and clothes to buy and buy, and they just ordered the suitcase, and there was no way to stuff it in.
Li Bo wanted to say that he could help the young master and them push the luggage, and it was difficult for them to push a suitcase that was not much shorter than them.
"Hello grandpa, we'll push it ourselves. Ping Ping was very happy to see someone taking over the suitcase.
Although such a large amount of suitcase is not a problem for him at all, it is good for someone to take over, but his mother has spoken like this, and he can only say that he pushes it himself.
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