1. Men's lies
When I asked for leave from the company to go to the hospital for a check-up, the doctor told me that I was two months pregnant, but during the pregnancy, I noticed that there was something wrong with my man.
For example, when you go to work in the morning, you forget to wash your face while brushing your teeth, and you forget to tie your tie when you get dressed.
Every day I came back very late, and I was in a trance.
I discussed this with my girlfriend and asked her if something was wrong with my husband's work, or if he was cheating.
My best friend gave me a blank look and said, "You are insane, your Lin Hang'an is a well-known good man, don't look for trouble." ”
Sometimes I believe in a woman's intuition, although my girlfriend doesn't believe it, and I don't believe it myself, but in the face of Lin Anhang's trance, I still don't know the bottom of my heart.
He is a very self-disciplined person, and he has to drink soup before meals as a couple of times a week, and he is rarely seen to have such a life.
Until some time ago, I vomited very badly in the morning, thinking that it was caused by the company's busyness, cute and sour, often nauseous, a pregnant Du Xiaolan in the company observed me for a long time, and asked me very carelessly in the office, "Song Wenjing, are you pregnant?"
At that time, I was holding a box of sour black plums in my hand to eat energetically, and I hadn't swallowed a mouthful of plum meat, so I immediately ran to the bathroom and vomited without saying a word.
When she asked like this, from entering and exiting to the company, everyone looked like they were congratulating their mothers, and they looked really stupid.
I went to the pharmacy to buy a pregnancy test, and when I stood in the toilet, I saw two red lines on the white stick in my hand showing that I was indeed pregnant.
But since I was a child, I have been a person who is very self-doubting, and I have too high expectations for many things, and it is easy to be full of loopholes and situations.
I took a leave of absence to go to the hospital for a check-up, and the doctor told me I was pregnant.
There is no need to ask about the mood at that time, women who have had children know that the sense of wonder and joy of carrying a piece of living flesh in their stomachs is not clear in one or two sentences.
In order to give Lin Anhang, who was not in a state of life during this time, an unexpected surprise, I made a big table of dishes at night and waited for him to go home for dinner, and he called me to tell me that I had to work overtime.
I swallowed the dishes on this table, slept on the bed and read the magazine after taking a shower, when Lin Anhang came back in the middle of the night, I was already asleep, and when I raised my eyes, I happened to see him take off his suit and go to the bathroom.
I lay in bed and didn't move, he came out of the bathroom and lay down next to me tiredly and gently, reaching for the light.
I rolled over and hugged him, and he stiffened and asked me, "You haven't slept yet." ”
I said, "Just woke up, why did you come back so late." ”
Lin Anhang said, "The company works overtime at night, and this time is quite inhumane. ”
As he spoke, his voice gradually lowered, probably because he was sleepy, but I had waited for him for so long, and he was sleeping for me now, and it was really not a taste to hold his breath in my heart.
So I reached out and kissed him sensitively, but he didn't respond, just said, "Stop making a fuss, sleep." ”
I said, "Anhang, I have a baby." ”
He slept in a daze, "How is it possible, you haven't been pregnant for so long." ”
I said, "One day a few months ago, you had a drink at your company's annual meeting. ”
He said, "Wasn't that day a safe period for you?"
I said, "I'm not on the safe side." ”
He said impatiently, "If you are pregnant, you will be pregnant, turn around and sleep on your own, and ignore me again." ”
The next day, Lin Anhang woke up very early in the morning and went to work, and I texted him to ask if he remembered what I told him last night.
He replied to me, "What did you say last night?"
I replied with two words, "It's fine." ”
Then I began to calm down and start working, I have been married to Lin Anhang for five years, and I married him at the age of twenty, because my sister was not married until she was twenty-eight years old, but the second elder of my family died urgently.
Every year, when the eldest sister comes back from work and goes on vacation, her parents will nag her and ask her if she has a boyfriend or something.
My sister has a fiery temper, and if my parents ask too much, they will slap the table and quarrel.
When my sister was twenty-nine years old, she was approached by a woman who said that my sister had been her husband's mistress outside for many years, and scolded my parents for raising something without shame.
My sister was still out of town on a business trip at the time, so she didn't know what was going on at home.
That woman is noisy and noisy in my house, my parents have been very loyal and honest since childhood, and they can't listen to the slightest gossip from others, and the woman who ran out of the corner didn't know where to make such a fuss at my door, and all the neighbors knew about it.
Even took me out to buy an egg cake, someone pointed at me, just like a star on TV, it's really surprising that my family has such a thing, and going out is the same as cheating on the article.
My dad was furious, and he hurriedly called my sister to recruit her back.
When my sister came back, the family was already jumping around, and the woman squatted at my house many times, and finally looked forward to the opportunity to wait for my sister to come back.
When my sister was walking in front of the house, she was dazed by those who pointed at her, and the woman who claimed to be in the main room rushed over and grabbed my sister's well-groomed hair, and scolded, "You vixen! Seduce my husband, I have given him two children! You are so shameless to seduce him! You get out of my company!"
In the end, I learned that the object of my sister's cheating was the boss of her company, and the two often traveled together, and the business trip was ten days and half a month, which lasted longer than Mrs. Obama's visit to China.
I'm just surprised, why is my sister not in a hurry to get married at this age, I am anxious to jump her feet.
This was originally the case.
Since then, my parents have been scared that I would follow my sister's old path, saying that they don't have a lot of old faces to lose to our sister.
As soon as I reached the legal age, I was bustling with a blind date.
After more than ten phases, I finally fell in love with Lin Anhang, who was ten years older than me, because they said that if a man is ten years older than a woman, 50% of the popular topics about cheating can be split.
Men almost reach that age and don't have much energy to cheat.
So in view of this, and felt that his family background was okay, so they talked for a few months, and the two of them were satisfied and got married.
When I got married, I was not even twenty-one, I was really a virgin, and a blank piece of paper was painted by him with strange symbols, and now I have a lot of feelings.
It is indeed safer to find a man who is ten years older, but I can't find any passion for love from him, it's more like a company process, day after day, year after year.
Bland, terrible.
But now there is no turning back for me to choose, I am also a person who loves stability, my sister's past is really a shadow in my heart, I don't want to go to the point of being so sad as her, for a man, burying my marriage in vain waiting.
Men's lies are told by liars to fools, and only she believes them.