If only they could, they wouldn't have to do any of these things. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. ｂｉｑUｇE。 ｉｎｆｏ

This idea is not the first time that Brother Zhao has come up.

Like to do, willing to do, and must do are three completely different concepts.

It's a pity that they are now in the last stage of what they must do, and they can't escape it if they don't want to, and if they don't do it, then wait to be hungry!

The weather was big, and there was no delay, so several people hurriedly set foot on the way home.

The distance is so far, several people have done some protection, one person has a wreath of leaves on his head to shade the shade, and the back basket has also made a wide leaf block, walking on the road without distractions, is the best time for communication and education.

Not only did it kill the boring time, it was not easy to feel tired, but compared to the boring rush, no matter what it said, it was interesting and impressive.

What Brother Pan is talking about now is the Xu butcher who impressed her very deeply: "Eldest sister, the boss who sells meat looks so fierce, scared to death, I see that he talks to his lady so well, and I thought it would be like this to us, but I didn't expect to be very soft when talking to us." ”

"Well, because we are his guests, he is in business, so naturally he wants to value harmony, if he is really vicious to the guests, who will go to him to buy things? ”

"Eldest sister, are you saying that when he scolds his wife, isn't it that he wants to scold him like that? But if he doesn't think that in his heart, how hurtful it is for him to say that! If you and the second sister scold me very fiercely, I will be sad to death!"

"Well, yes, there are many people who are like this boss, casual to their families, polite to outsiders, as if they are better to outsiders than to their families, but this boss is probably more temperamental, and it is more extreme to look at. However, this is actually very bad. ”

Brother Zhao took a break before he continued: "Sometimes we look at things, not only to see what others say, but also to see how he does it, and then we have to observe it in combination with some details around us. ”

My heart moved, this is an excellent teaching material!

"You see, what we see is that this boss is very fierce, loves to scold, and speaks very unpolitely to his wife, and her wife is obviously accustomed to it, then, we can infer that at home, they must also talk like this, so that his wife is used to it, and chooses to do what he says and ignore the tone of his speech.

However, it would be a mistake to think that he was not good to his wife in this way. Do you pay attention, on such a hot day, the boss is fat, and he is more afraid of heat than us, but, that's it, he also hugged his son on his body, which shows how precious his son is, but when he asked his wife to take the child back, he put the child on the ground.

Why?

Usually you all rush to get heavy things, isn't it because you feel sorry for your sister? I'm afraid that my sister is tired, my sister knows that my sisters are the most well-behaved!

The reason is the same, the boss lady looks at a very delicate person, but I believe that the child can still be moved. The boss would rather his most precious son walk, but in fact, he doesn't want to tire her out.

Look at her dress again, just look at her alone, probably others think that her family is richer, so she wears better than others, and has more jewelry than others, but she knows it when she is with the boss, although she wears fine cotton, but the boss wears coarse cloth like us, which shows that although their family is probably richer than others, it is not much more, that's it, she can still dress like this, it must be because the boss is close to her and the child first, right?

But today we buy so much, and there is nothing left, so the boss keeps the best of the best, and the others want it first? How can we remember to keep what others want for at the moment? It must be kept for the family, right?"

The experience of recruiting her brother in her previous life made her very sensitive to the attitude of others, and it was almost the same as sending people under the fence, and others were sincere and false to her, and she naturally learned to distinguish after a long time, not to mention, she was twelve years old in her life, and she had almost been lying in bed for twelve years, and she was extremely bored, so she naturally studied the details of other people's words and deeds very thoroughly, plus she watched so many bloody dramas in her previous life, and it was an exaggeration to exaggerate, but she watched all the plots that ordinary people could not think of, not to mention anything else, if she wanted to guess what god development, it would not be difficult for her。

It's just that understanding is understanding, and she knows more about how bad some habits are, which is what she wants to teach her younger siblings the most: "So, because it's a family, not only is it good for her in behavior, but also in language." Although the boss lady doesn't speak, who will be happy to be said like this? understand, I know that what I say is not good, but my heart is good, at most it is uncomfortable, but if I don't understand, there will be dissatisfaction in my heart, and there will be more accumulation, and then it will be a family, there will be dislikes, you know?

And the most undesirable thing is to talk about things at home as outsiders.

Sometimes when you are tired and anxious, you will inevitably get angry at your family, not only because your family is the closest to you, but even if you say and do something, it will be over. It is also because of the fact that when you are angry with outsiders, there will always be unpredictable consequences, which will cause big or small troubles, and with your family, at least you don't have to think about so many consequences, which also makes your temper more difficult to bear. Take 10,000 steps back and say, if you have grievances, if you don't vent with your family, who else can you vent with?

Although it is not good, the family can really understand.

But it's different in front of outsiders, others don't think about it so much, whether intentionally or unintentionally, just say a few words that add fuel to the fire, sometimes the matter changes, the grievances will be infinitely magnified, and the accumulation will be too much, even if it is a family member, there will be resentment.

So, you have to remember that no matter who you are dealing with, you must save face when someone is present, otherwise small things can sometimes turn into big things.

Also, no matter what happens in your own home, when you go out, you can't take it outside, in this world, there is no one closer than the five of us, if we don't twist into a rope ourselves, who else can we rely on?

However, if someone bullies us, then there is no need to save face for him, some people will always take your patience as a nest, if you give in for the first time, it will only make him even more bullying, and no one in our family can let others bully.

In the future, we will know more people, and we will protect our own people that we recognize, people's hearts are exchanged for people's hearts, and you yourself are hypocritical, so don't think about others being honest with each other, do you know?"